About junior high school I m really confused right now .

In fact, if you handle it properly, find a time, spread out your voices, what do you think, after you make it clear, if you still love each other, discuss it, keep an appropriate distance from each other, because you are still in junior high school, study together, make progress together, of course, laugh together, but also control the distance, hope that the common topic is as much about learning as possible, if he doesn't love you anymore, then you will also die, and after a while, it will be better, which is better than you are so confused and tormenting yourself now, and I think your current state of study is also very poor Although there is nothing to show Maybe it's because you have a good learning foundation Let's spread things out Find a time for the two of you to talk quietly Listen to what you say He is really a good boy I wish you all the best together.

I just graduated from junior high school and like a girl, and I always did that in junior high school. Well, I chased her for two years, hehe didn't catch it, I used to think that I was very poor and poor, so I would say that I couldn't catch up, and then I went to work hard, to prove myself, and then now I think about it, maybe she didn't promise me at the time Maybe it was more sensible, because I liked it and approached, because I cherished it and didn't overflow, it would be like this, but I didn't face it because of the grades, at the end of the third year of junior high school, I was still chasing hard, and finally I took the top spot in our school, sometimes the impact of this kind of thing on the grades can be chosen, If you can see it clearly, you won't say that if you fall in love, your grades will plummet.

But in the end, she went abroad, it can be said that she was very lucky, she didn't agree at that time, but we can still talk now, and I can still care about her, but the previous couples in the class were divided one by one because they were not in the same school, so to speak, these are two choices.

One may be a year or two of sweetness, and the other is a long touch of care depending on which one you wish.

Do you know that this year's college entrance examination champion and the top eye are a couple's thing?

Approaching because you like it, and not overflowing because you cherish it".

May you be happy!

Sometimes falling in love doesn't interfere with your studies. Instead, it can be a motivator. Set a goal for the future of both of you. Work hard for this goal. That's an invisible motivator.

The confusion of middle school students usually comes from two main factors:

performance factors; Once students lose confidence in learning, they will inevitably underestimate themselves too much, such students will often compare their own shortcomings with others, so they always feel that they are inferior to others, and the more they compare, the more discouraged they will be, and they will have an inferiority complex, which will make them discouraged in the face of difficulties, and even decadent, outdated, and distorted mentality.

parental factors; Whenever I hear adults talk about us students, I can't do without these words: Hey, I really envy today's children, who don't worry about food and clothing and can receive a good education, think about our time, we read in the morning and go home in the afternoon to work, but what about the grades? Now there are some children who are really born in the midst of blessings and do not know the blessings.

As the saying goes: people are more angry than people. This sentence is also a bit reasonable, parents like to compare their children with other people's children, if their own children are good, naturally their faces are also bright, if their children are not as good as others, then the children are miserable, of course, a scolding is inevitable, but what is even worse is that the requirements for their children will be more demanding in the future, but what they can't imagine is that this will not play no pressure, how can there be motivation?

In general, middle school students are in the period of puberty, which is an important stage of life development. In the process of transitioning from immature childhood to mature adolescence, there will be all kinds of contradictions, so it is very important for teachers to help them pass through puberty smoothly and safely, and transform this period into learning. optimal period; , the ** era of life. The middle school stage is also a period of contradictions between independence and dependence, maturity and childishness, so it is necessary to pay more labor and greater efforts to their moral education, so that they can become good teenagers with mental health and excellent character and learning.

Students' mental health issues are often overlooked. As middle school students, on the one hand, the pressure of homework is relatively high, and on the other hand, it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of "growing pains" in adolescence, which will be more or less reflected in their psychology. When a person's heart is confused and depressed, what he needs most is to confide in him and get sincere understanding and help from others.

After reading the discussion of this topic, I hope that teachers and parents can understand the children, give them equal communication and help, and also hope that the students can learn some lessons from it and spend their campus life happily and calmly. From the first year of junior high school to the third year of junior high school, from the first year of high school to the third year of high school, once you enter middle school, it is a process that is constantly accelerating. And exam after exam is a booster of this psychological acceleration.

With the limited psychological tolerance of secondary school students, the fear of exams has become one of the most common and prominent mental health problems in secondary school. Taking the students in our class as an example, nearly half of the students did not have the usual test scores, especially when encountering more important exams such as the final semester, this phenomenon is more obvious. The reason is simple, that is, the nervousness caused by the pressure of exams affects the normal performance of students.

Exams are just a normal check of academic performance, but they have become a stone in the hearts of students, and the fear of exams and even aversion to exams naturally arise. After the exam, the school praises, the parents affirm, and the classmates envy; If you fail the test, the teacher is not satisfied, the parents will criticize, and the students around you will also look sideways. The impact of test fear is not only in the test scores, it also objectively strengthens the mentality of students who are tired of learning and rejects school, and more importantly, it breeds the psychology that students can only accept success and cannot accept setbacks.

What should I do when I go to society and work in the future, and face greater challenges and setbacks in life? If this continues, middle school students will only start on the road of life, and they will lose their due psychological preparation. Middle school students' fear of exams is due to school, family and society, and the whole society should decompress middle school students psychologically.

As schools and teachers, we should first change our attitudes and perceptions about students and their test scores. Traditional educational theories have challenged the idea that teaching is the main aspect of the contradiction between teaching and learning, and that students must first adapt to the teacher and teaching. The position of students in the teaching process should be strengthened, and teaching should fully respect and adapt to the laws of students' psychological growth.

Now we are emphasizing humanized management, and school education should also be humanized, highlighting people-oriented and student-oriented. Teachers should look at teaching and examinations from the perspective of students and from the standpoint of conforming to the laws of adolescent psychological growth, and should not simply evaluate students based on test scores, and try to create a relaxed atmosphere in the school. "Test-phobia" can't be allowed to drown out the laughter that children deserve.

Don't get lost, set goals and study hard.

The third year of junior high school is an important turning point in our lives, the high school entrance examination is a very important exam, it is not like the college entrance examination has a second chance, it is not allowed to fight World War II, it is a bridge for us to go to high school is very important, do not slack off, make up your mind, determine your goals, and study hard.

For ordinary families like us, only knowledge can change fate, so study hard! Cherish the carefree student days! Let me share my experience with the high school entrance examination:

I am the first and second years of junior high school grades are not good, is the bottom of the class, the third year of junior high school when something happened at home, looking at my father helplessly sighed, and thought of him high hopes for me, and then made up his mind to change himself, don't think about anything, I am determined to take the key middle school in our county, every day to brush the questions and memorize the questions, a counterattack, others say that I am a "dark horse", but only I know how much I have paid, and the final effort is proportional to the pay, and I entered the key high school as I wished, and then the college entrance examination is also good, I was admitted to the university of my choice.

My advice is to continue reading, you are now the age to study, don't think about going out to make money, studying now can broaden your horizons, have a higher mind to deal with things, although learning is not the only way out, but reading is definitely beneficial. If you study hard, you can use your parents as motivation to study, decompress appropriately, and communicate more with your parents.

The first thing is to stick to your medication.

Then learn a skill to make a living before high school and college.

After graduating from university, he returned to his hometown and used his skills to earn money to support himself.

Now when I take a leave of absence, I start to study and position myself for this skill, and then secretly buy study materials to study hard.

In the process of learning, watch movies, listen to songs, watch variety shows, and watch TV series on mobile phones and laptops as much as possible.

Play less games, listen to more songs, QQ**NetEase Cloud**Watch more movies, and watch more variety TV series.

Then the college entrance examination should be able to read three books or junior college.

In fact, it doesn't matter, in China, there are only tens of millions of netizens since 1977, and it should be 40 or 50 million undergraduates, and in China it is the foundation of 1.4 billion, so in fact, you can study three books and junior colleges.

Since the beginning of high school, I have worked hard to study three books, and since the beginning of high school, I have been planning to set up a project for this skill, and I have studied this skill in depth every day in college.

Be sure to develop a good habit of listening to songs and watching movies.

Seven years is enough time to become a master of learning, and then after graduation, you return to your hometown and start using this ability to earn money to support yourself.

Work hard all your life to learn, follow the trend of technology in your chosen career direction, and don't fall behind.

And now it's time to start the project and make a living.

I'll give you a few examples, such as folk guitar playing and singing teaching, such as practicing writing and doing WeChat***, the world is very big and there are many professions, you have to set up a project you have to learn the skills, and you must have this ability to earn thousands of living money every month.

In this way, you will be stable for the rest of your life, you only need to work hard, and there is nothing to worry about when you return to your hometown, work from home every day and then earn money to get married.

I really have to think about career development, I can live most of the time because I play the guitar and bass and piano in my bedroom year after year, in fact, bipolar disorder will be very close to suicide, and I insist on practicing guitar and bass and piano year after year, I have a certain fire in my heart, I have a certain desired ideal in my heart, I set myself the goal of becoming a piano master, I desire piano master skills, I especially like **, I love to listen to songs, I love to play the piano.

And the folk guitar for seven years is enough to become a super singing master, and the monthly salary of the folk guitar in the piano shop can almost be stable at about 35,000 RMB, 5,000 RMB, and it is always good to work in Beijing and Shanghai.

The Roots of Folk Guitar Learning Manual, Two Brand Textbooks, Liu Chuanmu Guitar March Pass, China's ** College Examination Textbook, China's ** College Examination Textbook has three volumes of primary, intermediate and advanced.

Study hard, get into a good high school, and even if you are an average in **, you can go to a better university. I really persisted, and I think high school is much better than junior high school. In the past, in junior high school, I wore stars and moons every day, and when I wrote my homework until 10 o'clock at night, everyone collapsed, but in high school, it was really much better, and many teachers were also very good, and he wouldn't blame you if he couldn't finish it.

So, study hard, it's only been a year, what are you afraid of, I've been urged by the management for so many years, and I've come over. The older I get, the more teachers I meet understand and respect my classmates. Come on!

It is recommended that you go to vocational high school, and it will be difficult for two years in difficulty, because vocational schools are generally three years, but you will go out to work in the second year, and you still have to learn a skill in order to be better employed. Although vocational schools are not very profound, there is at least a foundation, if you feel that the burden on your family is heavy, you can also go to work for summer vacations during the winter and summer vacations.

If you can't study at all, and you're thinking about whether to go to vocational high school now or wait until you graduate, then take a gamble and study hard.

The carp leaping dragon gate is here, and in the past, this gate can control its own destiny.

I still can't hold back crying a little, which means that I am still standing, and Polaris people are looking for rules in the game sometimes.

Dayu was able to control the water, so he was able to succeed, because he used the method of grooming, and Kun failed because he used the method of blocking.

The so-called persistence is probably the method of blocking, and there will always be times when it can't be blocked.

Zi said, those who know are not as good as those who are happy to know, and those who are happy to know are not as good as those who are good to know.

What a wonderful thing life is. Without any intervention, I believe that everyone's life will be extremely splendid.

Maybe it's for life? We are always burdened with too much, all aspects of pressure and requirements, we unconsciously become slaves, life has become a heavy burden, what a tragic thing, what a great misfortune!

No one wants to achieve nothing by themselves, so they put all kinds of demands and expectations on themselves, and they have become their own slaves! What can a slave accomplish in the end? Maybe he'll be a good slave?

People who demand success and excellent people are essentially not confident in themselves. A confident person does not need to look forward to tomorrow's achievements, because he knows that sooner or later the moment of glory will come. Taking 10,000 steps back, even if he has not achieved anything, isn't his self-confidence the greatest success in itself?

A person's true worth is not determined by what he has accomplished, but by what kind of person he is at the moment.

If, at this moment, you are confident, then what is there that you can't do? What's something you're not happy to accomplish? Do you need to persevere?

Persistence, just a slave. And with confidence, you can do anything!