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You don't have to change your personality, but you can just as well communicate and even be popular! ”
Learn to communicate with people.
Despite the diversity of personalities, psychological research has shown that human beings always have similar personalities. I think there are three main things about the personality that is good at interacting with people
1.Enthusiasm Although many people think that self-confidence is the most important, in fact, self-confidence is based on success, and there is no success without action, and enthusiasm is the first point that motivates people to take action. Let's think about why many people who are not confident still have their own friends, one obvious reason is:
They sparked enthusiasm for each other. Indeed, optimism is contagious. Whether it's for people or things, once you bet on passion, then you will most likely get a certain reward.
Everyone has their own interests and hobbies, and all kinds of hobbies are the source of enthusiasm. When people like a thing more than they like it, the more they want to know and study it, and unintentionally, people's enthusiasm is mobilized and invested in it. It's the same with people, when you think someone is worth associating, discuss and understand them as a topic for you to talk about – in fact, one only needs to be passionate about something.
Remember, the wider a person's interests, the more persistent his enthusiasm will be, and the more topics he will talk about.
2.Sincerity Sincerity is an attitude that implies that you are such a person, that you may not be cheerful enough, but that you are not evil, that you are not hypocritical – and that is important.
Sincerity is the element that makes a relationship last, no one likes betrayal, and only those who are loyal to friendship can get friendship. I know people who are popular, and I rarely hear people say they have deceived anyone, and I rarely hear them say they have been deceived.
3.Humor We can take this as a joke, and I'm sure everyone can tell some jokes, we just don't get a chance to say it.
Of the three personalities, although the most important is enthusiasm, humor is the easiest to do. There is no shortage of jokes in each of us, and the easiest way to do this is to lead the way with jokes, as long as we think it's funny. Before we do it, we might think it's boring.
It's a bit of a thing, but if you stick with it, you find it useful: it trains our language skills, and it also develops our ability to improvise. What's more, a smile relaxes us.
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Sweat. Another poor child.
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What is happiness? In fact, there is no absolute answer to happiness, the key lies in your attitude towards life. Only those who are good at grasping happiness know what happiness is.
I always thought that it was very difficult to feel happiness, and that was a state of light. After the passage of time, I realized that happiness is actually very simple, as long as the soul is satisfied and comforted, it is happiness. A healthy life is a great happiness!
What is happiness? It's actually quite simple. A cup of fresh water and a cup of tea can taste the taste of happiness; A flower, a green leaf, can often bring a breath of happiness; A humble room, a book, you can enjoy the scenery of happiness.
Happiness is not only in material abundance, happiness is also in the pursuit of spirit and spiritual enrichment, happiness is a feeling, a consciousness, is the comfort of the soft breeze, is the fragrance of roses blooming, is the serenade from the lake from afar. To experience happiness, we must have a pure heart, we must know how to appreciate nature, we must be willing to be indifferent, we must have the grace of not being frightened, and we must have the bearing of dominating the world. In this world, some people drink Moutai and are excellent, but some people drink boiled water and are happy.
Poor couples are often able to get along with each other, but couples from rich and noble families often complain about their spouses. Happiness is often inseparable from good health and good mood, and happiness is often inseparable from the necessary material life guarantees, but limited to material happiness is never happiness in the real sense. Happiness is the song of the exile, and only a bosom friend can understand the meaning.
Happiness is the enrichment of the spirit, the tranquility of the soul, the openness of the soul, and secondly, the comfort of material life.
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I've had it too, but now when I do things, I just think about the whole world, and I'm afraid of anything, and now I'm a lot bolder, and I'm used to it.
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Calm and calm、、、 he couldn't stand it, so he stared at each other、、、 making him blush.
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Socialize more with people and talk more, especially the opposite sex.
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Go to crowded places and learn to socialize.
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When you are on KTV, you should sing more songs and travel more, which will broaden your horizons and open your mind, so you will naturally not be shy, communicate with people more, and show yourself more. Slowly, it will become more cheerful. The most important thing is to be confident, and self-confidence will keep you from shrinking.
Have the courage to face everything and say to yourself, I can.
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【Acupuncture points that make you bold Dazhong acupoint】The Dazhong acupoint is located on the inside of the foot, the lower back of the medial malleolus, and the depression in front of the medial side of the Achilles tendon attachment. When the kidney qi is insufficient, it hurts to press it. This acupoint can strengthen the waist and bones, ** sore throat and inability to speak, heel pain and timidity and other emotional diseases.
Some people have been timid and afraid of things since they were young, and when they are old, their kidneys are deficient and their qi is insufficient, and they may be less courageous than before. **Internet.
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Join more group activities and expand your social circle. It won't be long before you change the status quo. There's nothing to worry about.
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Actually, I used to be too, it's actually very simple, speak louder, stand with a nod of spirit, raise your head a little higher, look sharper, be usually abnormal, take your time and you will change.
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To communicate more with classmates and teachers and participate in outdoor sports, the key is to read more books, increase knowledge reserves, and improve self-cultivation.
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Watch more sketches, comedies, and then slowly get used to making more jokes and interacting with friends, and it will get better. Even in the current situation, it is not worth it! The current social atmosphere is good for oneself.
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You should be more social, make more friends, and say and do what kind of things to people, what kind of words, and what kind of things. Communicate more with others, give yourself more confidence, and overcome low self-esteem. Slowly, it will come naturally.
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Let it be, boys like the simplicity of girls, want to make the list bigger, if you are still studying, you will participate in more clubs, activities, if you are out of society, you will go out to participate in more social activities.
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Go to a place where there are many people and talk loudly, such as the square, and when the company is closed, express your personal opinions.
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Paint a thick powder on your face, talk to people a lot, and they can't see it even when you're red!
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Psychological adjustment and adjustment, there is a book on self-help growth that is very good, I suggest you take a look, out of the anxiety storm, is a practical way to get out of anxiety wisdom.
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Communicate with others more and take your time.
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Go to a place with a lot of people and see a lot of people, so it's okay to see a lot of people.
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Find someone to take you out and talk more
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Get in touch with your friends, go out and walk around, and enrich your life experience.
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Go outside a lot, have multiple social circles, I used to be introverted too, haha.
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Talk to people and do outdoor activities.
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Breathe deeply. Then look at the people in front of you as ants, and that's it.
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Communicate with people and try to talk more.
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Then the only way to go out to work is to get in touch with the outside world and people. A little bit would be fine.
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Talk to people more often and chat with strangers on QQ.
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At least you're still a girl. And for boys who are also in this situation, it seems to be even worse. But there are two sides to everything, and such a character will make you have super popularity, and people now have a good impression of this kind of person. This is purely personal experience and is for informational purposes only.
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Use QQ to chat with others first, and then move forward step by step.
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If you don't have a heart or lungs, people won't say anything about you, or if you're crazy like me, boys still like you.
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Don't be afraid, I used to be more introverted than you, but through my own efforts, I am slowly becoming less introverted, you can do what I say, for sure.
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Things must be reversed, just try to be as red as possible...
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You are the same as me, but I seem to have been bold lately, and when you are afraid, you think to yourself: Who is the old lady afraid of, a group of stupid people, you are not as good as me!
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Hello, you may be due to your own personality is more introverted and not very flexible in dealing with people. Suggestions:
In public places, especially when there are many people, you can't let go, and you feel that your heart will beat faster, your face will blush and heat, these are normal, but if you can't stand it at all, it means that your communication skills need to be strengthened. You may still be caused by a lack of confidence in yourself, not believing that you can do well in front of everyone, very afraid of making mistakes, saying the wrong thing, simply learn to escape, when you really can't escape, you will become very confused.
Change your own concept first, you are very good, you must learn to imply that you are very good, have confidence in yourself, believe in yourself, others will not deliberately find fault with you.
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Be confident, young people who don't have acne, acne means young.
To tell you a way to get rid of acne, wash your face with an oil-free cleanser and rub clindamycin metronidazole liniment.
Socialize more with people, play basketball more, and make your personality more cheerful and lively. Blessing.
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Communicate more with girls, don't be afraid, you will get used to talking too much.
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Although I'm not a woman, I have the same problem as the landlord - I feel shy when I get along with the opposite sex, blushing and heartbeating, which is really bad as a boy. I think it's because I'm introverted and honest, so I'm trying to overcome it. For example:
I feel embarrassed when I meet girls or get close to them. So, in order to overcome my shortcomings, I fought poison with poison, made friends with a girl in the class with a pure attitude, often chatted with her, and slowly got used to getting along with the girls after a long time. Similarly, if the landlord doesn't get along with boys, then make a colleague with better morality, occasionally take the initiative to chat with him, and slowly overcome his blushing shortcomings.
Another point, the girl who blushed when I met back then, in fact, I had a good impression of her and liked her from the bottom of my heart, so I blushed and heartbeat "exaggeratedly". So does the landlord only react to a certain male colleague? Perhaps, if you take the liberty of saying that, do you like it a little... Forehead.
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Be confident! I am also a fallen person at the end of the world, and my heart knot has not been untied! Your situation is very good!
It shows that you are thin-skinned, and now it is very rare for a girl like you to blush! What about self-esteem! Every time you feel like you have no self-esteem, you think like this!
He is a human being, and I am also a human being, why is it not that he has no self-esteem in front of me! Or go to some YY channels and communicate with those netizens often! You can exercise!
Slowly, you won't be embarrassed! It takes courage to pay attention! I wish you a speedy return to self-confidence, pure mobile phone typing, and urgent need for points!
I'm going to raise the bounty and let the gods guide me out of my way!
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You find yourself blushing and responding inwardly to be embarrassed.
Always keep a cool head, everyone will encounter similar problems, and don't leave yourself alone when you encounter problems.
It's like there's nothing wrong with it.
You don't have to. When I blushed, I said it, [I just blushed in the face].
No one will do anything to you, this method you try.
It's wisdom to say what you have.
In fact, when you don't have time to think, you can make yourself directly brave and dare to face the blushing.
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Scholars are more extroverted, and they naturally don't blush when they spend more time with their friends.
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Having self-confidence + confidence is enough.
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Do anything, as soon as you take the first step and then go down step by step, you will gradually get closer to your destination! At all times, you must know how to try to change your own shortcomings!
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Study hard in the third year of high school, it's nothing, it will be good in the future, especially after going to college, change the environment and exercise more.
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This should be practiced by yourself, as you get older, and have contact with friends, find more friends, and contact more people outside, you will naturally become extroverted, and others will also take you outward. But don't learn badly.
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Try to get in touch with friends who are more extroverted, and I heard that after being with a person for a long time, the personality will be similar.
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Went to a bar and worked as a waiter for two months.
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Psychological introversion, low self-esteem problems, to give yourself more opportunities to behave, the courage to show yourself, force yourself to speak, give yourself some psychological hints, will have a good effect, or watch some good works, books, movies, TV series, etc., imitating the characters in the play, is also a method, I hope it will help you.
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It should be a relationship where the skin is thinner and the blood vessels are richer. It has nothing to do with the heart.
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