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In addition to earning money to support the family, can't men share some housework?
There was something on the ground, I was far away, and I asked him to go over and see what it was, and they ran over to look at it very seriously, and then ran back and told me that it was garbage, and then there was no more.
Once I said it was going to rain and asked him to put away the clothes that were drying, and they took them back, and their pants were drenched in the rain all night.
I put the clothes in the washing machine, the laundry detergent was poured, and the water was connected, for fear of making him sleep, I went to work and left first, and sent him a message saying that he remembered to turn on the washing machine when he went out, yes, he really opened the door of the washing machine.
During pregnancy, I said that the ground was so dirty, husband, you bring the mop, and then he really took the mop and said to the pregnant person: Here you go.
After reading so much, women all over the country are saying, it turns out that everyone's husbands are the same, so I won't divorce. Young people who are not yet married may just look at the jokes and think that it is just the little things in life that rise to divorce?
In fact, some studies have shown that the factors that affect the relationship between husband and wife are, firstly, loyalty, secondly, sexuality, and thirdly, the distribution of housework.
The most terrible thing about getting married is that I once dreamed of marrying a man who spoiled me as my daughter, but when I got married, I found that my husband was the one who was spoiled by me, and I became a veritable new "bride".
In their eyes, a clean and tidy home is inherently tidy, clothes will be washed by themselves when they are put in the washing machine, and if there is nothing left at home, or they can't find it, they just need to scream at their wives. My daily tasks are to go to work, go home to eat, play with my mobile phone, and sleep.
Why is the general happiness of Chinese women low? The unfinished chores are actually the main reason.
Working hard during the day, and having a mountain of housework after work, who will be happy?
I once heard a sentence that the vast majority of Chinese women have to experience one or all of these four misfortunes in their lifetime: mother-style mate selection, nanny-style wife, widowed parenting, and widowhood marriage.
Among them, the two misfortunes of "mother-style mate selection" and "nanny-style wife" are caused by the fact that men never share the housework.
In fact, what marriage will become depends on you in the final analysis. After all, the husband is your choice, and the marriage is your own.
Women should not blindly wronged themselves, and should solve problems immediately when they arise.
Don't do all the housework by yourself and blame the other person for not doing anything.
Don't deprive the other party of his right to do housework just because he can't do housework, no one is born to do housework, you are not, and of course your husband is not.
Editor's note: Don't express your thoughts implicitly or implicitly, learn to be bold and direct, after all, the other party is not a roundworm in your stomach, and you can't figure out all your thoughts. Therefore, whether it is housework or emotional communication, it must be spoken out and communicated in order to be solved.
You can't be hinted at by your face. You can't lose your temper at every turn, and if you lose too much temper, your feelings will fade. Communicate more and understand everything.
As long as such a marriage is a good marriage. Friends, do you think that's right?
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The craziest thing I've ever done to get something is nothing I do. Except when my wife chased me, so I cherish him now.
As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**. If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.
As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful; Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this sense of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said: The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, I only think they are noisy. Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.
However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:
1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.
She shouldn't be serious, if she likes you, she won't treat you like this, it feels like she's just using you, if one day you don't give her money and material comforts, she should just leave, go to the next one, use their love for her, and get what she wants.
Women should not marry a foolish man, otherwise you will not be happy in this life.
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