Xue Baochai is perfectly packaged, why can t he still be liked by readers?

The saints say that no one is perfect, so how can there be a perfect person in life? Xue Baochai's mind is meticulous and thoughtful, which makes people very stressful and unreal.

Because in the eyes of readers, her marriage to Jia Baoyu destroyed the love between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, and indirectly caused Lin Daiyu's death.

Her nature is not good, she supports the people she likes to do what she thinks is promising, and in order to stabilize her position, she will do whatever it takes to get rid of the attackers.

The main reason is that readers still hope that a lover will eventually become a family, and there is more love and sympathy for Lin Daiyu, although Baochai is perfect, her personality is too ingenious and not like a real woman, and everyone has a more sense of substitution for Lin Daiyu.

An identity like Xue Baochai is not eligible to participate in the draft directly, because his ancestor is an imperial businessman.

There is also the age to be elected, and the rule at that time was that the young people who were to be selected in the palace should be 13 to 16 years old, and they should be selected every three years. From the book, it is explained that in the second year after Baochai entered Jiafu, Wang Xifeng discussed with Jia Lian to celebrate her birthday. It is clearly stated here that Baochai is fifteen years old and the age of Xuan, which means that Baochai was 14 years old when he entered the palace to be elected, which is just in line with the age.

Although Wang Ziteng has been promoted, he has long been transferred out of the capital, and he can't interfere in the affairs of the capital at all, and it belongs to the bright promotion and secret descent.

In other words, Daiyu's age when she entered Jiafu should be six or seven years old. Combined with the age requirements of the imperial court draft, it is obvious that it is not met at this time. In addition, my mother has just died, and according to the etiquette system, I have to keep filial piety for three years.

Therefore, the frequent occurrence of such a series of disasters is to show that the direction of the wind above has changed, and the courtiers have become wary of them. At this time, what they can do is to quickly rein in their edge, so as not to be caught by the pigtails and cause a greater disaster.

The Jia family is the last to fall because of Jia Yuanchun in the palace, because of Yuanchun's control, the emperor just wants to rectify the Jia family, and he has to take care of Yuanchun's face.

There is already a Yuan Chun in the palace, and Yuan Chun must have made some moves in the palace for the sake of family affairs, and in the end, the emperor also reluctantly gave up Yuan Chun. Therefore, since there is a precedent for such a family tragedy, it will definitely not repeat the mistakes of the past, at least not immediately after. If Xue Pan doesn't have an accident, the above will definitely find another reason to cancel Xue Baochai's candidacy.

Because it is difficult to avoid such a thing, if Xue Baochai is captivated by the country and the city, which makes people fall in love at first sight, but the above cannot choose her because of political reasons, then the people who fall in love with Xue Baochai will endure this grief of cutting love again.

Jia Lian listened, lowered his head and thought for a long time and said, "You are confused today." The existing proportion, Sister Lin is an example.

How did you give Sister Lin in previous years, but now you can also give it to Sister Xue. Sister Feng heard this and sneered: "Don't I even know this?

That's what I thought.

But yesterday, I heard the old lady say that when I asked about everyone's age and birthday, I heard that Sister Xue is fifteen years old this year, although it is not a full birthday, it can be regarded as a year. The old lady said she wanted to make his birthday. If you really do it for him, it will naturally be different from Sister Lin in previous years.

I like it, I just like Daiyu more. Then Xue Baochai was forced by his family to marry, so he was a little rebellious, and Baochai was a more sophisticated person in his eyes, so he didn't like her so much.

People are always more likely to like those with a little flaw, with a crippled beauty. Just like when you look at plastic surgery now, if you are too perfect, you will have aesthetic fatigue. Lin Daiyu's type is hypocritical in modern times, including poor health.

But it is precisely because of these reasons that Jia Baoyu likes it.

There's no why, emotional things are out of your control, if you can really say one, two, three, then the feelings are not so magical, no feeling is no feeling, no matter how perfect it is, there is no feeling.

Because Baochai is indeed a good daughter and daughter-in-law, but she may not be a good wife and lover.

Baochai is very talented, "reading and literacy, compared to the brother is more than ten times higher", after the death of her father, she "does not take books and words as a thing, only pay attention to things such as needlework, so as to share the worries and relieve labor for her mother", in front of her mother, "I will discuss with him when I have serious things, and I am fortunate that he opened my heart." When I saw him like this, how many sorrows I couldn't get rid of. "A perfect daughter indeed.

In the eighty episodes of "Dream of Red Mansions", Baochai has not yet married, and of course there is no direct description of her as a daughter-in-law. But from her way of doing things, getting along with Mrs. Wang, and her knowledge of housework, it can be inferred that she will definitely be a good daughter-in-law.

But a lot of readers don't like her. Because Baochai has a fatal flaw: ruthlessness.

The flower stick drawn by Baochai is a peony, and the poem is "Ren is ruthless and moving". Her "ruthlessness" is almost labeled.

Baochai is not completely emotionless. She has a vague but unconcealed little affection for Baoyu. From this point of view, Daiyu's "melancholy and resentment" towards her is not Daiyu's heart.

However, Baochai has developed a deep-rooted habit of suppressing and hiding her feelings. It is the most precious love, she can also give up immediately when she encounters a setback, without any nostalgia: "Dream Zhaojiang Yunxuan", as soon as she heard that Baoyu never forgot the "wood and stone marriage" in her dream, she decided to withdraw from the competition of love, and instead went to Daiyu to seek friendship.

This is where there is the later "Golden Ranch Mutual Dissection of the Golden Orchid".

The friendship with Daiyu is not fake, but it is not out of affection. Just like she thinks about Xiangyun, she is not stingy with financial support, and often puts herself in her shoes. However, when there was a scandal in Daguanyuan and he was in a hurry to withdraw, Baochai did not hesitate to send Xiangyun to live with Li Kun.

Of course, Baochai has her difficulties. When I go home by myself, it is indeed inconvenient to take Xiangyun with me. But think about it, when Xiangyun first came, Jia's mother "ordered Sister Feng to set up another place to live with him." Shi Xiangyun insisted on refusing, as long as he lived with Baochai", it still made people feel sad.

Theoretically, one should love oneself before others. But when you really encounter the facts, there will always be people like Daiyu, as soon as they hear that Xiuyan is being bullied, they can't help but sigh when they hear that Xiuyan is bullied, "'The rabbit dies and the fox is sad, and the thing hurts it'"; There will always be people like Xiangyun: "Wait until I ask the second sister to go!"

I scolded that old woman and girl, how can I be angry with you? I'd rather be ridiculed as, "What are you doing?" ”

Baochai's assistance to others may be more practical and effective. But when it comes to feelings, this is indeed her shortcoming.

And people's requirements for affection are sometimes so high. As a result, there are always some people who understand, envy, and like Baochai, calling her "perfect", and there are always some people who can't like Baochai at all.

Because the reader thinks that this person is too perfect, there will be a sense of distance, and she is really an indifferent person, not like a person of flesh and blood.

Readers don't like her because she ruined the love story between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, and people think that if Lin Daiyu marries Jia Baoyu, Lin Daiyu will not die with hatred, it will be a perfect ending.

The reason why many readers don't like Xue Baochai is because in the hearts of readers, Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu are a match made in heaven.

Because the protagonists of this book are Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, and Lin Daiyu's weakness has caused readers to feel distressed, thinking that not marrying Jia Baoyu is all a problem for Xue Baochai.

I think the main reason is that Xue Baochai's mind is very heavy, and she is very high-eyed, looking down on people, etc.

Aunt Xue knew that it was impossible between them, so in order to alleviate this embarrassing situation, she borrowed Baoyu to play a round and skillfully solved this embarrassing situation.

Aunt Xue mentioned that Jia Baoyu did not get married, and Daiyu did not allow anyone's family, saying that it would be better to let Daiyu marry Jia Baoyu, and deliberately rounded up this matter, maybe she knew that it was impossible for her son and Lin Daiyu to do so.

Aunt Xue used "Baoyu" to play a round to alleviate the embarrassing situation, everyone in Jiafu knew that Daiyu liked Baoyu, and Xue Baochai hoped that Daiyu could marry someone else.

Aunt Xue kept saying that Xue Baochai was weird, and intentionally or unintentionally mentioned the words "Jinyu Liangyuan" in front of others. When she gave someone else's palace flowers, she deliberately instructed her subordinates to let Zhou Rui's family send them first, and deliberately let Lin Daiyu choose the rest. Later, she also said that she would leave all the palace flowers to Baochai and not give them to others.

Aunt Xue often associated Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu, saying that the two of them were destined by God. She has been pretending to be modest and saying that Baochai has a strange temperament, but in fact, she is showing that she is smart. She deliberately let Xue Baochai be the first to choose when she sent flowers, and later deliberately said that Baochai could stay all.

Aunt Xue always said that Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu were together, which meant that they were destined by God. And then it was very fake, especially hypocritical, that Baochai had a strange temperament.