If I want to find a virtuous girl to be my girlfriend, is my standard outdated?

How can <> become obsolete? It's hard to understand that you have to be a lazy girlfriend who will only mess around. My parents and elders often told me:

When looking for a partner, you must be a thoughtful and virtuous girl who can do things. I also agree with this, everyone's criteria for finding a girlfriend may be different, some are looking for good-looking, some are looking for lively and outgoing, but for the quality of virtue, I believe most men will pay more attention.

Nowadays, many girls grow up in a superior environment, and their parents are more pampered. There is almost no need to do housework at home, and there is basically no need to worry about cooking and laundry, and I have developed the habit of reaching out for food to open my mouth, giving people the feeling that I will not do anything, and I will not do anything after getting married. This led to some in-laws complaining about their son:

How did you find such a lazy wife, who is so virtuous, you are not inclined to it. This is also an important reason for the contradictions between many mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, and most of a virtuous daughter-in-law is liked.

There is such an example around me, my aunt has two sons, and the daughter-in-law married by the eldest son is not highly educated, does not talk much, is very good at doing things, and is very easy-going in life, which belongs to a typical virtuous woman. The daughter-in-law married by the younger son does not know how to do housework, and she also buys online every day in her life and calls for takeout, and the aunt complains and complains when she meets people, saying how can there be such a daughter-in-law, and often quarrels with the younger daughter-in-law, and the process of getting along with the eldest daughter-in-law is very harmonious.

Sometimes finding a virtuous girlfriend really saves a lot of worry, after all, living together, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea all have to be involved. Of course, the standard thing is not dead, sometimes I meet the right person, and it's good to really like it.

Are you more inclined to find a beautiful girlfriend or a virtuous one? What is the reason?

1.Choose a virtuous one, because it will make you feel a lot easier. Whether it is beautiful or virtuous, the important thing is that you love this person very much, if you really love someone very much, and have a fate with someone, you should not care about being beautiful and virtuous, as long as you stay by your side.

I don't want my own wife to be beautiful, I just want her to be a virtuous woman. can take on the responsibility of taking care of this family with me, and is willing to accompany me to endure hardships myself, then such a woman, I will definitely do my best to be good to her. My parents will definitely treat her as their own daughter, after all, the old people like their daughter-in-law to be a virtuous woman who knows how to take care of the family.

2.When you choose a beautiful girl, you have to understand that it is impossible for this girl to give you a virtuous wife, because she is beautiful, and most beautiful people have their own temper. She can't help you take care of everything in the house, such as doing housework, taking care of the children, taking care of the elderly, and then taking care of you like a virtuous wife after marriage.

Because she is beautiful, she has many suitors herself, or has had many suitors who spoil her, love her, and love her, so she is a pampered girl since she was a child. The environment in which she lives is that she is the protagonist, and she doesn't need to think about whether others will be happy, let alone change herself for someone.

3.Know how to say thank you to a man. A virtuous woman usually knows that men do not deserve what they give to themselves, but what they pay for themselves.

In order to make men cherish their contributions, virtuous women usually know how to cherish men's contributions first, and they will thank men in person, so that men feel that their efforts are not in vain. You may feel that these women's actions are weak and useless, but it turns out that these women who know how to thank men can get more men. In fact, respect between people is mutual.

When women take men's contributions for granted and turn a blind eye, men will also spontaneously turn a blind eye to women's contributions.

I'm more inclined to find a more virtuous girlfriend; Because the virtuous girlfriend is very family-oriented and can keep the house in order.

You definitely need to find a virtuous wife who can help you get better and better in life, and you won't let yourself worry a lot, and you can be a powerful assistant if you suffer a lot.

I will find a beautiful one, I will be very handsome, I will be very happy every day, and there will be no troubles.

How do boys usually praise their girlfriends?

Kua Chun Ji Chong is beautiful, lovely, gentle, intelligent, and virtuous. Wait, the first one is fine, but in the end, the word "virtuous" may anger your girlfriend, so you need to be cautious when using it!

We used to think of "virtuous" as a compliment, and "good luck" was a compliment to women's good qualities, but now, more and more women are seeing it as a derogatory term.

According to a survey on the Internet, nearly 8 percent of the "post-95" women are not limited to the role of "good wife and mother", and most of them aspire to become "financially independent strong women" or "maverick cool women".

The word "virtuous" used to praise women for being virtuous, so that they could follow three virtues and four virtues, and three outlines and five constants; Today, it is a metaphor for a woman who is virtuous and wise, who loves her son and runs a family, and who teaches her son well.

From ancient times to the present, the description of virtuous can be said to be a combination of all the advantages of women, but for contemporary women, praising them for being virtuous means requiring them to focus on their families and live according to the requirements expected by people, which is the shackles of the old society. Do annihilation.

Let's put it this way, do you want to choose a girlfriend or a future wife, if you choose a girlfriend, it will definitely be more suitable for beauty, but if you are choosing a future wife, then I think you can consider choosing that virtuous girl. So why do you choose a beautiful one when choosing a girlfriend and a virtuous one when choosing a future wife?

The reason is that you choose a beautiful girl, you have to understand that this girl can't give you a virtuous wife, because she is beautiful, and most beautiful people have their own temper, and she can't help you take care of everything in the house like a good wife after marriage, such as doing housework, taking care of children, taking care of the elderly, and then taking care of you.

Because she is beautiful, she herself has a lot of suitors, or has had a lot of suitors who spoil her, love her, and love her, so she is a girl who has grown up spoiled, and the environment she lives in is that she is the protagonist, she doesn't need to think about whether others will be happy, and she doesn't need to change herself for someone.

So she pursues you first, but it doesn't mean that she is the weak person after being together, on the contrary, maybe she will dominate your love, she also asks you to spoil her, be good to her, love her, like a child, she can't do housework, can't do laundry, can't mop the floor, won't help you take care of your parents, and even she needs you to take care of her.

Such a girl is only suitable for a sweet love, but she is not suitable for marrying home.

But the virtuous girl in the back may not be very beautiful, maybe not very interesting, but she can do all the things that the beautiful girls above can't do very well, so after you marry her, you basically belong to the kind without worries, you just need to concentrate on your work, but this type of girl may be a little worse in terms of taste. So it depends on what you're looking for.

Then you are going towards the purpose of marriage, just choose the virtuous one, so that you will be much easier, after all, there is less worry, if you don't have any plans in this regard, you can try to be beautiful, and take it out with a light on your face.

Of course, it's beautiful and virtuous! But you can't have it both ways, it mainly depends on whether you like a person's appearance or inner beauty.

The girlfriend should be beautiful, and the wife should be virtuous.

Of course, it would be better if the two coexisted.

The happy life of a friend of mine has successfully taught us how happy it is to have a virtuous girlfriend.

First of all, her girlfriend made a good dish, and fed this guy white and fat, we asked her if she fed him fat, you don't dislike it. Her girlfriend told us with a shy face that he belonged to her only after feeding him fat, because others didn't look down on him anymore, and as a single dog, we could only suffer silently.

The second is the wearing of clothes, to be honest, my buddy's usual outfit can be described as very casual, but after having a girlfriend, the clothes have directly risen n grades, even if the body is slightly fat, it makes people look very comfortable, and there is no feeling of a greasy middle-aged man.

Of course, it's mutual, my friend is also very good to her girlfriend, often giving her some small surprises and small gifts, and I really put my mind to it, hoping that they can come together happily in the latest days.

Having a particularly virtuous girlfriend must be a blessed experience, because there are little things at home that are done for your girlfriend, so you will have a lot of time to enjoy happiness, and it is a good thing for girls to be virtuous, but as a man, you must be content, don't have a virtuous girlfriend, you don't want to do anything, and you have time to help around, so that lovers will feel happier.

I think it's a very happy experience, because your girlfriend is very sensible. In this way, you will save a lot of effort, and he will not usually be distressed with you, you will not be okay to coax him, you can also help you cook and eat when you are at home, and he is very understanding, I think this is really happy.

My girlfriend is very virtuous, she gets up in the morning and makes breakfast for me, washes my feet in the evening, and the most important thing is that she will save me money, never like other girls, I know that my boyfriend wants to pack cosmetics, I bought him a slightly more expensive gift, he will feel distressed for many days, especially moved me.

Having a particularly virtuous girlfriend will feel like a sister or a woman like a mother, who will keep your life in order, so that you can work outside with peace of mind, because there are people at home who can make you feel at ease, and will also make some delicious meals to fill your stomach, so it is a very happy thing to have a particularly virtuous girlfriend.

I feel very relaxed and happy. Think about how happy you are after a tiring day, and there is a steaming meal waiting for you at home after work. And she will also be very considerate of herself, knowing her preferences, and the trivial things in life can be taken care of properly, and she will save a lot of worry!

It can be said that she is a very happy thing, and I feel that I am the happiest woman in the world.

Like my girlfriend is very beautiful, and very virtuous, particularly educated, cultivated, and polite in her speech, especially with her parents, she is also very patient, and she is very polite when talking to my parents.

I have been dating my girlfriend for two years, and she has taken good care of me during the relationship. Every morning after waking up, she would prepare my socks and clothes for me and make me breakfast. I didn't know what to do for him to repay her, so I had to give her a perfect wedding.