How can a girl refuse a girl who is good to her but makes herself uncomfortable?

Ah, in this case, don't accept the other party's kindness to you, and then don't treat her well, you should be slowly estranged. It's also possible that you're not feeling well now, but you'll be comfortable after a while, and that's fine. To be honest, when it comes to making friends, comfort is the most important thing, so if you really don't feel well, don't suppress yourself.

Take a good look at why you're not feeling well. Then communicate with the other party well, maybe your problem can be solved, that would be good.

I'm such a person, my friend in high school, treated me like a boyfriend to his girlfriend, brought me breakfast every day, bought me snow boots when the weather was cold, although the south was not too cold, but I still put them on, and bought me a blanket or something. I have a feeling that I was fostered. It's still uncomfortable, because that feeling is really bad, just like when I play with her, there is often nothing the same, that is, she buys me buy, buy,

But it's still uncomfortable. It's like a friend of wine and meat.

So after she pulled me across the street again, I felt the need for me to reshape my outlook on life with her, so I said, don't be too nice to me, I said I'm under pressure. We're all students, and we're using our family's money, so there's really no need for you to buy me these or that one day. We're friends, we don't need anything, and we're still good friends.

But yesterday when I was still in the car, she asked me for my address, and I estimated that I would receive her delivery in a few days. Hey, my courier should be going to her school too.

Since we can't refuse, let's be kind to them. We all know that they are good to us. Be nice to them in our own way.

My usual approach is to ignore them, or find some other reason not to go out.

When I first entered college, I felt that I was good alone, I went for a run alone, exercised in the morning alone, read books in the library alone at night, and reviewed alone at the end of the semester. Maybe I'm more suitable for a person, this is my character, and maybe it's my shortcoming. What I like is quiet, alone, I don't like to be lively, I don't like two people entangled, I hate the entanglement of relationships between people.

I'm a lazy person, and I'm also a person who likes to live a serious life alone.

I know a good friend, and now I think I can only be a friend. She was really nice to me, we met because we chose the same department, and at first, I thought she was very good. But now I think she's fine, it's just that she has something that makes me a little uncomfortable, so now I have something to avoid her.

Something happened between us that made me change my mind about her a little bit.

In my opinion, she is a relatively good person. Her English is exceptionally good and she has the ability. Maybe she played with me before, so she told me everything.

But I think there's something really different from her. It's just that the least thing that makes me feel comfortable is that she sometimes talks, maybe because she is close, so she doesn't pay attention so much, but I really care. I joined an organization, and then every time I told her, she was very disgusted, although I knew she was a proud person, but I also had self-esteem, why do I have to listen to you in front of me to say that there is something bad about the organization I joined, and with that particularly disgusting tone.

I really don't understand it sometimes, even if it's really not good, at least don't do it in front of me, what do you feel when I say that what you yearn for is worthless. Then another time, I said I was going to a pottery class, and she replied to me that she was taking a German class, and she smiled at me. I don't know what her smile means, I think a person not only has a future in his heart, but also hopes in life.

Everyone's yearning is different, but you don't have to, and there's no reason to laugh at anyone's yearnings and dreams, and that's what makes me feel the most uncomfortable. So I'm not very willing to go with her now, and try to avoid her for anything, but I'm grateful for what she did to me.

How can a girl refuse to be nice to herself? But it's a girl who makes herself uncomfortable. If you make a girl uncomfortable, then you will reject him.

First of all, be resolute. Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds.

If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you use out of politeness or consideration will make the other party feel that you also love him (her), at least let him (her) feel that there is hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing love.

Second, do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party. Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you need to explain it to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself.