May I ask if the two husbands and wives quarrel and ask the mother in law to apologize?

Any act of performance reflects the inner thoughts. The husband and wife quarrel and ask the mother-in-law to come forward, which is not right in itself, but premature conclusions will cover up the root of the matter, even if the two get together, the resentment will still regenerate. I think your wife must be dissatisfied with some aspect, whether she has a different opinion on some of your mother's practices, and when the husband and wife quarrel, they will impulsively escalate the dissatisfaction at that time to the surface.

In fact, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has existed for thousands of years, and it should not be said that the wife is too much just because of this, the man as a dual role, the son and the husband, should be used as a bridge for the reconciliation of contradictions. I hope you can get together as soon as possible, communicate well with her, and resolve the long-standing dissatisfaction in her heart.

It's normal for two husbands and wives to quarrel! Don't say it's because of trivial things, I think the problems between husband and wife should be: two people solve it by themselves, and the old man should not be involved anymore!

The bumpy road of life is completed by the two of you supporting each other, parents, it is impossible to accompany you forever By the way, I would like to give this sister-in-law a suggestion, a woman is half the sky, and the other half is there? Isn't it her husband? Don't let your man lose what little dignity he has in the family!!

Finally, I hope you two are happy! Happy! Be happy every day!!

There is no need to let the old people in the family know about the problems between the two of you, and besides, the old people don't know why you are quarreling, what is the matter with the old people in the family? If you have to let the old people in the family come to invite, it may be that your lover has been wronged, I hope your mother will comfort and comfort you, talk to your lover first, see what she thinks, try to talk about anything you all go home to talk about, there is no need to alarm the elderly, save it, and let the family worry about you.

First of all, I am also a wife, I have also quarreled with my mother-in-law, is the two of you quarreling because of your parents, if he really cares about you, you can convince her, or you go to your lover's side Indirectly call your mother** Let your mother give your daughter-in-law two words in **, just say, You don't care about the house or anything after you go for so long, let your mother talk more cheerfully, make your lover laugh, don't say that you are angry, your purpose is for your lover to go home, and you have to live with your parents, I hope it can help you.

Hello, this is unreasonable, the quarrel between the two of you is between you, and it has nothing to do with your mother, your wife has gone too far, this is obviously bullying, don't pay attention to what she does.

What you mean by "trifles" is not trivial. It must have something to do with your mother, otherwise she would have asked too much. You ask her if it was her mother-in-law who did something wrong, or her husband who did something wrong. You can ask your mother to come forward, but you have to think about how you want to live in the future.

I think your wife has a bit of a problem with her thinking, and when husband and wife quarrel, try not to let their parents know, so as to save them from worrying. And your wife is good, she even asked her mother-in-law to invite her, and she only quarreled because of a little thing. This kind of wife, you have to communicate with her well.

If you think about it yourself, isn't it really because of your mother that you quarreled? Or what your mom does to her, and then think about it. I'm also a married woman, and family relationships are really complicated.

Her brain is in water, her mother-in-law is an elder, how can she pick her up, this kind of woman, ignore her, she can't go back, men should be tough on matters of principle!!

If it's none of my mother-in-law's business. That's definitely not going to be ... So how will a mother-in-law be in the future? If you run away at a little thing, then you will have to be annoyed in the future...

It's not because of your mom when you quarrel, if not, there's no need for your mom to ask her to ask her.

quarreled with her husband and told her mother-in-law that it was completely unnecessary. There is an old saying that if you quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, maybe you have an impulsive quarrel over trivial matters, and the emotions will be reconciled when the mood eases down.

In fact, if there is a conflict between husband and wife, not only don't tell your in-laws, but also don't tell your parents, girlfriends, or friends, just the two of you to solve it yourself. The more people who listen to you, the more people who have a minus impression of your husband, and the more ugly the family is publicized, so that your husband feels faceless, and resents you even more.

And you'll only talk to someone when you're emotional, but you'll hardly remember to clarify it after the problem is resolved. This kind of thing that will only destroy the relationship and do no good must not be done.

Notes:

Husbands and wives should not speak badly and hurt others when they quarrel, and they must avoid insulting their personality and questioning their character. Don't expand the scope of the fight. At the same time, you should pay attention to the proportions of your speech, and do not verbally attack the other person and the other person's family.

Marriage is a matter between two people, and the more people involved, the more complex and changeable the results will be. As the saying goes, the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, and if there are contradictions and disputes between husband and wife, remember not to show it in front of everyone. This can easily make both people escalate and worsen the problem in order to maintain their so-called dignity.

If a husband and wife quarrel, it is best not to complain to the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law is the mother of the husband, if she likes you, she may be biased towards you, say good things for you, reprimand her son, if she doesn't like you, she will help his son, and will be more and more bad for you, the problem of two people, two people have to find a way to solve it together, the third person will never be able to help the idea, and the problem of mixing is more serious.

Yes, if a husband and wife have a dispute over an issue, they can argue with a third party or an elder about who is right and who is wrong.

When you are emotional, let yourself calm down, and only when you calm down do you know what you have done, what to do and what not to do. You can carefully analyze what the reason for the quarrel is, and if it is just something meaningless, you can put it aside.

If you feel that you are at fault and lacking in this matter from an objective point of view, it is recommended to apologize to your mother-in-law, we must be able to stretch and bend, and we must be at ease in doing things, in this way, I think your mother-in-law will respect you more, and your husband will think you are good.

It is recommended that the daughter-in-law take the initiative to show goodwill. This will show that the daughter-in-law is very generous and tolerant. In fact, many things are not so clear who is right and who is wrong, everyone looks up and does not look down, take the initiative to show goodness, and see each other in the future.

It takes a process for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along well, after all, two women love and care about the same man. Therefore, it is difficult not to love a man. If you really can't get along, try not to live together, there will be a lot less such contradictions, and life will be more smooth and wishful.

Answer: If you get along with your mother-in-law for a long time, you will inevitably encounter quarrels. Wise women will not expand this war, but let it go up in smoke. Actually, there is no shame in compromising with your mother-in-law, if both of you are deadlocked, you will be hurt along with your other half.

How can a broken heart be recovered? A wise woman knows how to retreat, and at the right time, apologize to her, call her mother gently, and her heart will melt. When you get along well with your mother-in-law, your marriage will be much happier, and the man will thank you for your dedication to him and your concern for the family, so he will love you more.

Mother-in-law and you must have a generation gap, after all, the age difference is so big, people are often solved according to the way the older generation handles, you can put forward your views with her, if you can understand that it is the best, if you can't, then you have to trouble yourself to deal with it, no matter what, communication is very important, don't hide it, don't say; Then I couldn't bear it anymore and broke out, so my mother-in-law would feel very wronged, I worked so hard for you, and you still have this temper. So when there is a problem between you, please raise it in time and communicate, it will not be so difficult.

Go talk to her, talk to her and explain your problem.

I quarreled with my mother-in-law, first of all, it has happened, so as juniors, should we reflect on ourselves from this incident, and learn a lesson in the future how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Then deeply realize whether we are wrong, even if it is the fault of the mother-in-law, we should control our emotions, take the initiative to admit the mistake and resolve the conflict between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, and be a daughter-in-law with high emotional intelligence from now on.

Admit mistakes realistically. Sincerely ask for forgiveness. Desperately persuaded her not to be angry.

When apologizing to your mother-in-law, catch on to your own substantive mistakes. Boldly analyze, boldly criticize yourself, admit your mistakes, and once you express that you have changed your past mistakes, you will not make similar mistakes again. After that, he said honestly, your old man doesn't care about the villain.

Forgive me, this time, there will never be a next time.

Then there was the dead skin and begging his mother to spare him. Ask mom not to be angry. I beg my mother not to be like me.

Be honest when you say this. Be sure to speak slowly and softly. The words spoken are also similar to sweet words. Don't put a dead fish face on it. Speak coldly. You have to have the kind of posture that you have to be coquettish with your mother.

I guess then your mother-in-law won't be able to get angry with you.

If it's your mistake, you can sincerely apologize, such as doing more housework, cooking something that your mother-in-law loves to eat, or buying some clothes or food to show your sincerity.

I quarreled with my mother-in-law, as a junior, you should take the initiative not to have to, apologize solemnly, call your mother twice and treat your mother-in-law with a smile, and your mother-in-law will naturally be angry.

First of all, admit to your mother-in-law that you did something wrong. I shouldn't quarrel with my mother-in-law and make my mother-in-law angry. I hope my mother-in-law doesn't worry about herself. Be sincere. As long as the family talks about it, there is nothing left.

I quarreled with my mother-in-law and wanted to apologize to my mother-in-law, indicating that you are a kind child, since you quarrel there are different reasons, there is no right or wrong in the family, only understanding and tolerance, you can apologize to your mother-in-law, indicating that you are a reasonable girl who understands right and wrong. No matter what way you do it, as long as your mother-in-law knows that you are apologizing to her, she will be very happy and at the same time guilty.

Cook a big meal for your mother-in-law and buy a gift to apologize to her.

Make a ** appointment with her to go to the mall to buy her a gift by the way, say sorry, and then go to take her to dinner.

1.How to apologize This question belongs to the technical level and will not be too difficult, 2The difficulty is to be pleasant and soft in language communication

And the most difficult thing is to really let go of "self-centeredness" psychologically, to be able to truly "empathize", and to establish a good interpersonal relationship with her mother-in-law from the bottom of my heart.

4.Yes, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, but as long as there is a sincere, considerate, and skillful heart, no matter how difficult the scripture is, it is difficult to recite it well. Isn't it?

Buy a gift she likes, a little sweeter and thicker-skinned.

This situation is all too common, not to mention young couples who have just gotten married, and it still takes time to get used to it in terms of relationship and life. It's when your tongue is accidentally bitten by your teeth. What should a son and daughter-in-law do as a mother-in-law if they quarrel?

As the saying goes, the palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are full of meat. It's not good to stand on either side and help say that no one is good. It's sure to feel like it's going to be a dilemma.

Because if it is not handled well, it will cause some unnecessary trouble, and even be resented by the daughter-in-law. But if you want the family to live in harmony for a long time in the future, when you are old, your daughter-in-law can honor you. This is when you decide that you can't sit idly by.

You can't stand in the middle and reason with them as referees. Because the family has never been a place to talk about big things. There are too many trivial things in life, and after arguing, there will be a next time this time.

The so-called truth is always endless. That's how a wise mother-in-law should be.

1. Please your daughter-in-law and suppress your son. As long as the two of them quarrel, no matter who is right or wrong, they will stand on the side of their daughter-in-law. If necessary, they can also beat their own sons with sticks to forcibly stop their quarrels.

forced his son to admit his mistake in front of his daughter-in-law. Let them all know that the mother-in-law will always only protect the daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law is always right in this family.

After a long time, the two of them will understand the stakes, and I believe that they will not dare to quarrel again in the future.

2. Take the initiative to admit your mistakes in front of your daughter-in-law. This one has a similar meaning to the above. When they quarrel, you don't have to analyze who is right and who is wrong.

It's your own fault anyway. His son shouldn't quarrel with his daughter-in-law. The son should be given to the daughter-in-law.

The son does not teach the father's faults, "As a mother, the son who fails to teach himself well should be punished." The attitude must be sincere. It makes both the daughter-in-law and the son feel embarrassed.

I don't think they'll be arguing anymore at this point.

The last thing I want to say is that it's always bad for the younger generation to quarrel. As a mother-in-law, you should try your best to resolve it. We must not add fuel to the fire by juggling right and wrong in the middle. Otherwise, when the time comes, it will harm others and oneself.