What is the teacher most afraid of right now?

What teachers are most afraid of is not how bad the children's grades are, nor the number of people in the class, but whether there are children in the class, because of their own negligence, there is an unexpected situation. Because this means that the teacher has a direct responsibility, not only to bear the financial compensation, but also to lose the job.

I'm an elementary school teacher myself, so I know it's a high-risk profession in our industry. Children are always prone to some bumps and bumps in the class. Therefore, it requires teachers to put a lot of energy into paying attention to the safety of children.

I remember that at that time, there was a child in our school, because when he ran after class, he knocked out one of his front front teeth, and his parents came to the school to make trouble. In the end, in the hands of this teacher, 10,000 yuan was taken away.

The school ignores some of these behaviors and refuses to come forward. Therefore, once a student has a safety problem, the measures taken by the school are to hold the individual accountable, and let the teacher communicate with the parents to solve the problem. Although teachers do have responsibilities, there are many students in the school, and no one can guarantee that an accident will happen at any moment, which really makes many teachers worry all day long.

Teachers in each era will show different places, and there are many differences between the current teachers and the previous teachers. What teachers are most afraid of today is that because they are too responsible, they will cause children to have a burden on their minds, and then they can't think of doing some stupid things, causing teaching accidents, which is a situation that happens in many schools now.

Because it is possible that the current students' ability to bear is not as good as before, and the pressure of the current students is particularly great, so under the excessive strict requirements of the teacher, it is possible for some students to make suicide thoughts, and then do some stupid things, which is a situation that many teachers are afraid of, afraid that they will make a big deal because of this, so the requirements for students will gradually decline. <>

No one wants to be implicated in such a thing because of teaching, and when there are more situations, teachers will naturally be frightened, and they don't want such things to have anything to do with themselves, so many things can be passed and will not be too difficult for students.

I think the biggest fear of today's teachers is not knowing how to discipline children, in fact, children's growth is achieved through the joint supervision of teachers and parents.

In this process, it is inevitable that there will be too strict performance towards children, and we were beaten and scolded when we were children. But now the concept of education is different, not to beat and scold children or unprovoked corporal punishment, to advocate encouraging education.

Although Li'er is the same Li'er, is it just through encouragement? Can't a child criticize when he makes a mistake? Definitely not. <>

But how many of today's teachers dare to be fierce to children? Children are treasures in the hands of the family, and the little prince and princess who are spoiled at home are actually not so squeamish in the eyes of the teacher, but if the strict education method is changed, can the children accept it? Is it acceptable to parents?

Why are there more and more of them now? Why are more and more irresponsible teachers appearing now? In addition to the problem of teacher ethics, there is also a part of the practical factor, that is, it is too difficult to be a teacher.

is obviously sincere to the child, but in the end he is not understood, and he is broken one by one, who is willing to do his best? Therefore, only focusing on grades ignores the education of how children behave.

Nowadays, children's education is a concern for every family. As we all know, many children are now the treasures of the family, and they are really afraid of falling in their hands and afraid of melting in their mouths; Generally, children will go to kindergarten when they are four or five years old. And now the quality of the profession of teacher is also uneven.

Especially after the recent red, yellow and blue kindergarten group invasion of young children**, teachers have been put on the cusp. It can be said that the biggest fear of teachers now is the safety of children.

Of course, it is not excluded that some parents make a big fuss, and the teacher only punishes the child a little, and the parents will not let go, which will indeed make the teacher unable to educate. So what are the other things that teachers are most afraid of right now?

First, the safety of children.

A child's safety is not only physical, but also psychological. Good body and mind are the only ones who are truly healthy.

We all came from childhood, in fact, sometimes the teacher's small punishment can make us remember the lesson, but now parents are too spoiled by their children, and they have to find teachers to evaluate every punishment, which leads to teachers who dare not punish children and dare not educate children. Of course, education is not only a means of punishment, but punishment cannot be avoided.

2. Undisciplined children.

In schools, there are many children, and it is inevitable that teachers will not be able to take care of them. Once a child has a small accident, the teacher tells the student to pay attention in the future, but if the student does not accept it, it will be forgotten, and he will still confront the teacher in front of his classmates, and some even fight, in this case, the teacher will inevitably lose control of his temper and commit violence to the student. In serious cases, parents will also find teachers, causing teachers to be criticized and even lose their jobs.

In fact, for this situation, parents should figure out the situation, and then do a good job of ideological work with their children, and also communicate with teachers to try to avoid this situation from happening again.

In this society, it is not easy for everyone now, and I hope we can understand each other. Educating children is not only the responsibility of teachers, but also the duty of parents.

In the past, many teachers were most afraid of not being able to teach well. After all, education is based on educating people, and if students are not taught well, there will be a feeling of mistaking children. Indeed, education is not to be fooled.

There is a good saying: "Teacher, preach and teach to solve doubts." "The focus is on two aspects of a teacher's duties, one is to impart knowledge, and the other is to solve problems. And if the teacher does not teach well, the students will naturally learn badly. So, the pressure on teachers is still very high.

However, as time goes by, what teachers are most afraid of now is that students can't stand the pressure, and they are tired of school, skipping class, rebellious, suicidal, and so on.

Too many reports mention that the current students' psychological quality is relatively poor, their tolerance is limited, the adversity quotient is very low, and when they encounter a little bit of dissatisfaction, they will take all kinds of extreme measures to force teachers or parents to give in, and if they do not achieve their goals, they will jump off the building, commit suicide and so on.

Teachers have never been afraid of students. When we were studying at that time, we admired and feared the teacher in our hearts, for fear that the teacher would make you "trouble". But now, if a student is late or makes a mistake, not only can he not physically punish the student, but he must also be appeased, and he must not be unhappy, for fear that as long as he does not do a good job, the child will go to the extreme.

The child went to the extreme, the parents came to the door, and the parents sued the teacher for not managing it well, and they should not be strict with the child. But the school leaders are unaware, and only the teachers themselves know the suffering.

Therefore, the current teachers are very helpless, but there is no way, after all, the age is different, the children's family environment, and the degree of education are different. The most important thing is the education of psychological quality, which is really difficult to adapt to if you don't keep up with it in time, if you don't change your child's thinking and go to society in the future.

In fact, the teacher is most afraid of students committing suicide and jumping off the building, I used to always see such news, saying that a child did not do well in the exam, after seeing the class ranking, the teacher said two sentences, and then the parents knew the child's grades, indiscriminately, continued to teach two sentences, if the child's psychological tolerance is relatively fragile, it may not be able to think of it, so the current teachers are afraid of the poor psychological quality of the student, can not be scolded, a careless will die or live!

There is also a kind of parents that teachers are most afraid of, there is a kind of parents who are messing around, the children at home do not have good academic performance, and they generally only blame the teacher for not teaching well, and then dislike some of the words that the teacher said in the parent group, and then put the words of the teacher in the parent group, one accidentally put on the Internet, and then the teacher will be disciplined by the principal, and the serious may be expelled, so the teacher is now afraid of parents! Of course, I am more afraid that parents will put the teacher's words and deeds on the Internet! After all, online violence is too serious now!

When it comes to education, there is always an endless topic to talk about, and education is always an eternal topic for everyone. Whether it is a penniless poor family or a local tyrant with a lot of money, they all worry about their children's education.

However, now it seems that the most troublesome education is the teacher, and sometimes the teacher really takes the salary of selling cabbage and breaks the heart of the whole society.

What worries teachers the most?

One, fear of student safety.

In almost all schools, all teachers have reached a consensus: safety first, happiness second, and grades third. Safety has become the first priority in education, and if a school does not do a good job of safety, it will be criticized at least and transferred from the post.

Therefore, when the first class is held every day, the teachers check the number of students first and count enough before starting the class. If a student does not see the class, parents must be notified immediately. Sometimes I have to go to the student with the parents immediately, and there was a student in this class who didn't want to study and didn't come to class, so I had to contact the parents immediately, and the parents hurriedly went to the room to see, it turned out that he was still sleeping in the room.

Second, students who are afraid of disobedience.

In fact, unlike the safety problems of students who have accidents themselves, students who do not obey discipline are more harmful to the teacher's profession. Some students, when the teacher criticizes him, he not only accepts it with an open mind, but also confronts the teacher in class, at this time, if the teacher beats the student in anger for the sake of dignity, then the teacher's job may be lost. However, if you don't fight, the teacher's dignity will be lost in front of the students, and no one will ever mention to listen to the teacher's teachings anymore.

In the face of the student's provocation, the teacher is really difficult to ride a tiger!

Third, fear that the student's test score is too low.

Many teachers pay little attention to their children, but they put a lot of effort into worrying about the students they teach. After the midterm or final exams, they are very worried about whether their class will do well in the exams, and even worry about not eating and sleeping well. After all, the students I teach are like the crops planted by the farmers, and the test scores are not good, just like the farmers have a bad harvest, can they feel better?

If it's not good, I was criticized and questioned by the school leaders, even if the school leaders didn't care, if the grades were not good, they would be ranked, and if they were at the bottom of their class, the teacher's face would have nowhere to put it.

Fourth, fear of getting sick.

Anyone who has ever been a teacher knows that teachers will have laryngitis, cervical spondylosis and other occupational diseases. Being sick is the thing that worries me the most, but some teachers can only endure it because there is no one to help them with their classes. What's even more odious is that as a school leader, not only does not express sympathy, but also deducts the performance salary of the teacher who is sick and takes leave, and does not give the evaluation when the school leader is evaluated.

Even if the teacher takes sick leave, the lessons in his own class are still taken by himself, especially the students' homework is not corrected by anyone. Therefore, the teacher is still very afraid that he will get sick.

First, let the child feel the feelings that are being expressed. We should allow children to express their fears and dissatisfaction with their teachers. Parents can listen to their children's emotions with an accepting attitude.

For example, don't be afraid, what's scary, the teacher is good. In this way, it is actually a denial of the child's feelings and cannot help the child solve the problem. We should help children release negative emotions, such as we can say!

You get nervous when you see a teacher, don't you? Worried about making mistakes, right?

Let the children express this negative feeling. When emotions are processed, children can take our guidance to spontaneously generate positive coping strategies.

Second, giving false instructions to the teacher. Parents can make false decrees to teachers, saying that teachers approve, affirm, and encourage their children.

Some children think that the teacher criticizes him because he deliberately can't get along with him, or he doesn't like him. At this time, parents should make positive guidance. You see, the teacher is so busy and still paying attention to you, just to make you better, right?

If the teacher doesn't like you, he may not care about you at all. I believe that children will not be so afraid of teachers when they hear such explanations from their parents.

Third, communicate with the teacher. There was once a child who often disrupted the order, was criticized by the teacher, and then was very afraid of the teacher. Later, the teacher learned that it was because the child was severely restrained at home and the child was eager for it.

Cancel, release. Through mutual consultation between teachers and parents, they decided to change the education model.

At home, parents will give their children more space to move. At school, teachers often encourage children to express themselves more and go on stage more. After a period of time, the child becomes more focused in class, takes the initiative to raise his hand, often takes the initiative to chat with the teacher, dares to look into the teacher's eyes, and greets the teacher warmly.