Why do children with very good grades divide in a class?

Some parents asked: The second year of high school is newly divided into classes, and when they enter this class, how can their children's grades get worse and worse?

Such a question is very abrupt, sharp and impolite, and of course it also reveals the anxiety and helplessness that children's grades bring to parents.

First, talk to your child first. Adjust your emotions first, then deal with things. The child's foundation is relatively poor, he was a child in the ordinary class before, but the parents never gave up and have been helping, and the child is sensible and down-to-earth, and can also be among the best in the ordinary class with little competitiveness, and he will be assigned to the Peiyou class in the second year of high school.

Suddenly face a better atmosphere, more fierce competition, better than their own foundation of the students more than their own efforts, the ranking has been stuck behind, the ability to resist pressure students will catch up, unwilling to have been left behind, on the contrary, want to escape, once how good the life of the ordinary class, just work hard, is the top few in the class, but I don't know how the competition of grades will only face one class, everyone in the college entrance examination is to compete with their peers in China, only see in front of you, how can you see the sea of stars?

Second, communicate with the teacher. High school parents have limited help for their children's academics, and they must accompany and learn to adjust their students' emotions, communicate with teachers in a timely manner, understand their children's situation, and trust their children's teachers, so that communication can proceed normally. Communicate with the child, understand the child's feelings and difficulties, communicate with the teacher, tell the teacher the child's problems, think about how to carry out home-school cooperation, how to get the child out of the predicament, and how to help the child improve his or her grades and health.

Let the problem be concrete, make the method more targeted, let the teacher understand that the child's foundation is weak, and let the teacher help and encourage in time if the mood is poor, of course, the teacher is not omnipotent, he has to face a class of nearly 80 people, to pay attention to every child, but also to prepare lessons, attend classes, take care of the family, no one is idle just a tool person, respect and understand each other, and give the children a better future.

Again, communicate with yourself. No one is born to be a parent, and in the process of growing up, there are too many deficiencies and regrets in the education of parents. This year, I strongly feel that behind every problem child is the problem of the original family, as a parent, when the child needs, accompany and educate, the importance of family education is far more important than school education, family education is good, school education will be like flowing water, naturally bubbling and flowing.

I am willing to open my heart and love each of my children, and I am willing to be more professional and capable so that every child's grades can improve. It's just that school education is also powerful, and at this time, I hope that the family and school will work together to help the child grow.

With the same teachers and the same learning style, why do some children have good grades and some children do not? I believe that many people such as the royal have this question! In fact, in addition to school, family education also plays a very important role, and there are many things that teachers can't teach and can't doThe educational philosophy of parents and the atmosphere of the family are the foundation of children's learning.

The main factor influencing a child's performance is not the school, but the family. In the same class, the competition between children, in the final analysis, is the competition of parents' comprehensive quality and hard work. Usually ignoring it and getting angry when the test is bad, it is irresponsible.

Therefore, we should pay more attention to children's learning, pay more attention and understand more!

Cultivating a good habit requires constant investment of time and energy in searching, and every obstacle and repetition in the process will screen out some people. This process is more difficult for the child. Many children lack patience and self-control, and are unable to persevere, and will "lose" in the process of forming good habits.

In addition, when a child's behavior cannot be established for a long time, we should consider whether it is the parent's fault.

Parents know that cultivating children's independence, but the premise of independence is to cultivate children's self-confidence, and with self-confidence can they be independent, otherwise "independence" cannot be implemented at all. So how to obtain this kind of self-confidence, that is, to cultivate from an early age, let children do what they can, so that children can gain a sense of accomplishment and self-confidence, so that they have the ability to think and act independently. Developing good hygiene habits from an early age is not only conducive to children's health and appearance, but also can cultivate children's self-discipline.

As an educator, if you want your child to love learning, you must first read and be a person. This is true for teachers, and it is also true for parents. For children with good grades, mothers are usually people who have a plan and move neatly. The more serious, organized, and polite the father, the better the child's grades.

If you want your children to be well, then become a dry oak reading type parent first, then start tonight - read quietly with your child. The more difficult a child's learning is, the more he should read. The so-called intelligence is the ability to read.

In fact, whether it is basic knowledge, reading or writing, the fundamental way to improve ability is to read outside of class.

There is a gap in the way of learning, there is a gap in the way of education, there is a gap in family life, and there is also a gap in the pressure of the faction, so there is such a gap.

Poor in family education and learning travel skills. We must educate our children more, never put pressure on our children, and we must care more about our children, so that our children can find their own learning methods, and create a harmonious and friendly family atmosphere for our children.

It should be that the attitude towards learning is different, and the way of learning is also different.

The difference lies in the fact that there are some differences in the initiative to learn, so there is such a difference.

Not necessarily. Although there is no clear distinction between which is a key class and which is a non-key class. But there is always a difference, each grade of the teacher has the ability to divide, parents want to divide their children into the class of teachers who teach well, grasp the class well, and have strong ability, it doesn't matter which one can only be divided, maybe lucky enough to be assigned to a better class, if there is a relationship, it will naturally be assigned to a relatively good class.

The children of the parents who are related to them will definitely be assigned to a class, and that class will naturally be stronger than the other classes.

How to determine whether it is a key class.

1. Look at whether the teacher has a certain amount of experience.

As the leader of the class, the teacher's own level and experience are very important. So if the teacher is experienced and has a high level, then this class is likely to be a key class. In particular, some schools rely on some classes to highlight grade grades, and some excellent teachers will be assigned to teach in key classes, so this can be used as the main criterion for judging.

Second, see if there are any students in the class who are "related households".

Needless to say, there are some students in each class who are recruited through various channels, so if the proportion of these students in this class is high, it is likely to be a key class. Because the school has to weigh all aspects, it is common for these students to be placed in better classes.

Is there a relationship between whether a class is good or bad and students' grades? It should be related, the quality of a class mainly depends on the students' grades, and it also depends on the discipline of the class?

There is a certain relationship, but not all, it still depends on whether the teacher and the classmates, and the classmates and classmates are harmonious.

Hello, of course this is related, because if the atmosphere of the class is good, it is also very good for your learning.

Admission to a good university, or an ordinary undergraduate, after graduation, successfully enter the bank or engage in the field of education, or continue to study for graduate studies, this is the "ideal life" in the eyes of parents and teachers.

It is undeniable that they are lucky to have a decent and stable job after graduating from graduation; And those students who are usually not easy to learn and are naughty and mischievous, many of them went to technical schools or studied in three universities, and they engaged in a variety of careers after graduation, and there are also a group of idle people who are idle all day long, or gnaw at the old at home.

This is not the whole story, but it is a universal social phenomenon.

After graduating, I rarely kept in touch with my classmates, until one day a good friend of mine, yes, my high school classmate, told me that so-and-so got married next month, and he asked me to notify the classmates I was in contact with.

It was a rural wedding, a simple platform was built with a steel frame, that is where they made their vows, and most of the relatives in the audience came from the countryside, and the wedding was already a mess of smoke and miasma at the beginning of the stage, and the melon seed skin was swallowed all over the ground, and the bride and groom walked through a narrow aisle in the middle when they entered.

At the wedding, the bride and groom were dressed in suits made of inferior materials, and their ties were glowing cheaply, and I looked at the bride who couldn't recall what she looked like in high school, with uneven blush on her face and her false eyelashes sticky too abruptly, but she still walked past us with a smile, and I wasn't sure if she was really happy at that moment.

The gift money is wrapped in a red cloth, and the relatives who follow the gift hold a wrinkled one hundred yuan, and fifty yuan, dragging the family with the mouth, the family can occupy the entire table, the newcomer on the stage has not finished speaking, and the dishes at the bottom are almost eaten, this is not an exaggeration, this is a real thing, if it is not for personal experience, I can't imagine how I can't imagine that the high school classmate chose such a family, maybe there is no other explanation except true love.

I can't help but ask myself, what is the meaning of life, my grades were not the best when I went to school, and my job after graduation was not the best, but we are all trying to live because the road ahead is unknown, at least we all look forward to maybe one day we can live the ideal life, or the current life can also satisfy me.

But I can't think of people who have compromised in life, will see the light of life in the future, and live a life like the end of the day is really meaningful?

It is never the quality of our grades that determines the development of our lives, but what kind of life you choose. As a parent, vision is really important, your child can not have excellent grades, but your child must not have an independent personality, let the child see the world more, so that you can choose a better life.

Cultivate some interests and hobbies for children from an early age, so that children can be more independent, and it is also very helpful for the cultivation of children's character.

The environment can change people, but also can exercise people, once excellent grades do not mean that everything will be good in the future, this real society needs all-round development of children, the need for talents with high IQ and emotional intelligence, what do you say?

If you are arrogant, you may be a scumbag now, and if you are still working hard, you are a scholar.

One: Parents don't set an example.

We all know that if we want to focus on one thing, we need atmosphere, we can quickly read the content of a book when we sit in the library, and lying on the sofa reading a book is easy to be attracted by interesting TV shows.

This is the power of atmosphere, all the people are reading carefully, you can't help but be affected, and you will read it naturally. But if the people around you are watching TV and you want to read a book, it will be difficult at this time, it will be too challenging and will make you have bad emotions.

This phenomenon is the same when it comes to children, when children are studying, if their parents sit next to them with their mobile phones, ostensibly for the good of their children, supervise their learning, and want to see if they are doing their homework seriously.

But that's not what the children think in their hearts. They may feel that it is unfair why they need to spend a long time studying while their parents do not, and it may make children tired of learning and crazy to play with their phones.

After a long time, the child's learning will not be efficient, and he only thinks about how to complete the homework quickly every day, but he does not really learn in his heart, so he can't learn knowledge, and his natural grades will not be very good.

If parents want their children to be able to do their homework seriously and have no negative emotions in their hearts, the best course of action is to study with them.

In this way, children will feel that they and their parents are learning, then there will be no psychological gap, there will be no unfair feeling, and they will be more willing to take the initiative to learn.

Some parents may say that they can't read, if there is really no way to understand and keep up with the pace of their children's learning, they can choose to sit aside and read quietly, which is also a way to create a good learning atmosphere for him.

2. Parents do not "support" their children in the process of their children's learning.

However, learning is not a temporary thing, it is not enough to have innate intelligence, it requires more acquired diligence and strong self-control. Perhaps at the very beginning of learning, children are forced by teachers and parents to unlock new knowledge.

However, as the grades get higher and higher, the difficulty of learning continues to increase, and you can't learn anything just by learning without exploring.

What is needed at this time? Maybe parents need to give advice, and parents need to "help" their children.

To let children understand that learning requires strong concentration, only by really thinking, can we obtain different knowledge, and the concentration developed in this process is very helpful for children's future.

It is best for parents to play a guiding role in the child's learning process, not to ask him to write answers directly when he encounters problems, but to guide him step by step and find ways to make him full of curiosity.

Let him want to learn, be willing to think. If you think about it a lot, the gap with other children will naturally widen, and the gap will become more and more obvious over time.