What should I do if I like a woman and he guards you like a defence?

It means that you don't have a certain place in this woman's heart. His knowledge of you is not clear, woman's. You will have to prevent and govern yourself.

He looks at you on the outside and is still very wary of your lack of real understanding, you like him, so you have to work hard to care for her and love her in every way. Go help him. Take a certain place in his heart and let him understand that you are the Prince Charming he is looking for.

Only then will he be able to open his heart to you and truly love you. Only then will you succeed.

This is that she doesn't call you, she doesn't feel it, so let's let it go! Because she guards you like this, she doesn't feel for you at all, and no matter how hard you try, it's in vain.

I think it's better to think about whether she doesn't like you at all, sometimes it's not a stalking that can move the other party, and the more you pester him when you don't like you, the more annoying it is.

It shows that this woman hates you very much, so she will guard against you, be very cautious about you, and distrust you will be like this.

His mind is too sensitive. If he is always on guard against you, you and he may be very tired.

Like a woman, she will guard you like a thief, and then show that this woman doesn't like you.

Tell him on the surface that you are not the kind of person she imagined, and if you want to guard against you, you don't have to do it in the future, because you don't want her things.

That's not liking you! Looking at the braised pork through the kitchen window, I'm in a hurry!

Don't try to please and approach her, just show her your sincerity to others, and slowly she will lift her guard.

If it's defensive.

Explain that I don't like you.

If it's a misunderstanding.

Then slowly find a way to clear up the misunderstanding.

If it doesn't like you.

Then just give up.

This one is very simple.

Lu Yao knows that the horsepower has been in the hearts of the people for a long time, and guarding against you means that you do not give people a sense of security, and they are not familiar with you, so it is better to strengthen mutual understanding and let people have a sense of security for you, rather than guarding against you like a wolf.

Feelings to love each other is good, the girl's attitude to you is refused, as the saying goes, the twisted melon is not sweet, don't have to spend effort, there are herbs everywhere in the world, wouldn't it be better to find a person who is happy with each other?

Then you're not her cup of tea, so let's change it.

Say no....Or think you're a**.

If I'm wary of you, I'll have to reflect on myself.

She still doesn't trust you and doesn't show signs of falling in love with you. If you really like her, show your sincerity to get along, and I believe you will be happy.

The people and things you dream about in your dreams are not allowed, so don't dwell on them.

You probably show that your liking is too obvious, and it may make the girls think that you have bad intentions.

The girl is not familiar with you, of course she imitates you!

Then it should be that he knows that you like to like her.

I'm afraid of being hurt, or I just don't believe you and I'm still investigating.

Don't make it too obvious.

You can do something to make him slack off on you first, this thing has to be accumulated over a long time, people can't want others to put down their defenses against you because you did this thing It's impossible, first of all, you have to do something to gain some trust from him, if he doesn't trust you very much, if he wants him to be defensive against you, it's difficult to complete, so the most important step is to gain his trust, and then you're doing something to make him feel that you're a good person, Do too much, and his defensiveness against you will come down.

Explain that he doesn't know you well, or thinks that you are not someone to be trusted, or that he is meant to be.

Then you don't have too much interaction with him, treat him as an ordinary friend.

It means that you are not in a magnetic field, don't worry too much about the 3 views that don't agree, just be the original one.

Each goes back to his own life and goes his own way......

Don't guard what's in the bowl, look at what's in the pot, don't think about it if it's not yours.

It doesn't matter if that person is a relative. Friend. Wife.

Then you have to be careful of him. Don't just give. No matter how good you are to him, he will guard against you.

So you can never get back his sincerity. Loved ones won't treat you like that. Friends and lovers.

If it's a friend, don't make a deep friend. It's okay to get by on the surface. If it is a lover, it proves that this person does not love you at all and does not have you in his heart.

The sooner you leave him, the better. Think about how you can be kind to yourself in the future

I don't know what the relationship between you is, if you are good to him, if you are relatives, I believe that people's hearts are flesh and blood, the other party will definitely feel, but what experience he has experienced, it is estimated that not only to prevent you, may be the same for everyone, and slowly the other party will understand your mind. If you are just ordinary colleagues and friends, then what do you need, don't care so much about whether you are in danger or not, just ordinary colleagues and friends can get by.

First of all, I will continue to be good to him, slowly influence him, use my honest and kind heart to slowly influence him, I believe that he will change his approach, that person guards against you, you know, and the appearance does not let him see it, until there is no confidence in him at all, even if I do not influence him in the end, I will not be hostile to him, and it is not appropriate to settle the dispute. It's a big deal not to be friends with him. and did not resent him.

I believe that we will get along.

Now that you know that he has been guarding against you, you should keep quiet and slowly distance yourself from people like him.

Well, depending on the extent of the relationship, if the time is short, I can understand that it is normal, if the time is still like this for more than three years, I will choose to stay away. Especially this kind of attitude that you blindly treat others well, and others are still perfunctory, I can't bear it, and I don't ask for the same treatment, but ask for sincerity.

Don't let you be prepared to continue to harm you, in fact, you can find that this kind of person is more common in society. There are also low-level ones that hurt your face behind it, this is a low-level one, or there are other purposes or reasons, as well as venting emotions. It is also a kind of helplessness to meet this kind of person - life in the world, with a flick of the fingers, "silence is gold, eloquence is silver, there are many things that do not need to be seen at all, and everything can not be too careful."

Because: the things that have passed away are gone forever after all, whether they are happy or sad, they are all like flowing streams, and they will not turn back.

Such a person should not be deeply acquainted, and he will not trust you if he guards against you. Unless you are obligated to help him when he encounters difficulties, and ignore the people he is not wary of, he will change his opinion of you in the future.

The occurrence of an event cannot measure the calmness of a heart, but the calmness of a heart can affect the solution of a thing. A person's depth cannot measure the calmness of a heart, but the calmness of a heart can show a person's depth. What makes us suddenly clear up may be just a truth, and what affects our mood may be just a knot.

Relax your mind and deal with all the impermanence of the world with a normal heart.

If that's the case, I'll take back my sincerity, and it's only good on the surface, people, as long as they don't hurt each other, it's already good, the sincerity is mutual, and this kind of friendship will last for a long time.

If you don't have a heart, you should do what you do. When you get out of this stage, you will find that there is a wider sky.

Maybe it's because you haven't been around for long, or maybe that person is a more cautious person. As the saying goes: you can't have the heart to hurt people, and you can't have the heart to prevent people!

But if you have been in the relationship for a long time, and you are sincerely good to him, and people still treat you like this, it means that he is a villain, and this kind of person is not worthy of you to be good to him!

I will be disappointed in my heart, but it's normal to think the other way around, maybe we think too simply, he has experienced more so he is more suspicious, as long as you treat her sincerely, I believe that you can always get sincerity.

I will stay away from him, this kind of person is terrible, and I can never be friends with a scheming person.

You can only show that that person is small-minded, and I will still be as good to him as before, and over time, he will gradually become good friends with me.

Don't get along with this kind of person, stay away, such a person is a villain, duplicitous, two-faced.

It is inevitable that there will be a pimple in my heart, and I may not be good to him in the future.

It's better if you can ask the reason indirectly, otherwise you can ask directly, and I think it's better to face the problem directly with the person you're friends with.

Treat others the way they do, I'm afraid of getting hurt.

I'm most afraid that villains will play tricks behind their backs.

It's okay. Maybe people are more withdrawn.