I have a frustration about friendship 15

There is already a gap between friends, I wonder if you are a person who doesn't pay much attention to what you say or is open-mouthed? If not, then try to apologize to her, between friends, this kind of is a small thing, in fact, it is not a big deal.

But I want to say that a really good friend will not care about this little thing, either you are still young and have not experienced much, or you are not really good friends.

1. Write a letter Sometimes there are some things that I am really embarrassed to say in person, so write a letter to sincerely show him your apologies, tell what happened, and ask her for forgiveness.

2. Ask her to come out with another good friend, tell that friend about you and him in advance, and let him help you for a while.

3. If he shows impatience or something like that, just tell him not to be a friend, don't be a friend of this kind.

Learn to guard against her, don't tell her anything in the future, there is already a gap between you, either slowly, or the distance will get farther and farther away, but, no matter what, you don't have a great need to cherish her.

People can't hide secrets in their hearts, and girls also like gossip, so if you have any secrets in the future, you should keep them in your heart.

I'm having the same problem, but I'm just reminding her that some things can't be said casually, and a good friend is just the same as if it's okay after being beaten and scolded, but obviously you treat her as a good friend, but he doesn't necessarily treat you as a good friend, so it's better to keep an eye on it. What is the benefit of being simple.

A scholar writes a diary, writes important things in the diary, and since you don't want to be shared, don't tell him that he is not suitable to be your best friend.

She may not mean it, some people can't hide it like this, you can tell her how you feel, but if you can't keep it secret, don't tell her.

Keep dating, but don't tell her your secrets, from now on, that's the last word.

Ask her to have a serious chat, ask her why, if her tone is vague and her demeanor is unclear, maybe you are looking at the wrong person, you can only keep the secret in your heart, if you can't give up on her, get along with her for a while, observe her carefully, maybe she is just a person who can't keep secrets.

Because you said it first, I think I apologize to her first, confess, you apologize, if she is not a cheeky person will want you to confess, I believe that you can forgive her, and you will still be good friends; If she doesn't confess, you expose her and break off her friendship, you don't have this kind of friend. I've been to this too, and I hope you and your friends get along.

Communicate with her, and share the secret with those who can keep it.

Like you, I'm a person who can't hide what's on my mind, and I like to tell my best friend what's on my mind.

I think the first thing you have to ask yourself is whether you are sincere about your friend, and if you do that, then it is indeed your friend's problem. Maybe it's because he's very lively and can't keep secrets, you see Youyou in "Love Apartment" is not like this, but she doesn't get along well with her friends, you have to relax your heart, maybe these things are not a big deal. But if he's too much, don't want this kind of friend, don't say no.

This shows that your friend is not worth making friends with. If you don't want to give up your friendship with her, learn to keep a psychological distance from her, try to share the most private secrets with her as little as possible, and just be an ordinary friend.

All I can say is that you are a person who accidentally made friends, and you can't be considered your friend. You should let go of this friendship that is not based on mutual respect.

Friction between friends is inevitable, but the most important secret is still in the heart, and you should be broad-minded to forgive others

If that's the case, you don't say it anymore and keep it to heart. (But be patient!) ）

Don't tell him about your privacy, there are thousands of Chinese sons and daughters, and if you don't get it, we will change it.

Women naturally like gossip, so you can bear with it yourself.

Don't worry so much about it in the future

First of all, let's be clear, all three of you are girls, so it's understandable that you think a lot of questions, and secondly, it's normal for you to have this kind of emotional fluctuation if you are a sentimental type (you can also say a literary youth). The specific measures are as follows:

1) Learn to be satisfied. Friendship between friends is not an obligation in the first place, as your friend does not have any obligation to you, so even if your relationship is really estranged, don't force it, so it is very common to say that you can really always understand that you care about you and take care of you There are few bosom friends.

2) Don't doubt. Whether it's making friends or falling in love, this is the supremacy of the law, because all relationships are built on trust and tacit understanding, A can talk a lot in front of you B every move shows that she regards you as a part of her life, for a simple example, you and your dad usually chat with enthusiasm must not be as enthusiastic as your boyfriend, but when you are hurt, you often think of your loved ones, this is the difference. What seems to you to be cold is often a serious relationship.

3) Get along with your heart. From yours (a is really better for her than I am. But I've never hated B, no matter how nice A is to her.

This sentence can be seen that you are a very sincere person, so in your opinion, the envy of the relationship between A and B, or in B's opinion, she is also very envious of the relationship between you and A, so let go of the burden and don't think too much, as for your character, I suggest that you don't often be alone, because loneliness will be your thoughts.

Finally, I would like to explain that there are many intimate circles of friends of three people now, including myself, so it is best to be with two people at the same time, which is conducive to the mutual promotion of the feelings of the three of you.

There must be a wound in a threesome Love is the same as friendship Sometimes giving is not rewarded A can't see your effort You can consider whether A is worth it If it's really a good friend Someone who is worth your effort Then don't care about these If A is really too much Keep hurting you without knowing it Sometimes Giving up is also an option.

You see yourself as an unrelated fourth person outside of the trio. A and you have a common topic is B. A and B have a wide range of common hobbies or content, so they will have a lot to talk to B.

You don't have to be depressed, if you have a lot of topics in common, how can A not talk to you. Changing oneself to adapt to others, the environment, and society is easier than changing others, but it is also painful. Learn to question, both yourself and others.

Aren't you? Easy to satisfy, more likely to get hurt; There is always a feeling of neglect; Give far more than you get; Very stubborn and accustomed to the Cold War; laughs happily in front of others, but is indifferent when he is alone; It's quiet in front of strangers, and it's messing around in front of friends; Sitting in front of a computer, not knowing what to do, but not wanting to turn it off; I don't like to wait, but I always wait; Often in a daze. It doesn't matter, you're just someone who values feelings too much.

Only ask about the hard work, not the harvest. If you already have an expectation of how much you will get in return when you give, it is not called a friend, it is called a profit exchange.

If you want others to be good to you, you have to be good to others, are you too persistent.

Everyone hopes that others can see more of themselves, this is not selfish, but hope that others can be easy for themselves, when we make friends, we often encounter various problems, but there are many people in this world, it is impossible who is always good with whom, you have to think clearly, friends can not give up because of a little thing.

Insist on being yourself, treat your friends sincerely, and if you are really uncomfortable, tell your friends what you think.

As the saying goes, reason is not high, probably because you are not good at talking, if you want others to pay attention to you, first of all, you must be confident, a spirited, confident person, let people feel bright at first sight, and then in doing things, you must have unique opinions, do not follow the clouds, to have your own independent personality, work hard, be a down-to-earth person, try your best to improve your quality in all aspects, do not care about these little things, after a long time, others will naturally see your character, the road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people for a long time!

Women have a lot of these problems, hey, learn to be tolerant and understanding.

That's thinking too much, of course, it doesn't rule out the bad side, but since we're friends, we should be considerate of each other, no, I've had this feeling from you, but I don't think there's anything I can't stand it.

Three people are always like this when they are together, it's not who is more important to whom, but when communicating with others, you always have to take the initiative, you said that you yourself are always alone behind, in fact, you can also participate in the topics they talk about, and you don't need to be patient or anything. I've experienced it too, and I don't really like talking to three people, shopping and the like, I usually avoid it.

Actually, you don't have to think too much about it, you may be too afraid of losing your friends, if A treats you as a good friend, I don't think he should be like this, after all, the initiative is in your hands, if you can't help it, still.

Ha, we're the same.

It's the same sister, who talks about three people, but always ignores herself, is this how it feels? Actually, girl, there are some things we have to look at, three people, one of them must be ignored, but they just happened to be caught up by themselves, it's nothing, really. Isn't it enough to be really good to them, and they are also really good to themselves?

It doesn't matter what is most important in his heart, he will go together with a friend. Let's be generous, don't care, sometimes it's good for everyone to open our eyes and close our eyes, and it's good to open our hearts.

In fact, you are too sensitive, and the more you pay attention, the more you care, and you must know that when A and B are alone, they may mention all your nuns.

It is precisely because you are A's confidant that A will be more enthusiastic about B, because A thinks you will understand him.

It's not selfish, everyone will encounter such problems when growing up! I can tell you very clearly, if there were only two people in the world, you would be best friends! If you come again, you will definitely have a sense of proximity, distance and proximity!

Sisters and brothers are like that, not to mention friends! If you want to change the status quo, one is to give up looking for a confidant, and the other is to pick a A or B you like with your sincerity or something that touches her (a bit long)! Having both is the highest level, and how to improve your personality charm depends on yourself!

It's a tangled matter....It's useless for you to think about this kind of thing alone. I think if you want to solve it, don't just follow A and B in the future, you can also learn more about B's behavior, so that you can have a common topic with A. As for what you said, talk more about you when you are alone....It's up to you, you can start by talking about B to A, so that she might come and ask you about it.

In fact, you can also find a C to "casually" mention to A that you don't want to just say B in the conversation....

I want to say, are you a Pisces? Probably sentimental people think a lot, but they lack a sense of security in their hearts. Many times I try to persuade myself not to think about these things, but I can't help but think about them.

I can understand your psychology very well. Because I'm like that, I'm a little unhappy with a good friend of mine from college during this time, and I feel like she doesn't care about me that much now, and I'm sad. However, you have to understand that the heart belongs to someone else, and you can't control someone else's heart.

What you want is to tell yourself well, don't be so wronged by yourself, A doesn't care about you so much, you have to treat yourself better and be kind to yourself. Different friends mean different things to us, just like you prefer a little bit. A lot of things don't pay off, and I think you're really good to A.

But A didn't treat you as well as you did to her, so you will feel lost, in fact, sometimes it is a kind of happiness to give. You say that A has a straightforward personality, then you can tell her about the situation, you can use a joke way. Friends can talk about their own contradictions, and you will only make yourself more sad if you press it in your heart like this.

Maybe A cares about you, but you don't feel it.

If you're stupid, it means that you don't care anymore, but you still care.

Whether it's a friendship or not, it's a precious thing in life.

I don't know what's going on between you, and you don't know what's going on like you said. I guess there might be some misunderstanding, or something. Why not ask?

Because you think you don't care? And then panic when he's gone? That's why you're stupid, brother.

If that's what I said, you still care. Or in other words, you like him. (Maybe you don't know it, or maybe you don't want to accept this fact?)

Then, go and get her back, it doesn't have to be a result or anything, at least you have to know why. Get things straight, at least give yourself an account. Of course, I hope you get a good result, but it's up to you what you think.

I remember what I told you, this kind of relationship, whether it's a friendship or not, is a precious thing in your life. We must cherish and cherish it.