My ex boyfriend wants to get back together with me, but he now has a girlfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-04-13
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Little sister, you are too simple, he can step on two boats, do you still care about you breaking up with him? He has a lot less of you, and one more of you is he earned.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your boyfriend is a bit cheap to tell the truth, he likes to be a lover with you, this kind of man eats in the bowl and thinks about the pot, you still don't want to get back together with him, otherwise you will regret it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Divide and merge, merge and divide, lack of stability, and it is difficult to become a couple.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You're really perfect as a girlfriend, but you're both together, what's the time to get back together? He also only wants to have multiple playmates, if you agree, don't think about being his girlfriend anymore, he's kind enough.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    So why did he get back together with you? Dumped the current one? Will someone dump you one day because of others? I really want to scold you for being wrong again and again. In favor of the 3rd floor, this man can ask for it, and he will suffer if he asks for it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You don't have a problem with him wanting to step on two boats?。。 What do you mean by fz, you're worried that you'll break up, so what's the point of talking about? It's a waste to think about breaking up before a relationship has even started, or not to talk about it. And the man left him alone and bored.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If he wants to step on two boats, I don't have a problem saying that. Because I'm afraid that if I break up with him, it hurts him too much" means that you really like him. But "his current girlfriend is very good to him" and he still wants to step on two boats, which shows that he is playing with his feelings.

    Since he has a girlfriend now, it is impossible for him to be hurt because of your rejection, and boys are not so easily hurt. Even if you agree to get back together with him, you have to completely separate him from his current girlfriend first!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Break up decisively! He doesn't deserve to be cherished and pitied. You have to believe that you will find the guy who only likes you alone.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hey, just ignore him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Once you start to be together, you must be loyal to love and loyalty to each other, that is, no matter who you meet, you can't have an ambiguous relationship with him, and you can't have any contact with your ex.

    Fan Letters:

    I started with my boyfriend last month, when he had just fallen out of love, but I actually had thoughts about him before, so I could say that I took advantage of the situation and took the initiative to attack him, and then became his girlfriend.

    I thought I was finally going to have my own happiness. After all, I really like him. After we started together, I changed the way I prepared lunch for him every day and asked him out to eat after work.

    Last weekend, he suddenly went to the bar again for a drink, got drunk, and then he came to me.

    He told me that his ex had come to get back together with him during the day and that he actually had ideas, but now he was with me again, so he was conflicted and didn't know what to do.

    After he told me about it, he didn't take the initiative to contact me for 2 days, and he made an excuse to ask him out.

    Fish, do you think it's appropriate for me to choose to break up in this situation? But I really like him and want to be with him, but I'm really afraid that he will go behind my back and go with his ex.

    Emotional firmness

    Xiaoyu has something to say:

    From your letter, we can tell that you really like your current boyfriend, otherwise you wouldn't have taken the initiative to pursue him after learning that he had broken up.

    But for such a man who still thinks about his ex in his heart, in fact, you don't need to worry about it anymore. After all, whether you are in love or married, the first thing to do is to be loyal to love and each other, if you can't even do this basic point.

    Then there's no need to stay in the relationship, or you'll be the last one to get hurt.

    So you don't have to struggle, you don't have to overcome. Since he's not for you, and he's not the Prince Charming you want, there's no need for you to keep him.

    In the days to come, you will definitely meet the right man, loyal to love, loyal to you, pampered and love you!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think it's up to you to decide this situation, it's up to your girlfriend to think. If people don't have a deep affection for you and want to get back together with others, you can be a good person to fulfill them, but if your girlfriend cherishes you more and loves you more, then you must catch her and don't give up on her.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Not necessarily, it depends on your boyfriend's attitude and whose heart is on him. If he is very adamantly rejecting his ex-girlfriend, it means that he has put his ex down and they are a thing of the past, then you can still be with him. If he wants to get back together with his ex, it means that he prefers his ex in comparison, then you choose to fulfill them, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Before it is fulfilled, it also depends on whether your girlfriend wants to be with him, if you don't want to get back together with others, you push people to him, this is too weak, it really shouldn't be.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No. The two of you can play fair, it depends on the girl's choice, if he is still willing to get back together with her ex-boyfriend, then there is no way.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course not, because you also love your girlfriend very much, and you will be very good with your girlfriend, so you should not fulfill them.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No. Because they've broken up and it's you that your girlfriend likes right now, you shouldn't fulfill them.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    should not fulfill them, since the girlfriend already has a current one, he should control his own happiness, and he should not be wronged to fulfill them.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No, because when facing your love life, you must respect your inner thoughts, and you must not choose to fulfill others.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think you should fulfill them, and if you fulfill them, don't you become a third person?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    They should be perfected, because there is a chance that your girlfriend is not wholeheartedly devoted to you.

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