Is it hard to find a girl who doesn t spend boys money?

Girls who don't spend boys' money indiscriminately are definitely hard to find. It shows that she is wholeheartedly devoted to this feeling and to you.

There are still a lot of girls who don't spend boys' money indiscriminately, and the girls you said love to spend boys' money may be running for boys' money. Many women are now very independent, they are financially independent, spiritually independent, and there are so many single people, they can also feel the independence of women!

Yes, such a girl is more modest, self-disciplined, polite, and unavoidable.

Actually, when it comes to money, it's hard to do it right, if a girl always spends a man's money, then the man will have a feeling that I can't afford to raise you, you seem to be very materialistic, but if you don't spend a boy's money, he will feel that you are a very simple and honest person, or frustrate a man's self-esteem, but generally girls who don't spend a boy's money are generally quite independent and like his girls.

If a girl always spends a man's money, then the man will have a feeling that I can't afford to raise you, and you seem to be very materialistic, but if you don't spend a boy's money, he will feel that you are a very simple and honest person, or frustrate a man's self-esteem, but generally a girl who doesn't spend a boy's money is generally a girl who is quite independent and likes him.

Yes, but a good man will try his best to spend money on what he likes, or his girlfriend's wife, but it is not sudden money, and the girl who really loves cherishes it, but a woman lives a pitiful life, or a man is incompetent.

Yes. Please cherish it. Love is mutual.

This kind of girl may be shy. Maybe the quality is high.

If you don't spend his money on a girl, what will happen to a boy? Boys must feel good, they don't have to spend their own money, they don't have to work so hard.

Girls can spend, but not without moderation. Girls themselves should also understand in their hearts that this money is the boy's, not yours, and you can't spend it, so you must know how to reciprocate.

Nowadays, many girls are willing to make an AA system with their boyfriends when they are in love, and they don't want their boyfriends to cover the expenses all the time, and I am the same, but it is difficult to do it completely without spending boys' money when they are in love.

Imagine that you just got together with your boyfriend and you told him that you want AA, "I don't want to spend your money" attitude, although you are well-intentioned, but boys are easy to misunderstand, don't I have the money to ask you to pay? It's only so clear that we're together, do you plan to stay with me for a long time? Am I poor?

Even if you explain it clearly, it can still be uncomfortable for both of you.

So, at the beginning of the relationship, unless your boyfriend himself clearly shows an attitude of "wanting AA" (in addition, this AA attitude also depends on the specifics, whether it is out of respect for you or out of pettiness), then let your boyfriend pay first. So how do you "compensate" him at this time? For example, you can spend your own money to buy clothes for him, buy fruits, and you can buy drinks for meals, pay for drinks, in short, have a return.

After you've been together for a long time, you can start talking about paying for money.

I remember talking to my boyfriend about this very suddenly, just one afternoon, he opened his WeChat (my boyfriend likes to use WeChat payment) and saw that the balance showed that there were only more than 300 yuan (we are still college students, and our families give living expenses), we two want to take it, I have fully understood what he meant, and put his shoulder, "I will pay for it later!" He Qi Zhenming immediately laughed, and quietly said with a cheap face, "Oh, there is a rich woman to take care of", and then we fought for a while, and I talked to him about paying for meals and going out to play and spend money, and finally said Okay, I will pay for the small money myself, and he will give money for a big meal. In the end, because he had been paying for the first half of the month, until his family paid him, and for the second half of the month, it was me, a rich woman, who supported him.

At last. Girls shouldn't spend boys' money, but it is inevitable that they will spend boys' money, so there must be a good conversation between two people, and girls themselves must have a good idea.

Personally, I think it is in a benign balance. During the relationship, if you are not willing to give anything to you, then you can suspect that the other party does not love you so much.

Or try not to spend the other party's money.