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I think I'll be infatuated with you for a long time, maybe I don't like you very much, it's just that this feeling can make me mourn for a long time, and I'm just not dead in my heart, I won't chase in your direction, I'll just look in your direction, for a long, long time. I know that we can't do it, but I'm an infatuated person, and the feelings I give are like the water spilled by a married girl, I can't get it back, and it takes a long time to forget a person.

Infatuation is not particularly appropriate to describe me, it should be difficult to give up easily, it is difficult to give up, it is difficult to give up, and I will not look back without hitting the south wall. I wanted to give up, but it was hard for me to reconcile with myself. Actually, I also know that if I insist on doing my own thing, I will hurt myself.

That boy used to occupy my dreams. In my dream, I ran with him wantonly, my hair was light, and his eyes were gentle like water. I've also fantasized that I'm also an amorous person, how can I allow someone to be forgotten casually?

I'm not reconciled, he's so good, how can I see him talking and laughing with other girls, think about it, who am I? Worthless in his heart, the girl he holds in his hand is his favorite, his real choice, his gentleness, his good temper, his spoiling, all for her, I, just think about it.

If he is an impossible person, I may be infatuated for a long time, if he doesn't like me, I may immediately think clearly, this boy doesn't like me, and if he continues to stalemate, he should hate me, I don't want this. However, we are not suitable for various reasons, it is impossible, I may negotiate with myself, no matter what, I will be hurt, I will protect myself well, so that the damage is minimized.

If a boy treats your infatuation as an entanglement, then this infatuation is meaningless. Who doesn't need time to heal? The person you like so much sends you away with all kinds of unspeakable reasons, thinking that this is a soft-hearted treatment for you, but this is all hurt.

For a boy who has never looked at you squarely, do we still have to insist on it? Rather than supporting yourself alone and not seeing the future, it is better to let go in a chic way, remember, it is you who you don't want, and you give up him. Don't wronged yourself, don't force yourself, otherwise you will be unforgettable because of your forbearance, and he will always be a hurdle that you can't get over.

Be kind to yourself so that your prince charming and your knight will have the day to save you early, and your infatuation will not only make it difficult for your heart to extricate itself from your imaginary feelings, but also miss out on the person who gave you a new lease on life.

Girl, infatuation is actually unwilling to be unrewarded because of your own efforts, you must remember that this is all deserved, no one stipulates that there will be a reward for paying, one is willing to fight, one is willing to suffer, no one can say anything. Be kind to yourself, don't be infatuated with those who just pass by you for so long, there are many people who rub shoulders with you in this world, and they will miss you, and you should be infatuated with the person who looks back at you.

When I was young, if you asked me if I would still insist on this relationship when I knew that the other party didn't love me or knew that we couldn't get together in the end, then mine must be certain, because I was simple at that time, paranoid that love is not necessarily to get, or because I was depicting a dream that only belonged to me, as long as there was love in this dream, everything could become beautiful, and I told myself over and over again that as long as there was love, I would definitely go to a happy ending. But he forgot that the ending was already doomed, everything could not be changed, and dreams could only be dreams.

When I grew up, I slowly understood that in addition to giving, love is also important to get. All human behaviors have a purpose, eating, wearing, living and traveling are for their own comfort, sacrificing themselves to save others for others to survive, love is the same, there is a purpose, the definition of love in psychology is that two people love each other and eventually produce a desire to accompany each other to old age, here, accompanying each other to old age is the purpose of love. If a person only talks about how much he loves you every day, but never mentions spending his or her life with you, then I'm sorry to tell you that he or she definitely doesn't love you as much as he or she seems.

Coming back to this question, knowing that they can't come together, then the ultimate purpose of love cannot be realized, that is to say, this love may be a pseudo-love. When a person gradually deepens with the emotion of liking, it will eventually transform into a love that wants to be with him for a lifetime, but if this like is blocked, then love can not be smoothly transformed, knowing that love cannot be obtained, what kind of infatuation is there to talk about, then not even his own initial pursuit has been given up?

I feel that once a person has given his feelings, he must want to be rewarded, and only in this way can he be motivated to continue to give. First of all, I don't believe in love at first sight, and in my opinion, most love is obtained through the gradual accumulation of feelings. If there is only one person who pays unilaterally for a long time, and the feelings are not accumulated (of course, excluding individual masochists, the more people ignore him, the more he feels that this person has a personality, and his likes do not decrease but increase), then no matter how deep the liking is, it will be slowly consumed until it disappears.

For me, liking someone must be with the idea of wanting to be with him, I don't love me at first, yes, I will use my own actions to make him deepen his impression of me, and finally soften his attitude, but if he really doesn't love me all the time, it can only prove that I have found the wrong person, and the two of us are not destined to be happy together, so I will let go and find the other half who is really suitable for me. If I knew from the beginning that two people couldn't be together, then I would definitely give up decisively, and even said that I wouldn't let this relationship develop from the beginning, you can't be with me anymore, why do you still ask me to continue to give you love.

In fact, different people have different approaches to this problem, some people like to stick to the end, not to the Yellow River do not give up, always feel that they really like the person they love must pay a lot, after all, a lot of interesting things, it is better to do it than to miss, love is not obviously there a crocodile in the deep pool, and someone has warned me, but I have to wade through, obviously there are vicious dogs in the yard, and someone has warned me, I want to rush in, because my princess is on the tower, and my prince is under the water. Love is not about giving everything you have to pursue each other, so that you will not regret it, so that you will not miss it. <>

Just like a person I once loved deeply, I knew that she didn't love me, but she was with me because she was moved, I knew that I didn't love me, and I knew that there would be no results, but I still lied to myself, and finally I was covered in bruises, and I withdrew dimly, I spent five years forgetting her, but I understand that I can't forget her at all, she is still in my heart, but I don't regret it, I have worked hard to pay, I have persistent, at least when I am old, I will not regret it! I'm sure if I do it again, I'll still love her ......

But there are also some people who can be ruthless to themselves, even if they love, they will not resist contacting, they will not be infatuated with her, and they may even find a girlfriend right away to divert their attention. I have a friend next to me, he loves his girlfriend very much, but her girlfriend hurt him deeply, I thought he would be very sad, but the result surprised me, I never expected, I didn't see that he was sad, but I knew that he must be very uncomfortable! But he didn't show it, he is a person who doesn't love you and won't be infatuated, in fact, I admire him, he knows how to give up, at least that won't make him ......too tired

So in order to be able to get happiness in the future, the so-called twisted melon is not sweet, don't ignore the whole garden because of the withering of a flower, open your hands, you will get more beauty! Well, that's all it takes, people sometimes need to calm down and think with their hearts, only people who know how to give up will be happy people!

Do you have a long-term infatuation with someone who doesn't love you or knows it won't work out? If every onlooker would surely say no! Every enlightener will say that there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

But ah, I understand the truth, who doesn't understand? Who doesn't know these famous quotes. If you can do it, even if you stop giving up, then how can there still be so many people who seek short-sightedness or self-harm for love.

In fact, girl, you have to know that you are an angel, there will be a boy who loves you as much as his life, before that, all you have to do is to protect yourself well and take care of yourself for him.

If you know that he doesn't love you, or that it doesn't work out, I want you to stop being kind to him, and fantasizing about him, you have to know that no matter what you do or how much you give, he can't see it, and if you keep doing it like this, he will think that you are willing, he will think that you are cheap, and then say something very hurtful, don't you care? Do you really care if you do something hurtful? You must know that you are also the princess that your parents hold in their hearts for fear of falling, and in their mouths for fear of melting!

Even if it's for the sake of your family, you want to make yourself happy!

If he really doesn't suit you, then why do you force yourself to be wronged? You have to believe that there is always such a person in this world who will see your goodness, and is reluctant to let you suffer a little grievance, there will always be someone who loves you very much and will have results, so that it is worthy of your infatuation. I hope you can put your good use to the people who are worthy, know what should be and what should not be, don't think about a child without thoughts, you must know that in this society there is no simple love or no love, there are benefits in it, and now there is no love in this society as before.

I hope you understand.

Even so, I still want to send you a word, where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

In fact, when I see this problem, I first think of those bitter characters in movies or TV dramas who can't be loved, they often look at the person they like with others, and tell themselves that to love him is to give him freedom, so as to let himself go.

I really don't understand this kind of behavior.,Maybe it's not high enough.,Maybe I'm more realistic and practical.,Like is to be two people together.,There's no resultant relationship, so what are we pursuing? Maybe some people feel very happy when they think about it in their hearts, that is the realm of real love, as written in **, beyond the love of life and death, but for most of us modern people, love is built on material life, because the result of the love that most of us pursue is that two people get married and have children, and go through their lives hand in hand. In my own case, it's the same.

If I knew that this was a relationship that would not yield results no matter how much I tried, then I would not have wasted time by investing my feelings in the first place, I would force myself, tell myself, you can't like him, maybe it's too realistic and practical, but in life, that's what it looks like, and I believe that I'm not the only one doing it.

I do envy that kind of sublime love, that kind of love in the soul realm, but I think that there are fewer and fewer people who can have such a high love realm and firmly choose infatuation. Because, I am an individual, and the result of love I hope for is that love is to be two people together.

No, the pain in the world will let me know that my lover met by fate, and was separated by fate, leaving behind a pile of bones.

Love is a song that can never be sung in life. People may experience a lot of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There are fates everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost from the beginning, and some fates will never end well; You don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love her well.

If sincerity is a hurt, choose a lie; If a lie is a disservice, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave. If love is a hurt, don't come close. But there are many cases where this is not the case, because you can't help but choose.

If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay? If obsession was suffering, would you choose to end? If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?

If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide? There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will inevitably be a better relationship waiting for you.