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It's not terrible to be poor, you have to be ambitious, if you love him very much, you have to work hard, the money can be earned slowly, happiness is behind, and you have to work hard if you are a man. Hope.
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For love, a man needs to have, money is not a problem at all times, the important thing is to have a true heart.
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Remember, you can be bitter, don't be bitter with the woman for your lifetime.
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It's good that your girlfriend loves you too.
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In fact, it has to be said that there is a gap between the rich and the poor in life.
are all objective, and it is precisely because of the lack of rolling that I found that my girlfriend is richer than myselfThen there is no need to be too inferior at this time, on the other hand, you should strive to improve your ability so that you can also live a decent life, so it is precisely because of this that you can try to think about the problem from the following aspects. <>
1. For us, the gap between the rich and the poor in society is objective, affected by the family of origin.
It is precisely because of the existence of objective factors that it is more important to accept the reality that your girlfriend is richer than yourself. In fact, I have to say that in real life, we will find that the gap between the rich and the poor exists objectively, and it is precisely because of this that this phenomenon will exist in any society, on the other hand, the gap between the rich and the poor may also be brought about by the original family, so it is inevitable in the last stage of the self, so it is precisely because of this that we should not try to accept each other boldly, and for us, it is understandable that the girlfriend is richer than ourselves, so we should try to accept it. <>
2. For us, girlfriends are richer than ourselves, so at this time, we should give ourselves enough motivation to prove our strength, and simple inferiority complex cannot escape the problem. In fact, I have to say that in life, if your girlfriend is indeed richer than yourself, then there is no need to be too inferior at this time, so it is precisely because of this that you should use it as the driving force for your own progress, strive to improve your strength, and let yourself earn more money, so that you can also live a more decent life, simple inferiority complex is useless, so you should try harder to make yourself more powerful. <>
3, love itself does not need to be too entangled in some of the advantages of the other party, if you care too much about these, it may affect the quality of the relationship, so it should be treated equally. In fact, I have to say that in life, we will find that most people's love needs to be constantly run-in, and it is precisely because of this, because of the difference in family economic status, it is also inevitable, so two people should continue to run in, on the one hand, respect the values and consumption concept of girlfriends, on the other hand, we should strive to improve their own strength, so that we can manage a relationship, so for us, we should transform inferiority into self-confidence and let ourselves grow rapidly.
In fact, I have to say that in study and life, the gap between the rich and the poor exists objectively, and it is precisely because of this that because of the original family, it cannot be changed, and it is precisely because of this that there is no need to be too inferior, but also to improve their own strength, so that they can live a more decent life, on the other hand, they should learn to think about problems from the perspective of love, constantly run in, be considerate and tolerant of each other, and can also make their feelings more smooth.
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You have to adjust your mentality, first of all, your girlfriend is richer than you and will always be hungry to follow you, which means that she is also true love for you, and it is a good thing for your girlfriend to be rich, and it is better to have money than no money.
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Then choose to share with your girlfriend, because of the situation of Liang Ku for this I also have a lot of holes in my shirt, for a long time, men are very unbearable, and the inferiority complex will become stronger and stronger, and I will feel that I have no status in the family, so separation is the best choice.
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I feel like you should put your mind at ease. After all, you are emotionally equal. She is richer than you and doesn't look down on you, and you should be happy.
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Summary. People are poor, but their ambitions cannot be short. If, the place sees that although you are very poor now, but what about the young man, who is very ambitious and knows how to work hard, I don't think his mother will dislike you much.
People are poor, but their ambitions cannot be short. If, the place sees that although you are very poor now, but what about the young man, who is very ambitious and knows how to work hard, I don't think his mother will dislike you much.
I'm afraid that your current family conditions are not very good, but you are not motivated to work hard, and you have no plans for the future.
Then he will think that his daughter will suffer a lot if she lives with you.
Children are the hearts and minds of their parents, and you can understand this.
So if you want to keep the relationship and change your mother-in-law's opinion of you, then you have to be motivated and work hard.
Put your treasure all in the future. Let everyone think that this young man will have a future in the future, then your mother-in-law will not dislike you.
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You need to change yourself and work hard to improve your ability to make money, the more money you make, the more money you make, the waist bag is bulging, and your girlfriend will naturally look at you differently.
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Tell your girlfriend that poverty is only temporary, and no one will be poor for a lifetime, and tell her with your practical actions that you are struggling to get rid of poverty.
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Your girlfriend may dislike you on the surface, but in fact she will never leave you. Then you should work hard and get out of poverty as soon as possible, so that is the greatest reward for her.
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You must ensure that you will work hard in the future, be proactive, and have a good life, and you will not be poor all the time like now.
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Then work hard to earn money, girls like rich boys, only if you have money, she will be more satisfied with you.
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Then you should strive to become better, work hard to make money, and improve your material life by your own ability, so that it will be easier to get along.
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Break up with her. If you feel poor, you will definitely be dissatisfied with you because of this, and in later life, you will often quarrel because of this.
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So your question is, your girlfriend loves you very much, but you think you are very poor, and you are afraid that she will suffer with you, and I am afraid that I will not be able to give her happiness, and you sometimes want to bring it up and break up.
So if the individual is here to give you an answer, the individual wants to say that you criticize you, so I think that your thinking is wrong, so what are you thinking now? We must do everything we can to endure hardships and make money, so that my wife can live a good life in the future, so we must pay more hard work than others, and strive for more money, so that my wife will be happy.
A manly man, can't be a coward, you must do everything, let your wife live a good life, then by a wife, she doesn't dislike you poor, then two people will definitely fight the country in the future, at this time, the two of you can live a good life, live a happy life, of course, the days to that time, for example, you have succeeded, then at that time you must not put your current wife, leave her, this is absolutely not allowed, Therefore, the wife who has suffered together is the most precious wealth.
The above is a personal answer to your question, I hope it will be helpful to you, and I hope you can adopt the last personal wish you health and happiness, good luck and all the best.
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After the breakup, keep thinking about how good the other party is, which will only make you sink, more and more persistent, and more and more deeply attached.
Loneliness is not the most painful, imagination is the most painful.
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There is a girl who can not dislike you for being poor but still love you, because she knows how good you are. If you are not willing to accept her, give up on her, and if you are willing to accept her, then try to work with her to live a good life. Happiness or unhappiness has nothing to do with wealth or poverty, and sometimes love that starts with poverty is more reliable than love that starts with wealth.
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If you love her, you will be happy. She will break up with you if she finds something better.
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True love doesn't pay attention to these things, but according to the real society, it can't be done without money.
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It's not easy to meet a girl who doesn't dislike you for being poor, don't break her heart.
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You can ask her: Will you endure hardships with me and create our future with my hands?
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Do what you think is right What others say is wrong Don't ask others about the things that are important to your life.
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You should work hard to earn money for the happiness of your girlfriend.
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You're cowardly, yes, since you know you're poor, why don't you hurry up and make money?
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Work hard to earn money, after all, if she loves you, she will only feel that it is a blessing to be with you.
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It's not right for you to have such an idea, money can be earned slowly, and you blame yourself too much
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Poverty is only temporary, unless you don't have a positive heart.
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You are really not a man, what is there to be afraid of, the career is done by people.
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Work hard to give her a happy future.
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As the saying goes, "it's not that a family doesn't enter a door", women are different from men, women can have no economy, but men can't have no careers, women's youth is short, and men will only get stronger and stronger, and her family is good, her parents are even more unlikely to use her youth today to bet on your success tomorrow, in case you can't succeed, does it mean that her daughter has to live a hard life with you for a lifetime? For her parents, it doesn't mean anything to just be motivated and idealistic, what they need is reality. What is needed is a successful man to be the son-in-law of his family, and this is the case in this real society.
A man must have backbone, don't let people who look down on you laugh at you, since you broke up, don't think about it, work hard, and strive for career success is what you should do now, and when you succeed, let the people who once looked down on you regret it, why do you have no wife? If you have a career, you can't find a gentle and virtuous wife, gentlemen, don't be like a girl, so weak about feelings.
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Her mother has a problem with her thoughts, it doesn't matter if you have more money or less money, you may have had good memories before, but she has changed, she is not suitable for you anymore, why be nostalgic.
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And the relationship is together.
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Let it go, if there is still love, it won't be these helpless hits, I guess she can't support it, it's not so love.
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Modern society is too realistic, and your girlfriend's innocence when she was studying will be infected by this filthy society after stepping into society. You're a man, and now that she's decided to break up with you, any retention pales and is powerless. Only by working hard, striving for success, this is the most important thing you need to do at the moment.
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You should think about your future well. Some things are barely coming, only cherish the present, not hang yourself from a tree!
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Knowing that you are leaving, going to school in other places, she is sad, three years is not a short time, she is not indifferent to you, but afraid of ending this relationship because of your departure, although you ask her if she is willing to wait for you, but what will happen in these three years is unknown, or take a face-to-face way to talk to her, only so she encouraged you before, because she bears the pain herself, she will not delay your future, and then do not reply to your message in time, it is her heartache, she is afraid of facing separation.
Communicate with someone to teach you, find a topic to talk to her, analyze her words carefully, try to understand her heart, discover what is deep in her heart, don't close your heart too tightly, you can share some things with her, so that she will think that she has a very important place in your heart.
Then you take the initiative with him, don't be afraid of losing face, he will definitely see the most beautiful things when you are together in the future, on the contrary, you will also be common to his most beautiful things, now this is nothing for love everything is worth it, my girlfriend used to be the same as you, she regretted it in the end, so I and she are now working hand in hand, and we love each other more, regard each other as confidants! So take the initiative, you can.
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