How to make children love learning without loving computers and televisions?

It is better to block than sparse, blindly tell the child not to be like this, not like that, that will hinder the divergence of children's thinking, it is recommended that you and the child about the three chapters of the law, strictly control the child's online time, let him get used to this way, if it is violated, then strictly in accordance with the three chapters of the law, in a certain period of time resolutely not allowed to play, let him remember that it is not okay to violate the regulations, if as a parent, you violated, the same must be in accordance with the regulations, do a good job, believe this, after forming a habit, Your child will be able to fully and effectively enhance their interest in learning.

The child loves to play with the computer, you let him play in the dark, and then ask him, what is the gain from playing the computer...

You have to make him understand for himself what he loves and what he has gained for himself. If you restrict him, it will only backfire.

It's very simple, learn well and reward what he likes, and if you don't study well, even the breakfast fee and pocket money will be deducted, don't think about it, I'm from here, and my mother treats me like this....Effective.

Then use the learning stuff to give her a game way.

Accommodating children without computer TV.

Just make him inherently disgusted with these things, or you accompany him when he plays, and you don't set the time and class to let him play, and you talk to him or talk about what he plays, and over time he will subconsciously think that when you play with the computer, you are next to him, and suddenly one day when you are not around him, he will feel very uncomfortable, so he will give up playing with the computer (I don't know if this applies to your child, this is how my nephew quits Internet addiction) I hope it will help you.

I don't think this kind of education is appropriate, maybe the short-term Xiangfan will have an effect on the child, but "punish the child to watch TV all night" This method is also a punitive education, and it is not advocated, no matter what role is in the education process, the child's education can not take corporal punishment or disguised corporal punishment, so according to the definition of corporal punishment is not only physical punishment, but also psychological punishment, then this way of "letting you watch enough at a time" actually caused a great blow to the child's psychology, If many things are done in this way, I dare not imagine what kind of character children will develop when they grow up.

There are many positive ways to educate children:

Clause. 1. Parents should not set a negative example for their children: Parents are the first teachers in their children's lives, and children in childhood have a particularly strong ability to imitate, and are easily influenced by the family environment and parents' education methods.

In order to reduce children's aggressive behavior, parents must change their own education methods and resolutely put an end to corporal punishment of children.

Clause. 2. Communicate more with children: While busy with work, parents must also take as much time as possible to get to know their children, communicate with them, and try to have a comprehensive grasp of their children's performance at school and at home.

In this way, once the child is really disobedient, parents can also understand how to guide the child, instead of relying on beating and scolding the child to solve the problem. No matter how young a child is, parents should treat them equally. Some rude parents are always accustomed to beating and scolding their children indiscriminately, and in doing so, it is easy for children to have resentment towards their parents.

In this way, the child will not be understood by his parents, and the gap between him and his parents will become deeper and deeper. Therefore, parents should communicate more with their children, so that children know that their parents understand him, and in this way, children can also feel the love and care of their parents, so as to actively correct their own mistakes.

Clause. 3. Be more reasonable with your children in everything: When your child is disobedient or willful, parents should not only communicate more with your child in their daily life, but also pay attention to their own education methods.

Parents should reason with their children more, and they can educate sensible and good children without beating or scolding. Parents should be more reasonable to their children in practical life, so that children can have empathy, so that they can learn to empathize, so that they will recognize their own shortcomings. It has been proven that this also makes it easier for children to spontaneously accept the opinions of their parents, and the educational effect is more ideal.

Clause. Fourth, use appreciation to teach Annihilation Bridge Education instead of corporal punishment of children: Reward and educate children, so that children can experience the unconditional love of their parents. Even if children find it difficult to change their bad habits, they will slowly restrain their bad behaviors in order to love their parents.

I believe that many parents have such a troubled Zen spine: children can watch TV for a good time staring at the screen intently, when it is time to learn, but for a few minutes, they begin to be distracted, touch here, look there. For example, a little red in the green bush because it contrasts sharply with the surrounding environment, even if you don't pay special attention.

The same is true for televisions, where their ever-changing images and sound effects can easily attract children's passive attention, so children are particularly fascinated.

Active attention refers to attention that has a purpose and requires volitional effort.

So how do you get and keep your child's active attention? Divided into clear purpose and task, the difficulty of the task, direct or indirect interest, learning interest and method strategy, perfect sensory integration ability of these five factors, children's desk should not be set in the living room, near the TV and other noisy environment, can be placed in a quiet corner of the bedroom, at the same time, there should be no fancy decoration around the desk, and the desktop should not be placed with items that are not related to learning, clean and tidy learning desk, so as not to distract children's attention. A fixed study time helps children develop good study habits and learning methods.

For example, parents can set their children's study time between 7:30 and 9:30 every night, so that when the child is almost 7:30, he will have the concept of "I'm playing almost now, it's time to study". Let the child have a pre-signal, and it will be easier for him to enter the state of active learning. The difficulty of the task will affect the child's interest in learning, so it is important to assign learning tasks to the child in line with the child's current ability level.

It is better to be more difficult than the child's current ability, not too easy, the child is not challenging to do, it is not too difficult, and the child is not easy to get frustrated. If in addition to the homework assigned by the school, parents also arrange a lot of homework for their children, so that children are under pressure in the face of school homework and homework, and it is easy to resist. Therefore, the amount of tasks should also be well controlled.

This thing often happens in intergenerational education, many grandparents love their grandchildren and granddaughters, and in the process of learning, they will push the door into the study from time to time and ask their children if they want to drink water or eat snacks.

Children are interrupted in the process of serious learning, which is very harmful to the child's behavior of maintaining active attention, parents must let the child have a continuous learning process, which helps to prolong the child's attention span.

Hello friends, as a parent, punish your child for watching TV all night, is this method of education appropriate?

There is an old Chinese saying that "too much", and there is also an idiom called "the extreme of things must be opposed".

This tells us that if you do anything too much, you will not do any good in the end. So even if they like to watch TV, if they are asked to watch TV all night or do nothing but stay in front of the TV, it will be very uncomfortable for them. So I personally think that if this parent in Hunan lets his child watch TV all night, the other party will definitely not feel very happy, and even a little tormented.

The real joy is not watching TV, but maintaining a relaxed mind in the process.

Recall that everyone goes back to the oak house every day, even if they are just lying on the sofa, they will feel that Liang Liangle is happy, this is because the body and mind are completely relaxed. Therefore, once you turn something into a task or a requirement, no matter how happy you used to be, you will only feel very stressed now, and it will be difficult for you to experience the fun again. A typical example is games, where ordinary people are addicted to games, even to the point of forgetting to sleep and eat.

But like some e-sports players, the most annoying thing for them is probably playing games, because doing this the whole person is not in a relaxed state, but in a tense state that must complete the task, in the long run, how can the whole person feel happy?

The way this parent in Hunan educates her children is really special.

When other adults find that their children like to watch TV so much, they may directly take away the remote control, or they may directly beat each other, like a broken jar, let him watch enough at one time, which is rare. In fact, this method is still very effective, and in a highly stressful environment, doing anything can become an ordeal. The parent saw this and gave the child an alternative "punishment".

At present, the effect is more obvious, and the child may not be as addicted to watching TV as before in the future. But this practice is not worth advocating, after all, forcing a child to watch TV all night is very harmful to his body. As a parent, you still have to rely on more reasonable and effective ways to educate your children.

Find him to find what he is interested in to accompany him to watch, and you can explore scientific knowledge when watching TV, in fact, it is also very cost-effective, and at the same time, you have to make an appointment with him to watch TV before you can tremble.

Then I will develop good study habits for him.

The child's desk does not have to be set in the living room, around the TV and other noisy environments, but should be placed in a quiet corner of the bedroom, at the same time, there can be no fancy decorations around the desk, and do not place objects on the desktop that are irrelevant to learning.

A fixed learning time is conducive to the development of good learning habits in children. For example, parents can set their child's study time between 7:30 and 9:30 every night, so that when the child reaches 7:30, he will have the concept of "now I am playing similar, it's time to study". Let your child have a prior signal, and it will be easier for him to enter an active learning state.

The difficulty of the task will affect the child's learning interests and hobbies, therefore, the daily task of learning for the child must be in line with the child's ability and quality at this stage. It is better to be more difficult than the child's current level, it is not easy to be too simple, the child does not have a test, it will not be too difficult, and the child is not easy to have a sense of loss. If the parents return a lot of extracurricular homework to their children, then the children are under a lot of pressure to deal with school homework and extracurricular homework, and it is very easy to cause resistance.

Therefore, the workload also needs to be well grasped.

This incident often happens in the intergenerational education, many grandmothers cherish their little grandchildren and granddaughters, and in the process of learning, they pull the door into the small study every once in a while, and ask the children if they want to drink water or eat snacks.

Parents must let their children have a continuous learning process, which is conducive to increasing the length of children's attention span.

Some parents stipulate that their children do this and that, "do their homework well", "do not play games", but they pick up their mobile phones all night and swipe endlessly. In order for children to focus on learning, parents should set a model for their children to focus on learning. Build a strong learning and amusing atmosphere, children will be very easily infected, and they also want to do one thing well.

Therefore, in the case of children's homework, if parents accompany the school, try not to play mobile phones and games, and can also find one thing to focus on, after the child sees it, he will also invest in learning in a more focused state, which is the energy of leading by example.

Set a time point for your child to watch TV and slowly shorten the amount of time she spends watching TV. At the same time, you have to communicate with him and ask him why he doesn't like learning and is not interested in the teacher.

First of all, children love to watch TV, which is very normal, then you should tell your child to exchange the time for watching TV with the time spent studying, which means that if you write stupid homework for ten minutes, then you can only watch it for one minute to accumulate.

A fixed study timeA fixed study time helps children develop good study habits and learning methods.

1.Goal-oriented: A child who loves to learn must have goals ahead and motivation in his heart.

So the goal is **? How do you set your goals? The goal is actually a direction, a direction that can lead the child to keep moving forward.

For example, he wants to continue to work hard to be admitted to a key high school, go to college in the future, and want to have a beautiful stage in life, which is both an ideal and a goal. So, how can this goal be achieved? You can take your child on field trips to secondary schools and universities; You can take your child to visit your classmates who have been admitted to university, and let them show up to your child to give them an explanation, and give them encouragement and motivation; You can take your children to visit local educators and celebrities, and ask them to give back some money, even if it is just a few words; Guide children to identify an inspirational idol in their hearts, and use idols to constantly motivate themselves to move forward.

2.Companionship and support: The learning process of a child requires mental strength and spiritual motivation, and this strength and motivation can only be given to him by parents.

The companionship and strong support of parents are the spiritual food for children. Parents' trust, support, attention, and encouragement are the source of motivation for children to move forward. Let the children crack the cultivation on the way forward, always feel that they have the support of their parents behind them, no matter how big the difficulties ahead, no matter how many difficulties, they are no longer afraid.

3.Motivation and praise: Children are children after all, and it is normal to make mistakes.

If you want your child to love learning and have full motivation to learn, you must constantly motivate and encourage your child. Incentives should not be empty, and praise should be forgotten and boring. Motivation and praise need to be placed in specific learning practice, on the facts, neither exaggerated nor minimized, and sincere encouragement and praise for children, so as to be effective.

As long as the child makes progress on the way forward, it is necessary to affirm and praise it in time. Let the child always be confident and full of motivation to move forward on the way.

4.Consolidation and improvement: A child's learning is a long process.

It is unlikely that there will be any significant results for a while. Long-term companionship from parents is required. It is necessary to consolidate every drop of the child's progress into Mingyuan and constantly promote the child's synchronous progress.

Let the child go from one height to another, from one station to another. Don't, it's hot at both ends all day, cold at three ends for two days, give up halfway, and be exposed to ten colds. Only by persistently, consolidating and constantly improving, can we move towards a farther goal.