I heard that the more mature you are, the fewer you post on Moments, is that true?

On this issue,Answer: The main body feels that there is no direct relationship between the lack of social media and maturity。In other words, having fewer moments is not a sign of maturity, and mature people are not necessarily posting fewer moments.

But many people may feel that some people rarely post moments after becoming mature, which is indeed the casetendency, but the respondent has to say what the respondent thinks about this phenomenon.

1. What is the mentality of people who post a lot of friends?

I think it's important for us to talk about that. Each of us will have friends who frequently post in the circle of friends, and the respondent feels that these people often have to tell others about the very small things in their lives, psychologically speaking, they have the desire to confide in others, and this desire is very strong. They may feel that I have to let others know about what they have done, so that they can feel satisfied or grounded.

But the fact that everything is like what others say and has a strong desire to talk about is actually very inappropriate in reality. First of all, to be honest, not everyone else will care about your life, what you eat in the morning, what you do at noon, what movies you watch at night, when others see your circle of friends, others may give a thumbs up, a simple comment or two sentences, but seriously, there are almost no people who take that thing to heart, and the energy invested will not exceed two minutes. So it's naïve for us to confide in others.

We don't live to show others.

And many times, we have some troubles and things, or it is more appropriate to digest and solve them by ourselves, or to tell the people around us alone, if we go to the circle of friends to talk nonsense, it will inevitably seem a little complaining, which is very inappropriate for the people around us.

2. Why mature people often don't often post on Moments

The respondent thinks that mature people do not often post on Moments, because they do not shake out the details of their lives without reservation, and they know that the information they provide is not nutritious for others. And they also don't have the desire to show off, the desire to show off what is great in their lives. When they encounter something, they will solve it in reality by themselves, rather than talking about something in the circle of friends.

They want to have their own life and have their own privacy. So they tend to rarely post on Moments.

3. Mature people may also often post on Moments

Some people may often post on Moments because of work matters, and some people may also often share something that can bring joy or emotion to everyone in Moments, and they also often post Moments, but the purpose of their Moments is not to show off, nor to force spam information to others, they are to share.

Why do people post on Moments? Tell others about your daily routine? If your life is only three meals a day, three o'clock and one line, I believe you will not have the heart to post on Moments, so one of the purposes for people to choose to post Moments is to show off or to satisfy their vanity.

Therefore, I personally think that posting a circle of friends is not a sign of a person's immaturity, and the angle of testing a person's maturity lies in the content of the circle of friends he postes. Just like your teacher, she never sells cuteness in the circle of friends. People are really funny sometimes, and they will take the time to block their circle of friends from a few years ago or delete a piece of news, and feel embarrassed, how could I post such a childish thing in the first place?

Now you will be ecstatic to eat a delicious meal, even if it is just a cold grilled noodle or a few skewers on the street, and twenty years from now, you will not think that is a blessing.

Therefore, whether you post a circle of friends or not does not mean that a person is immature, just like my seventy-year-old grandfather, who still has some strange paternalistic circle of friends every day, and I almost never post a circle of friends, because I feel that life is too dull.

People are always accustomed to sharing something that brings them emotional fluctuations in the circle of friends, either happy or sad, not posting a circle of friends, not necessarily mature, it may just be because he is too busy with work, and he is tired every day and doesn't even bother to complain, it may be that he feels that his happiness does not need to be told to others, or that in our eyes, things that seem worthy of posting to the circle of friends have already become dull in the eyes of others.

If you don't post a circle of friends, it is not necessarily mature, but the content of a person's circle of friends is a sign of a person's maturity.

The circle of friends is no longer a circle of "friends", but a huge and complex circle of interpersonal relationships. Mature people don't know how to post moments, but they know how to post moments.

From a psychological point of view, most of the people who like to post on Moments are to meet two basic needs. One is to seek a sense of belonging; The second is to show oneself. The original purpose of all this is to connect oneself with others and the world.

This type of person has a rich heart, is most relaxed when he is alone, and does not feel bored. They think that life is for themselves, not for others to see. Instead of exchanging your time and energy for this cheap and short-lived sense of existence, it is better to do more meaningful things in life.

They are not pretending to be different, but they are tired of picking up the fragments of other people's lives, and want to use the time to brush the circle of friends to do something that they really want to do and really enjoy.

As more and more people use WeChat as a means of communication, the scope of the circle of friends is also getting wider and wider. There are your parents, friends, colleagues, leaders, subordinates, group members who have only chatted for two sentences in a certain group, and even strangers who don't know when to scan and know.

For people engaged in self-employment, marketing and other industries, the circle of friends is no longer a place to share their lives, but their second work battlefield.

They learn how to post on Moments, how to attract a person within ten dynamics, so that he understands himself, and shifts from "weak relationship" to "strong relationship". Many of their cooperation opportunities are on WeChat, so not only did they not close the circle of friends, but made better use of the circle of friends.

I feel that the reason why I rarely post on Moments is mainly because my life is too busy, busy earning money, busy working overtime, and ignoring Moments

Sometimes, we don't know what we're busy with, as if all we are doing is for life, in order to live the simplest. Sometimes the cover is missing, and unintentionally, we emit some fragrance like a flower, infecting others, which we cannot predict and do not need to deliberately pursue. The fragrance may remain in someone else's heart forever, or it may not be at all, so we don't have to be happy or sad about something.

Casualness is the best, this is the true nature of life. The pressure is not that someone is working harder than you, but that those who are several times stronger than you are still working harder than you!

A simple life makes people easy and happy, and simple desires make people peaceful and serene. Because of simplicity, I deeply understand the lightness of life, light as a flying flower, as light as a falling glow, as light as rain; Because of simplicity, I can understand the tranquility of the soul, as quiet as the night sky, as quiet as a valley, and as quiet as a stream. The simplicity of everything contains the truth of indifference and tranquility.

Life is so simple, family, love, friendship are woven together to form a picture of happiness.

Recognize that every day is important, and live every day as an important day to create a virtuous circle of interpersonal communication.

Leave a little space for yourself every day, keep this time simple, free and pure, and recharge yourself regularly to recharge your energy.

Clean things up frequently, keep the space tidy, and don't let the cluttered space disturb your thoughts and emotions.

I feel that as I get older, I have become more mature, I am not so childish, and I realize that life is good for myself, and there is no need to show everything to others. Specifically, there are several main reasons why I don't like to share more and more:

1. First of all, the world is warm and cold, only self-knowledge. As I get older, I don't want to cater to it, or I get used to being alone, and I don't like to make my life public.

Gradually, many people begin to learn to be silent, to be silent and lonely, even if no one understands. The circle of friends changed from day to month, and then it simply didn't change. Maybe happiness is shared with the wrong person, and it becomes a show, and sadness is shared with the wrong person, and it becomes a joke.

Second, secondly, life is stressful, work pressure is high, and more and more people may only click on the circle of friends once a day, let alone send a circle of friends.

Those who are lonely, have a relaxed job, and have a lot of free time may swipe their mobile phones many times a day, and look through WeChat or Moments many times; But there are also some people who are very busy with work, and they want to sleep after eating and taking a bath every day when they get home; may be at most two or three times a day, let alone post news by yourself. They would rather go to sleep or watch a movie to relax than to pay attention to other people's lives.

Third, third, your own life has to be lived by yourself in the end, ups and downs, joys and sorrows, thousands of tastes, only you know, not to mention that sometimes you don't have a good time.

In fact, what scares you even more is that these real emotions are nothing more than worthless hypocrisy in the eyes of others. After all, in our circle of friends, it is not the place where only good friends recorded their daily lives in the past, as well as bosses, colleagues, parents and various relatives. Negative emotions are afraid that people who care about themselves are worried, and they are afraid that people who are not familiar with them will think that it is hypocritical, as movie star Heath Ledger said:

Emotions are too aggrieved to hide, and too embarrassing to vent. ”

Fourth, in the end, there is nothing to send.

There is also a situation when I was young, I liked to send a partner circle, I felt interesting when I saw anything, and I was not afraid of gossip, I only cared about the feeling in my heart, and I wanted to send it. But maybe after a long time, or if you are too tired from work, you lose interest in life and feel that it is boring to do anything, so you can't find the content you want to post.

It's nice to be silent, quiet with each other, and not bothered anymore. In short, silence becomes a way, but it is the beginning of a person's maturity.

The answer given by many people is that there are colleagues, bosses, parents, and relatives in their circle of friends.

A lot of things can't be published in the circle of friends, because I don't want others to know that I am not doing well, I don't want my parents to worry, I don't want to be felt by the leader that my ability to resist pressure is weak, and I don't want other people who don't want to do it to misunderstand.

A friend said:The circle of friends is like a public place, what can you do in a public place?

A friend said: I sent it. Several a day. It's just that it's only visible to itself.

There are also friends who feel that because the circle of friends is now full of advertisements for micro-businesses and real estate, the information is mixed, and the circle of friends and colleagues has gradually decreased, so they gradually don't want to watch the circle of friends and don't want to send it.

Because what I want to share has been privately sent to the people I care about.

There are also friends who are "anxious about liking" and feel that after posting on Moments, they will care if anyone likes or comments, and they refresh it vigorously, why no one has liked it yet. Will you think about whether the content you post is inappropriate, is it showing off or is it hypocritical?

The most important thing is to see that those mutual friends don't like it, and the circle of friends you posted doesn't like it, but the dynamics before and after are liked, and I suddenly feel bored.

Of course, there are friends who think, I want to post it, why do I care if those people like it or not, I want to record my past and current life when I post it on Moments. At least in the future, I will remember what I was doing at this time and went there**.

In fact, this is the desire to share.

Sharing the world is still there, that is, sharing all the time.

If you don't want to share, you don't want to post it slowly.

Posting on Moments is not necessarily showing off, and not posting on Moments is not necessarily Qinggao. Your circle of friends, you call the shots, his circle of friends, he decides.

The circle of friends is just your own space, and it is up to you to choose whether to send it or not, and others have no right to ask.

I like a sentence very much, the people ** said: "If you can shoot, you can take pictures, if you want to show off, you must show off, ten years later, no matter how good the camera and technology, you can't shoot such a look, boldly record life, you are now every day, is worth collecting."

There is no good or bad in the circle of friends,It's all about your own way of life。Don't pay more attention to others, don't care what others think of you, focus on your own life.