How to solve psychological problems in adolescent girls?

My mother has a bad temper and is irritable, and she will punish you for doing something wrong, and the child is psychologically fragile, and the more you punish, the more afraid you are. It's a feeling of walking on thin ice, being cautious every day, never encouraging or understanding, only scolding and flattering you. After I went to high school, I didn't beat me anymore, but this inner insecurity has always been with me, especially afraid of seeing others quarrel, as soon as I see or hear it, I will be inexplicably nervous, and I am inferior and sensitive, and I will always be unable to think about it when I am frustrated.

It's terrible to think about it now, the family of origin brings us those who will ruin a person if we are not careful, and it may take a lot of effort for a person to peel off these injuries. These things we couldn't choose when we were young, and when we were older, we had the ability to make our own choices, and we were trapped for a long time and were afraid to flee. What I want to say is that you still have a chance, yes, you still have a chance if you are still growing up, as you grow up you will have more opportunities to stay away from them, only away from them you have a chance to **, people are greatly affected by the environment.

Read more books, books on psychological methods, understand the best way, and with a confused way, it will be absorbed faster. Be independent, independent living ability, independent financial ability, because of your independence you will believe in yourself more and more, and already have the ability to take care of yourself and make yourself better. In the end, you mainly came out on your own, and the person who saved yourself was still yourself.

It should be the sensitivity of the adolescent child, coupled with the teacher's behavior that makes the child resist, so he resists going to school. First of all, parents should first observe whether the child is just resisting going to school and whether the child has independent learning behavior at home. Secondly, when communicating, don't ask your child "why don't you go to school", parents must take their tone lightly, lower their stature, and communicate in the tone of their peers.

Finally, in this case, the child may have hurt his self-esteem, and parents are advised to consider changing the class or school for their child. However, whether to change schools needs to be decided after communicating with the child, and even if the decision is made to change schools, parents need to communicate with the child to solve the psychological problems caused by this incident.

Care more about and help children, understand children's inner thoughts, gain children's trust, children no longer dislike their parents, and are naturally willing to contact their parents. We must trust our children, do not interfere in their own affairs, give them more freedom and space, and give them more autonomy.

A good family atmosphere and harmonious family relationships are very important for adolescents to go through adolescence, so parents should have moderate expectations for their children and use a developmental perspective to examine or guide adolescents. Excessive accusations, or even insults, when encountering problems, will not solve the problem and will even have the opposite effect. The harmony of family members is a good example for teenagers.

Harmonious family relationships and family atmosphere can bring more security to teenagers. Poor family relationships, or long-term disharmony between parents, or single-parent families, increase the risk of children developing psychological problems.

Parents should respect their children, do not hit their children's self-esteem, discover more of their children's strengths, make more positive comments on their children, and do not beat and scold their children. Children are already adults, and parents should treat them as adults, think more about problems from their standpoint, reflect on themselves, and change their attitude towards children.

Adolescent children are generally very sensitive in their minds, and they will exaggerate a small thing to the point where it seems that the whole world is about to be destroyed. At this age, all the people in the outside world have become their imaginary audience, they pay great attention to their words and deeds, and they will feel that they are out of trouble, which means that everyone is paying attention to their mistakes, and will laugh at them and belittle them. The negative emotions they feel about humiliation, frustration, etc., often do not correspond to the facts.

If her emotions and thoughts really affect her normal life and there is a tendency to deteriorate, it is recommended that professional psychological counseling is preferred. If you want to be professional, you can go to the psychological counseling room of a nearby university, and the qualified psychological counseling teachers in colleges and universities are still very reliable.

Parents should let their children know right from wrong and not be affected by the bad atmosphere in society, so as not to go astray.

Pay attention to the method when communicating with your child. Put yourself in your child's shoes and don't be aggressive and impose your will.

Adolescent children have psychological problems, which way is better?

Consult with a psychological counselor, as long as you find the right person, the effect will be very good!

The child should be enlightened, and at the same time, the child should be seen by a psychiatrist, or the child should be re-educated, and the child should be accompanied often, or the child's growth should be observed, which can understand the child's psychological problems.

If adolescent children have psychological problems, they mainly come from school pressure and family conflicts. Due to the heavy learning tasks of adolescent children, children may have learning difficulties or attention problems at this time, such as not being able to concentrate in class, paying attention for a short time, procrastinating when doing homework, playing while doing, etc., and there will be poor academic performance.

Psychological, because adolescence is prone to rebellion, sensitivity, suspiciousness, and emotional instability, so at this time you can consider psychological**, such as cognition**, behavior**, humanism**, psychoanalysis**, etc. These psychological methods require the child to establish a trusting relationship with the teacher, and then carry out the work. In the psychological **, the child can learn to express and confide, so that the child knows that others can understand and tolerate him, so that he has the opportunity to overcome the psychological problems of adolescence.

I think it's a good idea to talk to a psychologist so that they can help you out.

1. Affirm the fact that the child has "grown up", help the child grasp the general direction, and at the same time give the child the right to make independent decisions on "small things" to meet his own independent needs. 2.Treat the child as an individual (not the property of the parents), consult the child, and treat it with full respect (psychologically and spatially).

3.Be a good role model and reduce the reinforcing effect of bad behavior.