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I think the best way to maintain your dignity and principles is not to be a spare tire, no matter how much you like a person, don't be a spare tire, I think this is the bottom line, but also the last dignity, love someone, of course you can go to live for her, die for her, but spare tire, as long as you become the moment, you have no dignity and principles at all.
As a spare tire but also dignity and principle of people, I think there is no explanation, and I don't agree with the practice of being a spare tire, love is two loves, but not a person for the happiness of another person would rather wait alone until old age.
The word spare tire itself does not have any dignity and principles, at least in love. Do you think, as a spare tire, being called by a loved one, and going away, it seems that there is no bottom line and dignity in itself, life is not easy, why run to be a spare tire for others?
But if you really plan to be a spare tire, I think you must have to bear a lot of it, on the one hand, you have to have a good understanding of people who can't love, knowing that you are a spare tire and willingly do a lot of things, very stupid, but love is so magical, and many people have gone mad and can't extricate themselves.
I think when you are a spare tire, at least at the moment when you know that you are a spare tire, you should decisively give up your spare tire identity, no matter how much you love him, since he doesn't love you, then why love her? Or the identity of a spare tire? At this time, the greatest dignity is to choose to give up this fruitless relationship, and you can't hesitate.
Dignity is given to oneself, and no one can trample on your dignity as long as you don't want to.
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This makes me wonder, why would you be willing to be a spare tire for someone else?
When you do what you think is a reasonable or even great act, you have been demoted in the hearts of others, and your dignity and your principles are no longer worth so much.
There are many spare tires in this world, but most people are quietly used as spare tires by each other, and this spare tire is not aware of it at all.
This is completely different from your willingness to be a spare tire, I don't know where the person you like is sacred, how to make you so righteous when you are a spare tire.
But fortunately, you are not terminally ill, at least you know that being a spare tire is indeed not so proud, and you are afraid that you will lose your principles by accident.
What do you have to worry about this? Since it is a spare tire, it must be living in obscurity in front of the other party, if you really want to live so high-profile, it is not a spare tire, but a blatant love rival of others.
If you don't want to lose your dignity and principles, then you don't want to be a hero, don't tell people that you are waiting for him, if he breaks up, let him come back to you, you are another safe haven for him.
If you do this, then there is no way to save your dignity and your principles. If you really like him, bless him. I wish him a good walk with his current object, maybe people are really happy now, maybe he won't be so happy after being with you, maybe you won't be so happy.
Sometimes we don't necessarily have to force a result, sometimes it's harder to give up than to get, but giving up is not necessarily cowardly, and getting it is not necessarily glorious.
Where is there no grass at the end of the world, and I am afraid that true love will not be found? If you want to live a meaningful and valuable life, then you have to improve yourself, slowly accumulate your self-confidence, and maybe one day someone will be a spare tire for you.
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If you want to be a spare tire, then there is no dignity and principle to talk about! If you want to maintain your dignity and principles, then don't be a spare tire. What's so good about a spare tire?
Can it be appreciated? Can it be exchanged for your lifetime of happiness? Stop dreaming, can't, can't everything is impossible!
Why do you need to make a spare tire when you know your spare tire? What is there about that person that you can't let go of so much? No matter how good he is, just by letting you be a spare tire, this man is not worthy of your love!
It's not worth it for him! A good man will not let his dear woman get hurt, and he will not let his dear woman suffer the slightest grievance.
In other words, you don't know how to respect yourself, so how can you get others to respect you? You are practicing yourself as a spare tire, so how can others treat you wholeheartedly? Wake up, for the sake of your dignity, be a principled person!
Stop wasting your feelings on someone who isn't here with you.
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A: Do not make spare tires.
Because the moment you know that you are a spare tire, you have voluntarily given up your dignity and principles. Because in the middle of any love relationship, there should be only two protagonists in the game of Go, and it is absolutely impossible to become a happy landlord with three people.
And you were willing to give up all your choice to be a spare tire, just out of love. Because love makes you ignore your feelings and wronged yourself to make many behavioral decisions that go against your values and heart. I don't think it's wrong for you to love someone, but it's wrong for you to love someone you shouldn't love.
This is like a classic scene in "Dragon Babu". Qiao Feng loves the late Ah Zhu, and Ah Zi loves his brother-in-law, and You Tanzhi admires Ah Zi with all his heart. The difference here is that You Tanzhi is a spare tire, and Ah Zi is unrequited love.
Why? Because Qiao Feng has never used Ah Zi to do anything for him, he knows Ah Zi's feelings for him, but he definitely treats him politely. But You Tanzhi was used by Ah Zi in various ways and harmed by all kinds of pits, even if he lost his eyes, he was still willing to serve it, and finally sacrificed his life for Ah Zi.
Is You Tanzhi a sample of the fate of a spare tire? Or are you afraid that your infatuation will also become the same fate as You Tanzhi? Like the ** plot, if at the end of the day, the person you like now throws all your kindness to her and your dedication to her, like Ah Zi picking out her own eyes, throwing it on you and shouting at you, I don't owe you anymore.
What kind of mood would you be in at that time?
No one should be humble in their relationship, and no one should use their liking as a weight to take advantage of others.
I think that as a spare tire, the goal is often to become a regular, but I have not deeply considered the life after becoming a regular. Suppose one day you complete the gorgeous transformation of a spare tire and turn to the top position. All you have to think about is maintaining a stable and happy relationship.
But is the person you choose really fit to be with you? Will it be with you for a long time? A person who is entangled in emotions and repeatedly does not know how to refuse, will you really feel secure about her in your future life?
If someone else shows up, will you be broken up immediately?
The person who makes you a spare tire often suffers from gains and losses in relationships, and is not a person who values feelings.
A person who cherishes feelings will know how to like someone's sweetness and also know how to pursue someone's bitterness. So she knows that she doesn't like you, and she will make it clear to you, and she won't be ambiguous with you, so that you always think that you have hope. I won't use you to crowd out loneliness and become her shield.
This kind of person who plays feelings, no matter how beautiful he is, is not worthy of your admiration.
So for you, it's not how to protect your dignity and principles when making a spare tire, but just refusing to be a spare tire. There are many other people in the world, better people, so don't lose more of the right opportunities because of one wrong choice.
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The best way to uphold your dignity and principles is not to be a spare tire.
Why use it as a spare tire for someone else? What is the essential difference between a person who has a spare tire and a person who raises a mistress outside? When you are bored with your partner, you can find another person to relax and have fun.
Do you really dare to like such a person who doesn't take his feelings seriously and even leaves a way out for himself in his relationship?
Yes, you are his spare tire, so can you guarantee that he has no spare tire other than you?
Personally, I think that when it comes to falling in love, the least thing you should do is to have no reservations. Now that you're together, you're responsible for your relationship and for your own choices. You should be wholeheartedly good to your other half.
In this case, how can there be a spare tire?
The very existence of a spare tire is a blasphemy of feelings.
We can like someone, and even when the person you like already has a home of their own, you can still like him. But be aware that this liking should be silent, heartfelt, and not interfere with other people's lives. After all, the relationship is your own, and even you can't control it, so what qualifications do others have to gossip.
But at the very least, you shouldn't interfere with other people's normal lives for the sake of this relationship. This is a trampling on your own dignity and a contempt for your own feelings. You can't, and neither can the person you like.
If the person you like is using you as a spare tire, then I really advise you to give up early. If a person can treat your feelings as stored goods, taking them out when they need them and throwing them back when they don't need them, he obviously doesn't put your position on an equal footing with him. Then you go to be someone's spare tire, are you cheap?
If you want to be someone else's spare tire, then please share it with you. There are so many cars running on the street, and many of them have a spare tire in the back, but everyone is turning well, and you haven't seen that spare tire die beggar Bai Lai has to come down and run with him, right?
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Since it is said to be a spare tire. Do you still want dignity and principles? Shouldn't love be one-on-one? If you can allow a third person in the world of love, you should be prepared to die alone.
When you become a spare tire. If you don't want to leave yet. You have to strengthen your self-cultivation. Don't ruin people's feelings! If you feel like he's worth your persistence. Then you go ahead and be his spare tire.
People treat you like a spare tire. I just remembered you, and went to find you. When I can't remember, it's just cool.
That kind of lonely feeling, you should understand it yourself. What kind of love would humble you to the dust? I hope you won't regret it when you think about this relationship in the future.
Someone else's invitation comes and goes, do you think you are worthy of your own heart?
Everyone is greedy. I have given it, and I also want to be rewarded. When you blindly give, you find that you don't get what you want.
You will slack off day by day. No matter how deep the feelings are, they can't stand the grind. Man is also greedy.
If you have time to make a spare tire, it is better to find someone who treats you as your life. Life is about to be free and easy and happy, when you let go. You will find that life is all about good.
If you don't even love yourself, who do you expect to love you? You will have a thousand reasons to say that He loves you. But he loves you, why can't he be with you wholeheartedly.
In fact, sometimes it's all my own fantasy. All he can give you is lip service. He's still irresponsible.
It is enough to have a spare tire once. Find someone who truly loves you to marry. Be an extraordinary self.
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If you find that you are a spare tire, you should choose to leave, do not have such intentions, and do not have such thoughts.
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Now there are many unscrupulous young people who will take their feelings as playthings, looking for a lot of prey, as their ambiguous objects, there is a word to describe them, that is, "Sea King", their ambiguous object is their spare tire, so if the spare tire finds out the truth, how to leave with dignity? What is the best way to leave the spare tire?
First of all, if the spare tire wants to leave with dignity, you need to make up your mind first, give up this relationship, and no longer have the slightest emotion for him, and then you can find a new love and retaliate against him in a-for-tat way, because at this time, if you expose the other party, you will be embarrassed, so you can choose to find a new love openly, show affection in front of him and break up with him.
Secondly, the best way to leave the spare tire is to break up directly, and not tell him about his love, because he can treat other people as spare tires, indicating that he is a person who does not care about feelings, so in his eyes, the more he pours out his emotions, the more annoying people are.
All in all, once you find yourself being used as a spare tire, you must break up in time, even if you have many regrets, don't hesitate, because he is not worthy of other people's true feelings and true love for him at all, and it is also very difficult to make a prodigal son turn back.
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