As a parent, what joy and growth has parenting brought you?

When you interact with your child, your child will use his cute language to say a lot of warm things to you, even if he is sometimes naughty, you will feel very cute after you get angry at the time, and feel that you should not lose your temper casually, after all, he is still young.

It is in this day after day, year after year, that I grow up in loveliness and hatefulness. Your stuff is actually the child who taught us how to be a 60-point parent. Some of your child's language will remind you of what you are not doing right and what you can empathize.

In fact, when we get along with each other, we are also running in and learning from each other.

I am very happy every day, and I have also gained self-growth in the process of raising this child, because I have to make progress every day, I have to keep up with the pace of their growth every day, and I have to continue to learn parenting knowledge, understand their true thoughts in their hearts, and re-cultivate from the heart to the body.

Playing with children, I think of my childhood, as if I have become a child, play more with children, we even become good friends, when educating children, we often find that they are not doing well, those are their own shortcomings.

In the process of raising children, the happiest thing is to discover what I was like when I was a child. In this moment, he not only made me feel that my child had grown up, but also allowed me to experience even a moment of childhood for myself. I have always been opposed to parents raising their children into another self, or relying on various parenting methods to prevent their children from "being themselves", so I have been in the process of raising a baby, and I will not be very deliberate to let him have those characteristics that I considered "good habits" when I was a child, which many people think.

Today I was doing yoga to avoid disturbing the baby, so I gave him cookies to eat next to him. The son is only one year old, and he can only walk with his hands, let go and walk independently, and can walk up to seven steps, which is the premise. As I was doing this, I felt the baby walk behind me from the side of the bed, and then I hurriedly turned around, afraid that he would fall, and I saw him holding a biscuit in one hand in my direction, trembling, and then jumped forward two steps, and quickly held my shoulder with his other little hand for fear that he would fall.

I was still thinking that cookies can't make you trick-or-treating, but he actually handed them to my mouth and let me eat them. Seeing that I finished eating, I was still laughing, and my eyes were smiling. My old mother, the mood at that time, it is not an exaggeration.

I feel that I am taking care of the baby full-time, and it is still worth it.

Raising children is a process of growing together. Looking at the child's cute and innocent appearance is like seeing your own mother take care of herself. Full of happiness. It's not easy for my own mother.

Raising a child, in fact, a casual little action will bring us happiness, sometimes he will unintentionally imitate you, learn from you, just a little adult! Children are sometimes very naughty, and we may not be able to control our temper, but after seeing their innocent little faces! We especially regret that we should not be so angry with him for his ignorance!

In the future, when you lose your temper, you will try to restrain yourself, and slowly your bad temper will be worn away! As our children grow up, we as parents are also growing up.

My daughter, because of her, I became more courageous. Breastfeeding until the age of two years was raised, and there were many doubts during the period. Although I will also be wronged, I still refute them one by one and insist on myself.

And what a weak person I used to be! Pleasing and pandering, there is no ego at all. Because of her, my ego began to awaken.

I began to learn to say no and began to think about my own needs. Because I love myself, I can love her better.

As a novice mother, it is quite rewarding to see your child's growth and progress every day. I feel like my life has been extended. Feel more meaningful about your life.

The two years since the birth of my little fat man are probably the most fulfilling two years since I was born. Before giving birth, I hated babies very much, and I thought it was a troublesome species, except for crying and urine, but I don't know why, the moment I learned that I was pregnant, I decided to give birth without hesitation, which is probably motherhood? There are too many happy fragments with my son, and what I can remember in the past two years is basically these happiness, the pain of giving birth to a child, the tiredness of raising a child, and the past is over, and I will not feel at ease at all.

My daughter, she made me believe in the infinite possibilities of life. Life is a repetition of the day. But she is always growing and changing, and there are many challenges and opportunities in the daily repetition.

I don't feel like my life is like this, I can see the end at a glance, because there are endless possibilities in her life, and I am inspired to explore the possibilities of my life.

She inspires that better me. I took her to make all sorts of friends. I sang loudly with her and danced in the crowd.

On rainy days, we watch the rain together and play with the rain. I often walk with her, pick flowers, pick fallen leaves, and blow dandelions. Everything is small, and everything becomes beautiful.

Wrote a lot of poems for her. Because, only with her, I have a poetic life.

She loved me very much, only she still treated me like a princess, only she wanted to play with me when I was angry and embarrassed, and said to me, "Mom, don't be angry, be happy." "She kissed and hugged me every day, and said to me every day

I love you, mom. "I am so loveless, and I am fortunate to be unconditionally loved by the most beautiful little angel in the world. She was completely dependent on me and made me feel my sense of worth, the meaning of my existence.

It's satisfying to watch your child grow up.

Once, I lost 100 yuan in the drawer, I thought it was the child who stole it, and beat him, and then the investigation made it clear that it was a student who stole it, I felt guilty, but the child said tolerantly: It's okay, those who don't know are not guilty! Since then, I have stopped making subjective assumptions and acting according to my feelings, which is what my children have taught me.

Every word I say with a smile makes me feel very happy.

How to put it, the meaning of many things in the world needs to be made up by yourself.

Some people like to collect figurines and buy them with a lot of money, what's the point of a bunch of silicone plasticine!

Some people like to buy bags, flashy, can they be better than a five-dollar canvas bag!

Some people like to lie down and have fun, life is short, no matter how hard you work when you are old, you don't just kick your legs and burp fart!

What is the meaning, that is, what you believe can give you strength, to put it bluntly, it is like a carrot hanging in front of a donkey's head, some are hung by others, and some are hung by yourself.

You said that strong economic ability = self-pension = no need to have children, rich = no need for children, so it can be roughly seen that the meaning you give to having a child is to let him earn money for your retirement. This matter is indeed very risky, and it is very likely that the gains outweigh the losses in order to have children for the elderly.

Both are important, and the future is related to the fate of the child. And happiness makes children more hopeful in life. But you can't have both. Let's choose to be happy! There is no happiness at all, no matter how much he learns, no matter how good he is in the future, he will feel meaningless.

A person's life is those decades. It's the same whether you learn well or not. If you learn well, at most, you can find some work.

If you don't learn well, you can also eat with your hands. And what the future holds, let the children choose for themselves. Whether it's hard or tired, he won't blame you, the child's own life has his own choice.

Some parents force their children to study for the sake of their children's future, but the children choose to commit suicide and leave this world under pressure. It's too late to regret it. So some things are forced not to come.

He can learn if he wants to, and if he doesn't want to learn, go with the flow! It is useless to persecute him, and it is not necessarily good to study. Some even get worse and worse the more persecution.

So don't force your child to study. What is good for your child, have you considered his feelings?

There are a lot of people who come out of school now. However, a lot of the knowledge you have learned may not be used in the future, and you may not be able to use it in your life. And what about happiness?

It can make him hopeful in life, so that he will be interested in the future. Only if he is interested in the future, will he consciously pursue and learn. Active learning is more effective than passive learning.

In short, a happy childhood is priceless, and time does not turn back. And no one can say what the future holds. Let's go with the flow! Accept the ordinariness of your child and let yourself go.

Of course, the most important thing is the child's happiness. The happy growth of children also includes listening to their parents and respecting them very much. When parents say every word, the child will remember it in his head, of course, if you ask him to read carefully or solve the problem that he can't do, he will also listen to you seriously.

Therefore, children's happy grades can still rise.

Is the future important or is the child's happiness important?

In China's education, grades are usually used to illustrate the problem.

But this also reflects some misunderstandings or problems.

1.Poor grades mean poor ability, doing things that are meaningless to parents, and have no future.

2.Good grades mean good ability, bright future, listen to all the words of your parents, and move forward.

These issues and represent all homeschooling as such.

From this generation onwards, should learning be the main thing, and happiness second? It is obvious that this is wrong, happiness is a person's mind, and learning is an act. The two should complement each other, find happiness in learning, produce learning in happiness, and do not limit a person's thinking space, so as to maximize the expansion of people's progress.

I don't think there can be a single conclusion about which is more important, happiness or learning. As a student, during adolescence, the mind will always be more active than that of young children, adults, and old age. Before studying, you may be interested or bored, obviously this is a process of making choices, everyone is born with different qualifications, so making the right choice will be different, so it will produce different grades, in the general belief that things are correct?

What is not commonly believed, is wrong? Is there a big difference between a good student and a bad student? The answer is:

Not necessarily. Learning is to enrich your life, to explore and explore unknown things, so that the world will not be as vague in your mind as it was at the beginning, but if you are bored with learning, you need to adjust yourself, and turn the knowledge of others or things into your own, isn't it a good thing? There is also forced study, which will not only not feel happy or positive, but will make one's interest decrease.

Happiness, people in this life will be "sweet", before this, you need to learn to curb your own indulgence, concentrate on paying, pay your time and sweat, so that you will taste the real "sweet" taste, how sweet the taste is, it is up to you to decide, if you do not do much, then "bitter" will make you repent, you see a thing, very interested, you will actively learn about the relevant information. If you are not interested, but you have to understand, you will feel bored or impatient, and the current reality is like this, if you don't work hard, you can't improve yourself. It is human nature to be playful, but people who grow up gradually will let go of some time-wasting behaviors, and parents will play a role in counseling, so that children can grow up on the right values, understand the child reasonably, and communicate with him (her) often, you will know whether your approach is correct.

Learning is important, but happiness is indispensable, and both are important. The two complement each other and make people grow faster!

Although the future is extremely important to the child, it is more important than the child's happiness, and it is the child's happiness that can teach him well.

The future matters. But at the same time, we should also pay attention to the happiness of the child, if he has a psychological problem now, let alone the future.

If I were raising children, I would think that the happiness of children is the most important thing. Few people have a happy childhood, if you have a happy childhood, then the child will also want to run in the direction of happiness, then he will take the initiative to learn, to do something, but if you choose the future is important, force the child to learn, the child will hate learning, which is very bad for her future.

Raising a child at a very young age is more important to be happy, because a good childhood can last a lifetime. When he is a little older, he should be taught the importance of the future.

For children, I think happiness is the most important thing. Although the future needs to work hard, if a child does not have a happy and healthy mind, then his life will be gone.

Spend time with your children and play with them often, but also respect each other and grow together.

Guarantee his basic material life. Enrich his spiritual world. Guide him on his growth path. Shaping his personality. Let him grow up happily.

I think parents should always be by their children's side and understand their children's thoughts, so that they can better guide their children.