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Because all the people in this class don't learn and don't know how to learn, only if you are the only one who is particularly serious about studying, they will treat you as an outlier, and in their subconscious, they will think that learning is useless, so they will be despised.
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Because everyone is playing, and everyone is equal, you are the only one learning, you are different from others, you will naturally be despised by others, others will think that you are better than them, so there will be an imbalance in your heart, and there will be contradictions.
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Because they are afraid that you will become better than them, and then most people don't want to study hard, and you will affect their minds, so they will think that learning may also be more important, so they will despise you very much.
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Based on environmental determinism, which is painful to combine with their current situation, they choose to assimilate you so that their comfortable circle of life is not hit, or to increase the dependency of their own kind to create a sense of security, which is a manifestation of selfishness, you can choose to ignore them, they are pure passers-by.
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Probably because when I see you learning, I will sigh at my ignorance and helplessness, envy your self-motivation, and encourage you to some extent. If so, you can choose to help him out of the situation to some extent. Come on.
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Maybe it's because the atmosphere in the class is so bad, all the students are playing, and you are the only one who is studying seriously, which is especially unacceptable to everyone, because you will affect their position in the teacher's mind.
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If the learning atmosphere in a class is not good, then it can mean that many students in the class are not students who really want to learn, so in their eyes, a person who really learns is a joke.
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Because everyone will think that you are a nerd, in today's society, you study hard, teachers and parents may be happy, but classmates may not like you.
When I was in high school, there was a tablemate, she studied really seriously, she remembered her notes very clearly, she did a very timely job of what wrong question sets, talking to people was also a topic of discussion, and no one was serious about endorsing, so there was very little communication with classmates, and I didn't talk to her much, the strangest thing was that her grades were not good, and she was not even as good as those who played a lot, which was quite strange, and when I told my mother, my mother said it was stupid.
When I got to college, there was also a top student in the class, she got up at six o'clock in the morning and went to the classroom to occupy the first row, in fact, she didn't need to occupy a seat at all, because we always came first and did it later, and the last one had to go to the first row, she usually went to the library, and every day was to read, read, read; She also studied at school during the summer vacation; Then one winter break, she came home with my roommate.
My roommate later described to us that this girl was probably taking the bus for the first time, and the bus would stop when it arrived, and it would not stop until she stood at the traffic light, and the girl didn't seem to understand, thinking that the back door was out of order, so she slammed the door there in horror, and the whole car was stunned. We laughed at this for a long time, saying that it was really nerd.
This may be the characteristic of children who work hard and study hard, they spend all their time studying, they live like they are mentally retarded, and they don't communicate with people much, and of course they will be ridiculed. I'm talking about most, but there are probably some who study hard and enjoy life at the same time.
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Because your efforts become a testimony that they do not work hard.
Some classes have a good learning atmosphere, but some classes have a very bad learning atmosphere, and the whole class is either sleeping, playing with mobile phones, or reading idle books, and they just don't write homework anyway.
If one or two people are disobedient, the teacher can still manage it, but everyone in a class is working against the teacher, and the teacher can't do anything, after all, corporal punishment of students is not advocated now.
So now the convention is that you can't learn, everyone doesn't learn, you can't learn, if you study, you are different from everyone else, then you are an outlier.
They don't know that they have to study hard every day, but learning is very tiring and annoying, and it is difficult to keep up if they don't study for a period of time, so some students don't want to learn, but they can't learn. If you don't study well, but others are not studying, you will give yourself an excuse, it doesn't matter, everyone doesn't learn and falls together.
But if a person learns alone, it will cause a sense of crisis for these non-learners, she has studied, she has to improve, her grades will slowly surpass me, no! No! But I really don't want to study hard, what should I do?
And the teacher also likes children who love to learn, will praise these people, and will also use these people as an example to teach those who don't like to learn, those people are already weak-minded, plus people who love to learn as a role model has actually become the opposite of these people, of course, those who don't love to learn will have an inexplicable hostility towards those who love to learn, and begin to laugh at those who like to learn.
So don't stop your own learning because of these ridicules, those ridicules are just the powerless struggles of those who don't like to learn. Everyone has a path for everyone to take, you have to be firm and don't be disturbed.
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Let those people laugh, and they'll be able to laugh so much now.
I don't know what stage of student you are, if you are still in middle school, then learning is the most important thing for everyone to do, it is not useless to go to university, the higher your score in the exam, the more you have the right to choose the major and school you want to study in the future. If you study hard in the class, there is no doubt that you are doing the right thing. The hardest thing for people to do is to stick to yourself without being influenced by others, and when the people around you are different from you, you will suspect that you have a problem.
No, you're right.
If you are a college student, it is the same, many people think that after a few years of college, they can easily get a diploma, and there are a lot of jobs waiting for them. They believe that four years of college is to mix, skip class, fall in love, play games, go shopping, participate in club activities, but learning is the lowest.
In fact, the university is only very rich in extracurricular students, and now college students grasp a lot of professional knowledge, professional knowledge is very important, you have the strength to go out, only then will the company want you. This is the reality, many people are blinded by the ivory towers of universities, and they can't see the world as it really is.
When I first entered university, I was also in a mess, although I went to every class, but I was often distracted, and I didn't like to participate in other activities, so I spent a year like that. When I was a sophomore, I had a friend who was studying at a better university, and he was a very hard-working person, and he said that he tried to make a resume, went to some company, and sent me the resume.
His resume was very full, and I substituted my information into it, and found that I didn't have anything to handle, and my resume was just a blank sheet of paper with my name filled in. If I go out to work like this, which company will want me? That's when I got serious about learning my expertise.
Of course, in college, you must not only study hard, but also enrich your extracurricular life, and only if you are a plump person, then you will become better. Practice is to apply what you have learned to your life. Therefore, you should also patronize learning.
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Because they are afraid that they are already working hard and are not as good as others to do casually, and those who laugh at others are not good at others, so they just need to be themselves, have you ever seen a very good and hard-working person laugh at those who study hard?
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You don't need to work hard to be ridiculed, you see, just like a diligent person will be liked by others, who will like a lazy person?
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That's how it is in this day and age.
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For the school's admission rate and excellence.
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