Why do others want to pass on what you have said behind your back, so that others look down on you?

It may just be that he wants to express his meaning through your words, but if you say what you say, it is not that he did it, but that you did what offended people.

If you encounter such a situation, then you must be careful when talking to him, such a person is not worthy of you to talk to him, which is likely to make you more passive.

His purpose is only to express his meaning through your words, but not to offend himself.

If someone tells you what you said behind your back, making others look down on you, it means that this person doesn't like you or is very jealous of you.

Because others just want to see that you are not doing well, or think that you are not doing well, it will make these people feel very happy, so others are jealous of you, so they will directly make you uncomfortable.

It may be that this person doesn't like you, or you do something that makes this person feel more dissatisfied, so he will say bad things about you.

Less heart-to-heart to others, less to tell your own stories, most people are watching jokes, and few people want you to do well, except for your parents

Why do people want to tell you what you said behind your back? Let others look down on you? That has to be this. People let others produce to you too. Bad feelings. Belong to the villain.

First of all, you don't have this kind of thinking, the more you feel that others think of you like this, the more afraid you are afraid that others will think that you are saying bad things behind your back, even if you don't, because your personal psychological cues cause you to deliberately avoid others, or avoid this.

Be sure to "think twice" when you speak, and don't open your mouth and say that it won't do you much good. Don't care what others say, just be yourself, others can wear how they want, you just need to take care of yourself, you can't control others.

First of all, this kind of thing depends on the situation.

Women and children know that rumors can kill, so it's important for you to know what the nature of the bad things this person is saying behind his back

The first kind, and the vast majority of it is the kind of ** itchless, mentioned in the chat that you may not have a small problem, or occasionally a very bad mood to show a violent temper, as well as some misunderstandings caused by the usual absent-minded inattention, become someone else's talking point, this kind of bad words are like floating clouds, the person who said that the banquet is over, and the person who listens to it will lose it, and you will just laugh when you know it;

The second type, which is very rare but must be corrected in time, is to deliberately slander and spread rumors against individuals, which is to destroy a person's external social conditions to achieve the purpose of some personal attacks, and this situation should be stopped in time and confronted head-on;

Third, at home with your parents, at your boss, and at your friends, you do have deep-rooted vices, bad tempers, and your relatives and friends hope that you can correct your shortcomings when they mention you.

The last question is whether the self has self-cultivation and self-cultivation, reading and learning. Xun Zi said: "The flow pill stops at the Ou Moment, and the rumors stop at the wise man" Whether you yourself have enough wisdom to judge the mu is the most important thing.