What is it like to have a lot of hidden friends around you?

It's a source of pride and inferiority.

In fact, I'm a person, how to say, a bit of a shining point or talent, but I was ruined by my own procrastination and laziness. I've always been glad that I can live smoothly and skillfully avoid the difficulties of life, and I think I'm not very bad.

But when you have time, you suddenly calm down and think, or when you accidentally find that you have a lot of super powerful friends around you, that sense of self-blame and inferiority complex is really not something you can control.

I'm a junior in college and I haven't passed level 4 yet, but I have a friend who is not an English major who has already started taking level 8. Recently, I saw that she posted on Moments and has passed the preliminary examination for graduate students of Tsinghua University. After getting to know her, I found that she is also super good at French, good at sports, has the title of a national athlete, has also developed in the art class, and her work ability is also outstanding.

Two days ago, I suddenly found that a friend around me who would only post yellow pictures and dirty jokes in the post bar, it turned out that the Weibo he operated was already decent, and now he doesn't need to do it himself, but has recruited people to operate, and there is already a certain business model, and various platform advertisements continue to find the door. I was shocked by this. Because there are really few people who know that he is doing Weibo, he is reluctant to tell his friends about it.

Later, I had more communication with him, including chatting with him in the past two days, only to find that many of his ideas were really mature and different from ordinary people.

I feel really proud to know such a group of amazing people, and I will think that "I am friends with such a wonderful person", but I will also feel more disappointed and worried about myself than ever before. Emotions that doubt oneself and feel that you are really useless will also come out from time to time.

This feeling may mean that every day is full of surprises, because you don't know which of your friends will be particularly special, or the big V in Weibo or the unit in Zhihu. Usually, they look like you, very ordinary, very unoutstanding, but when one of their specialties is played, you will be particularly amazed, and then you have made such good friends, so this feeling should be full of surprises every day.

A colleague of mine from my dad is such a hidden person.

I used to spend almost every summer vacation with my parents before I went to college. So I've known my dad's colleague for a long time. My dad asked me to call him uncle, and he had a very good relationship with my dad.

This year, my dad and that uncle separated, and because the boss quit, many people went their separate ways on their own. But my dad and my uncle kept in touch, and I also called that uncle. Later I knew,The uncle alone took out 7 million yuan to build a solar power plant.

At that time, I felt that the rich people had always been by my side, and we didn't see it for more than ten years.

Then I thought about it,He bought a car worth more than half a million before he separated from my dad. His hometown is Nanchang. There is also a house in Nanchang.

I don't know how much a house in Nanchang is worth. But it's certainly not cheap either. And my uncle will not leave himself a little working capital.

No matter how you calculate it, his net worth is more than 10 million. Not to mention the knowledge he demonstrated.

So this "uncle" of mine is really a hidden person.

A friend of mine eats instant noodles every day, and one day I met him at fast food, and he really has a deep hidden merit and fame.

My best friend, she looks very gentle and very likable. In fact, it is a very scheming person. But she's been nice to me.

Somehow, I was made up by others to be someone I didn't even know.

After five rounds of wine on the dish, everyone will hide it deeply.

My father, in fact, I am the second generation of the rich, and he still hides it from me, afraid that I will not want to make progress