I don t want to help her anymore, that s it

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not that you're selfish at all. It's her problem, he doesn't like you, this reality is already very clear, and you don't want to admit it. Do you know?

    The more you get close to someone, the more often you contact her and pay attention to her, and she will be disgusted. People are like this, try to let go. Think about it, this person is really unnecessary.

    She asks you for help, and if she can help, she will do her best, and if she can't help, she can say it. Her so-called stinginess doesn't have to be taken care of.

    As long as you let go, she may regret it one day, and you don't accept it if you want to turn back, because it's no longer worth it.

    Well, happy with you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If I say she doesn't like you and just wants to take advantage of you, will you listen?

    1. First of all, judging from your text, she only thinks of you in two situations and will respond to you A, when you say you want to help her buy things b, when she has something to ask you to help, the landlord is a smart person, and I don't need to say more about where to go.

    2. If you think he likes you, then I'll help you analyze and analyze, you are already working, it shouldn't be small, you won't answer 50 times, if it's you, in the face of the person you like, can you do it? I haven't spoken for 4 months, and I haven't replied to messages, if it's you, can you do it in the face of the person you like? Even if she really likes you, according to her old man's character, what do you think your life will be like when you get married, when you face firewood, rice, oil, salt, and your feelings tend to be flat???

    issues that have to be carefully considered).

    3. Reality sometimes everyone is unwilling to face, but it still exists! If there is no objective assessment, then it will be you who will suffer in the future!

    4. You are a man, but you don't have the ability to recognize things correctly, a big man, she said that you are stingy, don't you have an understanding of yourself??? Did she comment on it? Still uncomfortable??

    Don't blame me for being honest, you brought it on yourself!

    5. For the question of whether to speak, you are colleagues, and you are a man, I think the best way is to treat her, like and other colleagues, even if you still have her in your heart, but also pretend to be calm, don't give her too much special treatment, anyway, in a word, there is no difference from other colleagues, so after a period of time (you see it yourself, grasp it yourself) If she still has no reaction, I advise you to completely give up, don't be cheap yourself!

    Everything that needs to be said is said, and the key depends on your own actions! No one else can help you with this!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Friend, I feel that you are making yourself amorous, she has no feelings for you at all, why are you so stubborn, you pay so much for her, what he has said to you, what has he done, and he is still so self-righteous, do you feel that you are so good, why do you treat yourself like this, employees in a company generally cannot have an ambiguous relationship, you don't give yourself hope like this, or choose your own life, it's not worth it for such a person,

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Classmate, don't pay attention to her anymore.

    No one is right or wrong in these things, even lovers who are in a certain relationship.

    You better give up, now that you've done this, she doesn't want to forget it.

    Does it matter if a friend doesn't have to do it?

    Have fun.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't help her. What about being selfish, since you have paid and you have helped her, she can usually ignore you and come to you if she has a problem, what is this! Don't go to her hungry, she wants to take advantage of your feelings, use your attitude to tell her, I liked you at the beginning to give you face, it's good for you to accept, you don't have to do anything for you if you don't accept it, who are you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Did you say the wrong thing and be angry with her? But for sure. She has a little bit of an ingredient for you. How else would it be to you now? If you don't like it, there's no need to do this to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Brother, emotional things can't be forced, if you like or have liked it, then bless her, think about it, I personally think your thinking is a bit extreme, what do you say? Make yourself gentlemanly, there are better ones waiting for you ahead!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This kind of woman has no respect for you at all!

    This is the basic of being a human being!

    She didn't understand; Do you think such a woman is a good woman?

    Even if you are together, do you think you will be happy?

    Just say what you say as a friend, and everyone knows it;

    Whether you want it or not is her business!

    Everyone knows in their hearts that it is not small;

    Why bother?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, I think this girl's personality is very bad.

    She takes your kindness to her for granted.

    If you continue to do this, it will make the inequality between you worse.

    Both love and friendship should be treated with equal respect for each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You're not selfish, you've done what you should have done

    It was she herself who didn't know how to cherish at first

    When it's really difficult, I think of you and ask you to help him

    She's so hateful

    As the saying goes, leave a line of affection and meet in the future.

    I think he's really done a bit of a miracle before.

    Anyway, I don't think he has feelings for you

    Ignore her... She's selfish.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Ignore her, she's not the only girl in the world.

    Find a better and more beautiful girl than her and her off!

    If you really can't let it go, just talk to her and talk to her calmly.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You're being too cruel to yourself.

    Don't be a fool anymore.

    Give up on her. If they are together in the future, they even get married.

    You will not be happy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Look at your heart yet"Dead".

    It is recommended to help, and by the way, ask her why she used to be. Let you"Dead"It's also clear that it's not right.

    Help you and lose nothing. Be kind.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    A man can afford to put it down, so why bother to ask for hardship? It's good to be happy, why do you care about others so much?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The man's strength should be large, and the prime minister's stomach can support the boat!

    I believe that LZ can finally find his true love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What does she think of you? I'm looking for you.

    I'll ignore you if you're fine. Are you still holding her?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Looking at the last sentence of the landlord.

    Just one word of advice.

    Calm down. I'm upstairs all good, landlord 3 thoughts.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Your friend's problem is that he is not confident enough in himself and chooses to avoid problems when faced with them.

    For example, she obviously likes him, but she doesn't dare to confess it, for fear of being hit, which shows that she is really not confident in herself.

    There is another, relatively speaking, she is more stubborn, dead-eyed, and indecisive.

    In this case, anyone can see it, either confess and see if there is a chance. Or, learn to forget.

    Perhaps, you can't help her with anything. Only when she is ruthless and makes a decision can she liberate herself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you are a friend of the person he likes, it is advisable to tell him about her condition, and if even he loses confidence, there is no hope.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hello this friend;

    I understand your mood at this time. You can't solve her problem. Find a professional counselor. Often, you only get one chance. If you miss it, it's gone, even if the person is still there, but it feels different. This is the "passage of time".

    Contradictions between people cannot occur often, and once the emotional scars are there, it is difficult to repair. It's not something that we all think can be solved by good communication. It is difficult to resolve misunderstandings between men and women. So, she was in an awkward position.

    Emotional problems, let go, can't let go; I took it, and I couldn't pick it up. Forget, and can't forget. Reconciling is not the same as before. This is the "confusion of feelings".

    So, you advise him to find a psychiatrist, this is the best way, don't make you feel bad.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Multiply it and subtract it from ten.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Ten minus one by two by six three.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1.There is no true love in this life, and I don't want to hate you, but fortunately, I endured it and lived for happiness. 2.

    I haven't been happy in this life, I really don't want to live a life of love and hatred, I love you so much. 3.I don't live well for love, I really can't bear to hate you all my life, and I want to be happy in this life!

    4.I hate you so much, there is no joy in life, I really don't want to endure my life for love in this life! 5.

    I hate that you haven't loved me in this life, I can't bear to live for love, I really want to be happy for a lifetime! 6.I hate that you haven't loved me in this life, I can't bear to live for love, I want to be happy!

    7.Love you, I really want to be happy, but no, in this life for love to live, so hateful! 8.

    Life is so happy, I don't have you, I don't want to hate, I am forbearing, and I have love in this life! 9.I want to hate you, I bear it.

    Live for true love in this life, and there is no unhappiness in your life. 10.I haven't been happy for love in my life, I really can't bear to hate you, living in this world, I love you so much.

    11.There is no true love in this life, I don't want to endure it for the rest of my life, and it is better to live for happiness than to hate you. 12.

    I think there is really no one in this life who is not happy for love life, better than hating you for the rest of my life, forbearance! 13.Hate that there is no true love in this life, I miss you so much, and I am happy to live for love.

    14.Want to be happy, no life without love, in this life, I hate you, better than a lifetime of endurance 15I hate that you haven't loved me in this life, I can't bear to live for love, I really want to be happy for a lifetime!

    16.I can't bear to hate you, I want to live happily in this life for true love, better than no love in a lifetime. 17.

    I hate you so much, I really want to live for love in my life, and I am not happy in this life. Endure. 18.

    I hate this life, I can't bear to be happy, I think about you if I live true love! 19.There is no joy in living in this world.

    For love, I want to endure, my life is not good, I really hate you! 20.I have never hated you in this life, I can't bear it for love, I really want to live happily for a lifetime.

    21.There is no true love in this life, and I don't want to hate you, but fortunately, I endured it and lived for happiness. 22.

    I have never been happy in this life for love, I want to hate you so much, I can't bear it. 23.Love is really not happy, but in this life, I don't hate you for the sake of life, and I am forbearing.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Also, the formula for the above question is written incorrectly: 192x(3+56) That's right.

    Also your answer is also wrong 192x 59 =11328

    So when it comes to elementary school age of difficulty it is generally not possible to come up with such a big answer, so please look at the questions carefully!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    630 6 = 105 kg.

    Xiao Penyu, you can't be wrong, hurry up and press it for the big brother, thank you Xiao Penyu!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Gravity is one-sixth of that. There's something wrong with the title.

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