What do you think of those good girls who don t work hard and just want to marry?

Many girls nowadays may not be very good themselves, and they are not willing to spend a lot of time working hard, so they want to marry a rich second generation and live the life of a rich wife. Because I feel that this is effortless and very happy, so first of all, I think I can only say to such a girl, maybe if you are lucky, you still have a little chance of living a happy life in the end.

But under normal circumstances, you won't dream of it come true, and you'll have a very miserable life, why? You must know that many of today's boys are indeed very good, so if you are not good yourself, why should the other party take a fancy to you? Since you don't have the strength and don't work hard, the only thing you can rely on is your appearance, so do you take a look at yourself first, is your appearance very high?

If you say that your appearance is very high, then you may be able to attract some boys with good conditions through such superficial things. But if you don't even have the appearance of the surface, you can't attract others at all, and even if you have a very good skin, but you have to know that there are too many good-looking girls now, and there are countless girls who are not only good-looking, have a good family background, but also have the strength and are willing to work hard, so what do you use to compete with them?

So I think girls like to live a good life, to pursue some luxuries, there is nothing wrong with that, but the premise is that you have to work your own, if you rely on your own efforts, rely on your own ability to get these, then who else can say the other way around us material, you know, the most reliable in life is yourself yourself.

I don't want to be friends with them, I feel like it's a pity to watch them mess around every day, a lot of good time is wasted like this, and you should seize the time to struggle while you are young and live the life you want to live.

This is also human nature, marrying well can save a lot of time to struggle, for example, Liu Qiangdong's wife Zhang Zetian is a typical representative of a good marriage.

For such a person, I think the price must be bad in the end, because others don't look down on him.

For those girls who don't work hard and just want to marry well, I feel that such people often don't marry well.

There is no special opinion, after all, it is normal for girls to have such thoughts, that person doesn't want to be able to enjoy life lying down, and we can't criticize others because of this.

There is no view. Everyone has different values, and everyone has their own way of life. Just take care of yourself. If you don't work hard, you want to get married, the key is that people also have capital. It's definitely pretty.

I'm just for those good girls who don't work hard and just want to marry, I look down on them very much, there is no unearned lunch in the world.

I don't think that's right, the wealth you get without work is far worse than the one you work hard to get and live beautifully. I lived to the fullest.

I think it's normal, but in fact, many people think like this, they don't want to work hard to get what they want.

When you get married, you don't understand it thoroughly, thinking that the other party is the person you want, or you uphold blind self-confidence, believing that you can change the other party with love。It is inevitable to feel indignant when you see some good girls marrying someone who is not good for them. However, each person's personality and growth environment are different, so it is natural to make many puzzling choices.

These choices may be regretted, but they may also lead to growth.

It may be that when you get married, you are too impulsive and don't understand each other properly。People who fall in love will always seem too emotional and impulsive. I only see the tenderness and love shown by the other person, indulge in it, can't receive the voice of the outside world, and even deliberately ignore the advice of others.

turned his invested feelings into an indestructible filter for his lover, only believed in his own choice, and maintained this enthusiasm and entered the marriage. But falling in love and getting married are two different things, the former can be sweet and romantic, but marriage is sinking step by step, entering real life, and experiencing the ordinary daily life of firewood, rice, oil and salt. Then the good that has been experienced in the past will also usher in drastic changes after marriage.

And under the contradictions and conflicts again and again, I feel that the other party has never shown in the past, but it is an extremely real side.

It may also be that you want to use love to influence each other。There are indeed many silly girls who treat their boyfriends with a very strong tolerant heart, even if they are very aware of each other's virtues, but they still have blind confidence in themselves and have an optimistic attitude towards this relationship. It can be said that they took the initiative to choose this bad person, and they want to change each other through their own efforts to make them become what they like.

In my opinion, this kind of behavior is really irrational and reliable, and it is completely gambling on one's own lifelong happiness in exchange for the other party's touch.

All in all, these good girls who choose to marry someone who is not good to them may be because of their active choice or they may be the passive one who accepts it. As long as they can wake up and escape this tormented marriage in time, they will have better and more choices in life.

It may be because the girl likes the other party too much, so she would rather marry him if she wrongs herself, or it may be because the girl values the other party's economic conditions, so she will marry the other party, or it may be that the other party is very good to the girl at the beginning, but after marriage, she becomes bad to the woman.

They may have a more vain mentality, thinking that they can conquer such people, or they think that people who are not good to them have a good economic foundation and can adjust well after marriage.

I think it's very likely that I like this boy more and the other party's family conditions are better, so I chose to marry him.

These girls mainly want to grow up with these people and be able to develop themselves better.

I don't know if you have ever heard this sentence above the title in your life?

There's me anyway. In the past few days, I also heard a sister say this - oh my God, she is a post-90s generation, a little younger than me.

She also told me that after publishing so many articles, wouldn't she get married in the end? ? It's also about laundry and cooking.

Girls don't have to work too hard, anyway, they find a partner, it's not an older young woman, they also have a job, they don't have to work so hard to insist on writing after work, and there are few writing submissions anyway.

Isn't it good to enjoy the good years of Zhaoliang Chajing?!

I have to admit that marriage can indeed change people's fate to a certain extent, for example, some people rely on marrying (marrying) a good family and have a better material life.

But the question is, the family's economic conditions are so good, why can't he find a partner? And why did they come to you?

If this person is just living a little better than you, what reason do you have not to work together?

After you are together, your "little family" is your home, and your object has become your closest person.

It takes a lot of time and energy from a person, and you will feel tired and tired, and you really give all the stress and difficulty to this person closest to you?

I think that a girl's hard work is necessary before or after marriage (sisters with similar ideas, please deduct 1 ha in the comment area, I want to see how many people have the same opinion as me).

If you say, before getting married, "strive to be excellent" is to "if you are in full bloom, the breeze will come", so that you can attract boys who are equally excellent or even more excellent.

I saw a joke on the Internet before, but I couldn't laugh no matter how I looked at it, and the general content was that parents complained that their children were not promising, in fact, children were also complaining that their parents were "unproductive" and did not make themselves the second generation of F.

There are some women around me who think that it is their pride to cultivate an excellent child, but in fact, having an excellent and attractive mother is also the pride of a child! You said no?

Girls will complain that boys are different before and after marriage, but think about it from another perspective, if a girl is diligent before marriage and becomes lazy and negative after marriage, won't boys have the same idea?

Marriage is like a long-distance run that requires a lot of patience, when the romance fades and the novelty fades, what maintains the relationship between two people is often the value that each other gives to each other and gives to the small family.

There are so many inks, and I don't know if there are any sisters who think the same as me, and it doesn't matter if it's different, I want to hear everyone's opinions, so I wrote this article.

Finally, I hope that every girl who reads this article can work hard to make herself better, whether it is before or after marriage, she can show her charm and shine. Writing Contributing My Writing Daily.

In fact, it is because there are too few men in the small county system, such as the teaching profession, as far as the eye can see, most of them are young women and middle-aged old men, and there are very few men who are just young people. So where did they go? Of course, I stayed in the big city.

Men who can afford to stay in big cities are generally reluctant to return to small counties to live a peaceful life. If there are too few male compatriots in the system, the probability of women finding a boyfriend is greatly reduced. It's like a school with a high proportion of women, where many girls are single, and in a school with a balanced gender balance, girls generally have the same partners.

Women looking for a partner, like the principle of proximity, like to find the side of the side. Only the people around you can arouse the love in people's hearts, but when there are fewer people of the opposite sex around, it is not easy for women to find a partner. There are many girls in the small county system who have a decent salary and a lot of leisure time to educate the next generation.

They are well aware of their own strengths, so they tend to have high expectations when it comes to finding a partner. They think that if they are looking for a partner, they must find someone with a higher salary than themselves, preferably within the system. As mentioned above, there are very few young men in the system, let alone high-quality young men.

Most women in small counties have an immature view of love, and they are more traditional, and they always feel that in marriage, men's income must be higher than that of women, so many women are reluctant to find a weaker marriage partner than themselves. Women in the system dislike men outside the system and feel that their lives are insecure. The excessively high requirements have made many women fail to find a suitable marriage partner for them.

According to the survey, in recent years, high-quality men in the system like to find women outside the system to marry. For example, many wives of civil servants and teachers run barber shops, start their own businesses, do fashion design, and so on. Life in the system is relatively comfortable, and men are unwilling to succumb to comfort, so they are unwilling to find women who live comfortably like themselves.

If women can correct their view of love and find a man who is suitable for age and personality to marry, there will not be so many older leftover women now. Among the many single women in the system, many women in the civil service have reached the deputy section level, but there are few high-quality men around them, so they can't find a suitable one for them. There are more female civil servants than male civil servants in small counties, and new talents are brought in every year, and as long as women miss the marriageable age, they will be immediately replaced by new female civil servants in the world of mate selection.

For female civil servants, they are more demanding and generally do not marry easily. In fact, to put it bluntly, the reason why most women in the small county system are older and single is that their level is too low, their requirements are too high, and their social scope is narrow, and they can't find satisfactory men at all. Even if most of them achieve the sub-section level, they will not be able to find a marriage partner that they are satisfied with, because their goal is to become a higher level of civil servant.