What does it mean for a boy to tell a girl about his emotional experience?

There are probably these meanings, let's talk about two positive ones first:

1. I trust this girl very much. Past emotional experiences are generally regrettable, and some are very face-hurting, while a boy can let go of his self-esteem, talk to a girl about the scars of the past, and peel off the scars to show her, indicating that he has full trust in her, and believes that she will not laugh at herself, will not tell others, and will not embarrass herself.

I have a friend who likes to find a girl to talk about her sad history, chatting while eating hot pot, sometimes a handful of snot and tears, the girl who listened, kept handing her tissues, but after listening to her, she acted as if nothing had happened, even if someone asked about my friend, she was tight-lipped and would not reveal any things.

2. Have a good impression of this girl. Yes, I'm talking about that kind of good feeling, just the kind that hasn't been confessed.

He wants to get close to girls, but he doesn't know what method to use, he wants to find a topic to talk about, but he can't find a suitable topic, so he can only talk about his previous relationship experience, because this is more talkative, more substitutional, and more able to attract the attention of girls.

The reality is that this is often more effective. I have a colleague who talks to another female colleague about his love experience every day, sometimes scolding, sometimes laughing, sometimes laughing at himself, and is like an actor. Unexpectedly, more than a month later, the two of them were really together, and they were in and out of the right place every day, and the female colleague still gaged the story of the male colleague at every turn, an alternative show of affection.

After talking about the above two positive points, let's talk about two negative points:

1. It is possible that you just habitually like to hook up when you meet the opposite sex. Men have a natural sense of proximity to the opposite sex, and this nature can be traced back to primitive societies. If that's the case, then he just sees everyone who likes to talk about their emotional experiences, one is to show off, the other is to attract attention, and the third is to get close to the opposite sex, depending on the situation to take the next step.

Such people are advised to stay away.

2. It may just be purely emotional intelligence and touching. Because, under normal circumstances, if you are not particularly familiar with you, you are familiar enough to comfort and take the pulse of you, and it is a taboo in interpersonal communication to talk to someone about your heart and past at will.

In any case, if you have a good impression of this boy, you can continue to listen to the conversation, and if you don't have a good feeling, you can avoid it.

I just think that this girl is worth chatting with and trusting, so I want to tell some of my experiences, maybe I think this girl can help me, so I say it. This thing is very common, as long as you have friends of the opposite sex, your friends of the opposite sex have had emotional experiences, he will want to tell you, because although the boy is big, but he also needs to tell, what he talks to the boy is insight, and what he talks to the girl is about small things.

A girl is a very weak individual in the eyes of a boy, a very delicate individual, and his feelings will be explained from you, and he will tell all his past experiences from you. There was probably a kind of show-off feeling, but in general, he just wanted to say it, and he felt that you could trust it, so he said it, and there was nothing else.

I was the kind of girl who was very loud when I was in high school, I mingled with everyone in the class, my nerves were also very big, my table mate was a boy, he liked to tell me about his love history when he was bored in class, he liked to tell me about his love history, about his girlfriends, about his goddesses, about the experiences between them, who he chased, who chased him, with this for a few months, with that for a few months, which girl in it he liked the most.

Once he wanted to chase a girl, and muttered to me for a long time, what should he chase and buy, or something. We often talk, it's nothing, when the relationship arrives, I say it, I treat you as a friend, I share the story with you, you see I have had a few girlfriends, I have chased a few girls. Generally, such a boy is more fond of babbling, being in a hurry, and a little like to show off, but since he told you, he is taking you as a friend, and if you have any ideas to help him, tell him.

Treat her like a very important person.

I think men are very rational creatures who don't waste their time on people they don't value. If he is willing to talk to you more, it means that he values you very much. If he even tells you about his relationship experience, he either thinks that you are his very important female friend, or he likes you and wants to explain his feelings in advance.

Although I am not a boy, I will only talk to anyone who has a good relationship with me about myself. I don't have to talk to anyone, I just have a lot of passion and heart for what I value. Of course, this also includes unreservedly speaking about one's past.

I guess boys think that's the same way I do. They only tell her so much about themselves when they value this girl.

A person's emotional experience is a very private thing for himself, and if he is willing to share it with a girl, even if he has no love for this girl, he must have a very deep friendship. After all, who would be okay to shake their own such intimate matter to a stranger.

Therefore, if a boy and a girl talk about their emotional experience, they either regard this girl as their "brother", or treat this girl as their love person, and explain their emotional experience to this girl in advance. In short, this girl is very important to this boy.

Of course, whether it is a "brother" or a "love object" depends on the degree of ambiguity between the two parties at the time. I think that the girls who are in it should also know what position the other party puts themselves in.

He wanted to share his experience with the girl, and he regarded the girl as someone he trusted very much.

It may just be a simple confession, after all, boys don't have as many thoughts as girls.

You can tell each other about your emotional experience, indicating that two people are good friends who can talk about everything, and girls don't want to fall in love with this boy, they can only talk about their feelings when they are good friends.

Summary. Hello, of course, if the boy and the girl are just ordinary friends, then the boy may now have a little bit of a relationship with the girl who wants to go further from the ordinary relationship, so explain his original emotional experience to the girl. Let the girls know about themselves.

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Hello, what kind of relationship is a boy and a girl? If the boy and the girl originally refer to the relationship that has just been established, then it is really normal for the man to tell the girl about her original love. He explained his past to the girl, so that the girl trusted him more.

Hello, of course, if the boy and the girl are only in an ordinary friend relationship, then the boy may now have a little bit of a relationship with the girl who wants to further develop from the ordinary Guan Dou Fiber Rubber system, so he explains his original emotional experience like a girl. Let the girls know about themselves.

Hello, why does the boy want to tell the girl that his emotional experience is divided into the above two situations, but the total slippery town imitation empty body is nothing more than that this boy actually really let down his guard against this girl, and he has a good impression of this girl.

The girl takes the initiative to tell you about her previous relationship experience, this is the woman worships you in her heart, believes in you, has feelings for you, at this time the boy and the girl will agree to whatever request the girl makes, because she has nothing to say to you, regards you as a confidant, and also hints that she loves you.

If a girl tells you all about her past experiences as a boy without reservation, it means that she is completely defenseless against you in her heart, and the Lord is a completely reliable person for you, but don't think that she must be in love with you, it is possible that she just treats you as a male girlfriend.

If you are a boy, she takes the initiative to say these things to you, on the one hand, it shows that she trusts you very much, takes the initiative to open up, hopes that you understand her past, and more importantly, likes you, sees your reaction, and wants to have a deep relationship with you.

Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answer: The meaning of this sentence is that the boy thinks that the girl's emotional experience is too simple and does not have enough depth and complexity. There are many ways to solve this problem, but the most important thing is to learn to start from yourself and explore deeper feelings from your own experience.

1.Learn to observe your feelings: Learn to observe your feelings and discover how your emotions change and how they affect your behavior.

2.Learn to analyze your emotions: Learn to analyze your emotions and discover how your emotional changes affect your behavior, and how your behavior affects your emotions.

3.Learn to control your own emotions: Learn to control your emotions so that you can better grasp your emotions, better control your behavior, and thus better control your feelings.

4.Learn to explore your feelings: Learn to explore your feelings so that you can better understand your feelings, better grasp your feelings, and thus better grasp your emotional experiences.

In short, if you want to have a deeper emotional experience, you must learn to start from yourself and explore deeper feelings from your own experience, so as to better grasp your emotional experience.