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Did you two get to know each other through introductions, or did you talk about it yourself?
In a marriage, don't say the word breakup easily. If you are tired, you can take him with you, but the key is that his attitude is wrong, in fact, there is nothing wrong with you taking him, what is wrong is his attitude and words and deeds. You need to talk to him about that.
In fact, it can be seen from your words that there doesn't seem to be much love between you, and you don't feel like you give in to each other. It is not the turn of a person's appearance, but his character and heart that matter.
One thing you have to be clear about is that marriage is never to be improvised. In our elder generation, maybe it could be improvised. But in this day and age, marriage is definitely not going to last.
If you can make do with it, you won't get angry with him because of this matter.
In addition, when arguing, do not compare the other party with others, and do not say that the other party is inferior to anyone, such words are very hurtful, especially men.
It's better to talk about it and think about it again. Besides, you don't have any children yet.
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It seems that you got married because of the love from the heart. I guess your husband is born in the 80s. Pampered, the bad problems that have been cultivated.
In fact, you tell your husband directly what you think, and say your thoughts directly. You say, for us to live well. Be responsible for me and tell him what you think.
Listen to it and be able to change everything. Just love him well.
If you don't listen to it, you still go your own way, and the suggestion is still divided.
Because you're not happy. If you are not happy, how can you be happy?
Even if you are materially satisfied, you are not happy. What's the use?
And the key is whether you care about what your family and friends think, and if you don't mind, do what you think.
But then again, getting married is also a major event in life, and it can't be a child's play, so I suggest you think about it. Divorce is prudent. Finally, I hope you are happy.
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The first thing to do is to pack up the house, and use the excuse that going to my mother's house or going on a business trip for a few days (a week is enough). Men like to listen to good things and tell them more, and men will have a good face. Don't quarrel with him outside, go home and talk about it, if he knows it's wrong, punish him for doing housework.
Does he want to love you and see what you do?
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People are more popular than people, people are always dissatisfied, in fact, these things are just small things, talk to him when you are in a good mood with each other, marriage is to tolerate each other, but it seems that you don't love him so much, and even the reason for marrying him is so far-fetched! The ideal man image, have you ever thought about being completely perfect in your own life? Think more about the good aspects of him!
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This sister I think you and I have a similar experience Since there is a little tacit understanding I want to talk about it My husband is also like a child Obsessed with the Internet Very playful Sometimes quarrel over trivial matters These problems are common between husbands and wives There are no matter how big or small they are, since they are people who get along halfway, it is inevitable that there are inappropriate problems Don't care about the important thing is to love each other I feel very happy because I love him and he loves me It's just that the degree of each other's giving is different As long as there is true love, nothing else matters In the field of love, we can't Use the scale to measure its weight Holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son is what people with true feelings are looking for I wish you happiness Xiaoxue.
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In fact, it is not easy for two people to come together, it is good for the husband and wife to understand each other together, or you should calm down and talk about it, marriage is not child's play, so since two people are together, don't easily say that they are separated, which is harmful to both people.
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Your husband is much better than my husband, his work is not bad, right, you said that he is indeed not good-looking, he will make money, if he looks good, he will spend a lot, really. My girlfriends around me are looking for men who can make money but are not very good-looking to be husbands, why do you say, they are very beautiful, and the appearance is not important, the man who can make money is right, of course, the temper should also be good.
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I married him because he had a decent job. For the sake of this sentence, you divorce. Thank you!
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Then divorce, you can't make do with it for the rest of your life.
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These things are just small things, think more about the good aspects of him!
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If the heels are stuck, they will be worn. This life path is not easy.
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Often crises start to spread from small things, be cautious and think twice.
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There is no need to be confused about this, no one is born to become a great career, and it takes continuous hard work! Hopefully, I wish your husband a great career in the future.
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Tell him clearly, teach him what a man should do, if he doesn't change and still loves to play, just disperse, I've encountered this, in the end, the more you lose and stop the dust, the more tired you are, and you won't be happy.
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Just because you don't have ambition now doesn't mean you won't have ambition in the future.
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You have to persuade him, such a man loves his family, and now there are rich people and good people?
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It's painful to have no one to love. You are in love with a little man, how much younger than you? In my opinion, it is acceptable to be no younger than 8 years old.
If you exceed it, it will not be appropriate. To make him trust you is to love him more. At the same time, communicate with him more and let him know your determination.
At the same time, you can also learn about his determination.
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Cutting off the love thread, fruitless love, not only painful for life, but also affects the innocent, turning back.
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What age is this? How unworthy it is for a woman to pursue her rights and spend her whole life on a man. It's a very unjust thing. Emancipate the mind, seek truth from facts, and only seek happiness. And not to be a resentful woman.
What is there to complain about? Is your husband wrong, you can fight if you do wrong, and prove your existence and value with practical actions. Did the husband do the right thing?
If it is human nature, the way of nature, then there is nothing to blame, if you want to understand this truth, there is no need to argue. Resentment and quarrel is an act of helplessness, powerlessness, weakness, and is completely unnecessary. The truth is:
Follow the direction of your heart and pursue your rights and happiness.
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What you said is not specific, if he is idle and has nothing to do, you can find a male lover, if it is your problem, then change yourself.
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Because you always quarrel with him, he will feel bored, and will go to find a little wife, a man, who runs outside all day just for this family, and when you come back at night and you quarrel with him, he himself will feel that you don't understand him at all, so you think he doesn't understand you, he has the opposite, and this family is going to end... You have to hold the man's heart, give him a different feeling every day, sometimes a little mood or something, let him feel that you love him, care about him, let him have a kind of home is the best thing when he will not go out to engage in other women, the family will be happy, husband and wife should understand each other, talk more about their own ideas, and diplomacy, "seek common ground while reserving differences", build a harmonious family...
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As long as he sees his family as more important, it's enough, and men will inevitably covet the flowery world outside, and when they have played enough outside, they will know that they will go home.
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Protect what you deserve, and be sure of what you think: inseparable. Communicate with your husband's thoughts: inseparable.
Combine all kinds of information to find the best solution for you.
Noisy or crying, doesn't solve anything.
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If you still love him, give him another chance to touch him with your tenderness and love. If you've become disheartened and everything has been put down, then ......In fact, as long as there is love between two people, I believe that all problems can still be solved, but without love, then the relationship between two people is already in name only.
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Whether he understands you or not, if you can't understand him, stay away from him. If you can't live without him, you can only adapt to him. There is no other option.
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In fact, if you don't want to get married, you can change yourself, men often have women's fate, this is nothing, the important thing is that he still loves you, and it is enough to love this family!
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Understand this problem, it depends on the situation, but having a little wife is his problem.
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Can you be specific.
By the way, the family situation.
Besides, how do you determine that he has a little wife?
If it's true, you can make it clear to him.
Let him leave the woman.
Give him a chance, and if he can't change it, then divorce. Find new happiness.
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Two people who grew up in different environments and different parental education styles come together to live together, and there must be a lot of lifestyles or disagreements, and there are no two people in the world who are completely uncontroversial, right?!
Therefore, when the two come together, they should support and understand each other, tolerate and be considerate to each other, and who has no shortcomings?
Try to think about what he said, if he really changed a lot.
Think about yourself again, have you changed some for him?
Seek of yourself in all things.
Then he won't be able to ask you for anything, because you're better than him, so try more!
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Don't quarrel and communicate calmly.
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As a woman, you should be a little bigger, he is a small man and you should let him. Who asked you to be a husband with a calculating man?
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Find a lover who will let you go everywhere and at all times.
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If you agree to the first floor, if you ask yourself in advance, you don't think about the other party's mistake first, as long as you do well enough, the other party will keep it in mind.
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Why do you have to let him let you?
Do you have a good reason to quarrel?
Review from yourself.
Let's talk about you laborers.
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As long as you love each other with your heart, you can make them accept you, which is called overcoming rigidity with softness. Seek of yourself in all things.
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I think there should be a proper space between husband and wife, if it's just a good friend and confidant, it's okay to chat, if he really hits you for this matter, it's his fault, but think about it from another angle, is your language too harsh and sharp? Your husband has been for more than ten years, you should know him best, is he the kind of little man who doesn't care about his family? You must think twice before doing anything, and don't ruin the originally happy family because of your own misunderstanding, which is a great harm to the children in the first place.
Why not calm down and talk about it in a different way?
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First, do you still love your husband and don't want to leave him no matter what?
Second, does your husband still love you? I don't know? Calm down and feel it.
In fact, it is very difficult for a woman to ask a man to be wholeheartedly, don't you see a man's eyes light up when he sees a beautiful woman outside? Even if his wife is more beautiful, the difference is only that the two of them have that chance; Inconstant. It's human nature to like the new and hate the old, so the key is how you dominate your husband's heart and how to grasp the step of not letting him hurt the family.
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Be open-minded, man! There are always some experiences that can be regarded as a perfect life!
A woman with a big heart is also the most beautiful woman!
And your husband didn't do anything out of the ordinary! It's just that your heart is too narrow-minded!
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You don't have to be so serious, it's normal to choose online dating, no matter how many years they have been dating, what does it matter if they haven't met, you should learn to face everything, but also learn to be considerate and learn to understand, such things don't rely on noise and trouble to solve problems, the more you make trouble, the more you have to contact, the more problems your relationship has, you don't say that he is very good to you when he goes home, what can't be put down, you have to catch a person's heart you don't have to be suspicious, you have to think about why he is bored, you can accompany him more, Care more about him, let him feel that you are very important, don't always think about things very complicated, be patient, only in this way will there be no other problems, I believe you yourself will figure out how to deal with this problem, don't always think of people as terrible, there are good people in the world.
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He can't feel the sadness in your heart, and it's useless for you to make trouble.
The easiest way to deal with this kind of thing is to return it to others in the way of others, you also go to make friends**, find a high-quality netizen of the opposite sex to chat or something, be generous, and then wait and see what happens.
He can't make friends by himself without letting you make friends, and then let him tangle with it.
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What you lack is communication, it's not that your husband doesn't love you, it's not that he doesn't want to do things with you, he mostly has things that he needs him to do. Take time, communicate with him more, say some words of comfort and concern for him, he will naturally get close to you, don't wait for the loss, only to feel that it is still the original good, because, it is difficult to recover the water, remember!
If you love him very much, then you have to make him feel that you are better than that ex-girlfriend, and let him slowly forget about his former girlfriend, as a man, if his ex-girlfriend has something to ask for, it is understandable for a man to help, after all, there was still a relationship before. But a breakup is a breakup after all, if being together makes you feel very uncomfortable, and makes you feel that his ex-girlfriend is his object instead of you, then he is excessive, and he needs to have a degree of doing things, that is, to grasp the scale, if the ex-girlfriend just needs help with something, then no matter who will help her, even if she doesn't know her, let alone have had a relationship before? But if his ex-girlfriend has nothing to do with him, he will call him **, what to meet, what to date, this kind of relationship is transgressing ordinary friends, if he wants to go to his ex-girlfriend like this, and if he continues to be ambiguous, it is disrespectful to you, and there is no need to continue with him, an unprincipled man will never be responsible, I hope you can be happy, can touch your boyfriend with sincerity and true love, I wish you a family.
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