Can a boy and a girl still be friends after rejection?

Generally not. It is awkward to be rejected to meet two people, or one party already has someone who belongs to him or her emotionally, so it will be uncomfortable to continue to be friends.

This is why many people would rather have a crush than confess, one is afraid of rejection, and the other is afraid that when the two of them don't even have to be friends, at least now they can be by his (her) side as friends. <>

Crushing on someone is both bitter and beautiful, and it is enough to secretly put the individual in your heart and just watch it quietly from the sidelines. Many people say that there is no pure friendship between men and women, but there is some truth to it.

There is no point of attraction to each other, and two people will not become friends, just friends or lovers, depending on how two people get along, and at first no one can be sure whether they have a good impression of each other or other factors have slowly sprouted.

If you think you can still be friends after rejection, then all I can say is good luck. The reason why a person rejects you is not that you are not good enough, and he (she) feels that you are not suitable, or that he (she) really has no other meaning for you, and does not want to be a stranger in the future, and not starting may be the best start.

There are also many who are still friends after being rejected, but they need one party to hide their emotions, if you don't have an exact certainty, then don't open your mouth easily, once you open your mouth, no matter whether you can be friends or not, there will be a crack.

When a crack appears, even if you are still a friend, as long as you touch it lightly, it will tear and hurt. Seeing most of the rejections, the two of them were almost the most familiar strangers in later times.

Because I love, I love, and because I care, I don't want to touch. There is no right or wrong in the world of love, only willingness, if you really love that person, I believe you don't want to see him (her) embarrassed, so you choose to stay away from him (her), let go of each other, and give each other more time.

Whether you can be friends or not cannot be generalized, it mainly depends on whether the relationship between you is awkward or not.

Whether a man or a woman can be friends after rejection mainly depends on the following points:

1. Personality traits of both men and women.

2. Whether you get along happily or not and whether there are any embarrassing things happening.

3. Is there a third person as the reason for the rejection?

Personality traits between men and women are actually very important, because if both men and women are very cheerful personalities, then it is actually possible to be friends after rejection. But if one party is more introverted and is not very good at expressing their emotions, then they may not continue to be friends after being rejected, because for very simple reasons, they can't get over their faces, they are thin-skinned, and they feel embarrassed.

Before the confession, if there is nothing particularly embarrassing, such as physical contact, physical contact, just staying at the verbal level, then the confession is rejected, in fact, it is relatively easy to be friends, because nothing has happened in the first place, and you can continue to live and work together as if you did not confess before. But if something happens, it's hard to say, maybe both parties will feel embarrassed, and then there will be the embarrassment of not being friends.

If the rejection is because of the third person, then it is very likely that the two parties will not be friends at all, because this matter is not embarrassing for two people, but three people are embarrassed together, so it is difficult to be friends in the end if the rejection is caused by the triangular relationship.

Of course, if you really want to continue to be friends, it depends on your emotional intelligence and your IQ, and how you can convince the other person that you are just ordinary friends.

In the past, I would think that two people like this can also be friends, because it's good to be friends if you can't be a couple, at least you can know one more friend, isn't it good to take care of two people together? But for me now, I don't agree with such an idea!

Those who think they can be friends must be the ones who don't love, because they don't love, so he can say very lightly that he can't be a couple or be friends, because he doesn't love, so he won't have pain in his heart, and he doesn't understand how uncomfortable it feels after being rejected.

But if the two of them are still friends after refusal, it is really a little too unfair for the person who was rejected, and it is very cruel, the boy must have liked the girl for a long time, and wanted to muster up the courage to confess, of course, it has also gone through a period of precipitation.

When he mustered up the courage to confess to the girl, he was rejected! In addition to being uncomfortable, there is also a feeling of wanting to find a hole to get into, because two people can be friends, but because of the boy's confession, the relationship between the two has become very awkward!

Even if two people barely became friends, but one day, that girl finds someone she likes and falls in love, what is that boy, he still likes that girl, how can he watch the girl he likes fall in love with other boys? This is a great disservice to him!

Is he obviously in pain, still smiling and asking for blessings? If it weren't for friends, there wouldn't be so much worry.

Not to mention being rejected, even if it is a breakup, it is very common to be friends after divorce.

If you are rejected, you are still unwilling to let go, then it is just right to continue to be friends with her, to understand more about her, to understand what she likes to eat, what she likes, which stores she likes to visit, what interests and hobbies she has, what are the three views, what do you care about the most, and what do you mind the most. Accompany her when she is unhappy and listen to her. These can all help to make the next confession successful.

Don't give up easily, many girls refuse to confess to others, either because they are not familiar with each other, or they can't accept it too suddenly, or they are hurt and don't want to start the next relationship, and they may not like you. But this is just one of many.

If you really like her, just continue to work hard, keep up the good work, no matter how cold the bench is, it will be warmed up, give yourself more confidence, have confidence, and there is nothing difficult. Do it with your heart, leave the result to time, leave it to God, and the process of paying and getting along is warm and beautiful. If you give up, you lose all possibilities.

If it is a girl who is rejected by a boy, I think most girls will choose not to continue to be friends with a boy because of face problems, because after all, girls' personalities are still more introverted than boys, but there are exceptions; If it's a boy who is rejected by a girl, I don't think it's anything, this hasn't been rejected yet, a man has to be able to afford to put it down, if you stop caring with others because others reject your confession, and you don't continue to be friends with others, doesn't it seem that you are too stingy, and there is no man's generosity!

I pursued a girl in April of this year, and that girl and I were a major, but we were not in the same class and often took classes together, so the relationship with my classmates was not much closer.

One day I mustered up a lot of courage to confess to her, when she was still talking to me for a while and then agreed to my confession, I really thought that we were boyfriend and girlfriend, and I was so happy at the time, so I took her hand and walked on the playground for a long time that night, and she didn't refuse me, everything seemed so smooth.

The next day I asked her out for dinner, and I bought a gift for her, and when she got to the restaurant, we had a conversation, and I gave her the gift, and although she seemed a little awkward, I was completely immersed in joy and didn't notice anything wrong with her.

Later, when we went back to school together, she finally couldn't help but tell me: I'm sorry, I know you're a good person, but I still can't forget my ex-boyfriend, I feel so sorry for him, let's not continue.

I knew she meant to reject me, but I was content to hold hands with the goddess once, and then we decided to be friends, the most ordinary good friends.

It is often said that love begins with a confession, however, after being rejected, can you still be as brave as when you confessed and be friends with him?

Xiaoice is a dignified and steady, gentle and beautiful student, in her freshman year, she would go to occupy a place early every time she went to class, each time occupying six, just a dormitory location, she listened carefully in class, completed homework carefully after class, and liked to help others. Once she told me that she had been paying attention to a boy for a long time, and she liked his character very much, cold on the surface, but actually very warm inside, and she said that his name was Xiao Chen.

Xiao Chen is a capable, assertive, and thoughtful boy, with a little talent, who can play the guitar and sing, and he will always attract the attention of many girls when he appears.

They are in a class, so that Xiaoice can easily understand his every move, and Xiaoice, who used to only listen carefully to the class, now will occasionally look back and quietly glance at Xiao Chen. Day after day, that feeling of liking only grows deeper.

Finally, one day, Xiaoice told me that she plucked up the courage to confess to Xiao Chen, in my opinion she is brave, and if I were to choose, I might choose a fruitless crush, however, she is not, she knows very well what she wants, because, for so long, no one can make Xiaoice move.

But the result was that she was rejected on the grounds that Xiao Chen felt that they were not suitable, and they still knew too little, and he had no feelings for her. After I heard Xiaoice tell me, I was very angry, I didn't expect Xiao Chen to hurt the heart of a girl who liked him so directly. However, Xiaoice doesn't think so, she thinks she is brave, she won't regret it, she is thinking, since she can't be a lover, then it's better to be friends, so that she will never lose, maybe she still has a chance.

After being rejected, Xiaoice is still the same, in addition to studying, she will also help Xiao Chen study, they look very harmonious together, but unfortunately it is only in the name of friends.

I was thinking, maybe Xiaoice is wise. Perhaps, Xiaoice's love will come.

The future is promising.

Most people are more resistant to confession, especially the kind of person who is confessed, and feels that they are rejected.

Therefore, some people will have a lot of ideas after accepting the hearts of others.

No, there is a female netizen who has such a desire to brighten the orange shed, and he confessed to Yuankuan's boyfriend.

But the boy rejected her, she didn't know why, but she felt that she might not be with him again.

1. After the girl was rejected, netizens sent private messages.

The female netizen said that she has fallen out of love now, but she doesn't know what happened to her, so she posted a post on the Internet, saying that she confessed to a boy.

But in the end, it was rejected. She felt that the boy didn't like her, but she didn't know why.

Let's take a look at what netizens have to say!

2. Can I be friends after a failed confession?

First of all, we should understand what is the reason for the failure of confession?

The netizen said that he didn't know why the boy rejected him, and felt that he had done something wrong, so she felt sad, so she wanted to continue to be with the boy.

But he didn't dare to tell the boy that I liked you, for fear that others would laugh at me after saying it.

Therefore, he has never had the courage to confess to the boy, nor has he told him what he likes about him.

3. What are your thoughts after the confession fails?

Therefore, confession failure is not something to celebrate.

Of course, confession is not something that anyone can do.

Fourth, if a girl fails to confess, can she be friends?

Of course, you can be friends, but it depends on your relationship.

If the two of you have a good relationship and are very serious friends, then you can become friends, and maybe even lovers.

But we have to know one thing, if you pursue someone, but that person doesn't love you, that's good.

V. Conclusion. After reading this post, you will find that this guy does not love her, but he does not want to be with her.

So, after rejecting a boy, can't a girl be friends?

Not really.

As long as the girl still has feelings for the guy, she can be his girlfriend.

But before that, it's best to get to know him well and know what he really thinks before making a decision.

If you can be friends, you can pretend to be a friend first, and then confess again later. Falling in love is never a person's business, so when you confess and are rejected by the other party, this does not necessarily announce the end of the relationship, don't rush to draw a rest. So, how do you deal with this relationship?

1. Don't be in a hurry to break off the relationship. In fact, some love in life starts with rejection, so when you are rejected, don't rush to break or give up the relationship. After rejection, the first thing you have to do is to figure out the reason for the rejection, whether it is because your impatient personality is causing pressure on the other party, or because your relationship is not yet in the heat of that official relationship.

However, no matter what, when you are rejected, you must first understand the reason and don't give up easily. If this rejection is just because your relationship is not hot enough to start a relationship, then you might as well give each other more time together, and maybe next time you can keep the clouds open and see the sunrise. 2. Confession needs to be sincere, don't use jokes to hide your inner fear of failure.

Boys love face, so they are always worried that they will lose face if their confession is rejected, so they habitually use jokes to indirectly express their true feelings, thinking in their hearts that if they fail, it can be said that they are just joking with each other. However, you never thought that this kind of tongue-in-cheek confession would give the other party a casual and insincere feeling, and if the other party is a careful and cautious girl, then they will definitely reject you. Therefore, when a boy confesses, it is better to be sincere and not too casual.

If this still fails, then it comes down to the first point, don't be in a hurry to give up, after all, people will change, and if you don't feel anything at this stage, it doesn't mean that you will always be without feelings in the future. 3. Calmly and maturely face failure. After being rejected, you seriously reflect and understand the reasons for the failure, and find that the opponent is indeed just treating you as a friend, then you don't have to be sad and sad, and you don't need to "self-deprecating", because love can never be obtained by reluctance.

At this time, what you have to do is to face up to this relationship, summarize the reasons for failure, don't let negative emotions plague your life, take this failure as a kind of learning, and be able to grasp the opportunity more confidently when you make a move next time, and find your own unique love.