What is it like to be lively on the outside and withdrawn on the inside?

Summary. Hello, in fact, most people are the same? I feel lonely when I'm alone.

Hello, in fact, most people are the same? I feel lonely when I'm alone.

Living at home is tiring, and I have to act.

You can make some like-minded friends and talk about the future, career, scenery and history.

Got something going on at home?

I want to make myself mentally stronger.

The idea is very good.

You have to make an effort too, I'm sure you're not that old.

But I've looked up a lot of information, but to no avail.

I'm 16 of them this year, and I'm all getting a little bit more mature.

In fact, your age is the time to study and enjoy your youth.

It's that I've been through a lot of things, and I've found that my family is good to you when they use you, and when they don't use it, they throw it away like garbage.

Don't think so.

But he really exists (δ

Everyone has the meaning and mission of his existence, and the family needs you more.

That is, what should I do with my life at home now?

Acting? Still....

You can divert your attention and devote all your energy and time to studying, otherwise you will feel very tired and hard.

Something at home? At last.

How can you be yourself?

The affairs of the family are handled by the adults, and your task is to learn to make yourself stronger.

If you don't do your own basic things, and you're anxious, adults won't listen to you.

My family sometimes forced me to do something, and sometimes they scolded me if I didn't do it.

So you're in pain.

You tell your family, you deal with your business, and my job is to be your child and your student.

Don't disturb me.

I get it, thank you.

Don't let yourself get involved, because they are all your favorite home reporters, and if you hurt anyone, Wu Tong will put yourself in trouble, and it will also make your family bitter and honest, so it's better to let them solve it themselves, and you can be your student and their children.

1 .Sadness when you're alone 2Always like to disguise yourself.

Fear of being hurt 3Always like to disguise your sadness with laughter 4Always like to bury your true thoughts 5

Pretend not to care when hurt 6Always pretend to be happy and don't want to be cared for in particular 7When everything doesn't go his way, he gets upset and irritable 8

When he doesn't care, he will appear particularly tolerant and open 9Love to listen to sad ** 10Will work hard silently, but don't want to be noticed by Bere that he is trying 11

The more you care, the more you pretend not to care 12When he's in a bad mood. Will want to find a place to vent or find someone to talk to 13

He is stubborn and tries when he thinks it's impossible, until he realizes that it's really impossible to strangleWhen he reminisces about the past, he always feels a lot of happiness. I always feel that my life is not as good as it used to be 15

Like to be nostalgic for the past 16When he cried, it meant that he was really hurt. It really hurts 17

Fear of being forgotten, fear of being ignored by others 18When you care a lot on the surface, in fact, you don't care about it anymore in your heart.

Everything has to look at both sides of it. Introverts really don't like to talk much, see through everything, it can be said that they look at problems in the long run, and they won't really entangle people when they meet them. For example:

A friend of mine is from the varsity basketball team, and he's a big guy. Grabbing rebounds is very powerful, and the rebounds in every game are basically his. But the shooting rate is not very good, and every time I miss a shot, I will be complained by the captain and say a lot of things.

But he never replied, nor complained. Ordinary people really don't understand, some say that he is broad-minded, and some say that he is quietly transforming in a reluctant voice.

In fact, introverts are generally mucous types.

Neurological features of mucus: low susceptibility; High tolerability; low involuntary response; few external manifestations; Emotions are stable; Slow and inflexible response.

Psychological characteristics of mucus: steady, comprehensive consideration; Quiet, silent, good at self-restraint; Be patient. Emotions are not easily exposed; Attention is steady and not easily shifted, and external movements are few and slow.

Typical manifestations of mucus: This type of person, also known as the quiet type, is a persistent and steady hard worker in life. Because these people have a strong inhibition of the excitatory process, they move slowly and calmly, strictly adhere to the established order of life and work, and are not distracted by indifferent motives.

Mucous people have a serious attitude, moderate communication, do not make empty talk, are not easily emotionally excited, are not easy to lose their temper, are not easy to show emotions, can be autonomous, and do not often show their talents. This kind of person persevers for a long time and does his job in an orderly manner. The disadvantage is that some things are not flexible enough and are not good at diverting their attention.

Inertia leads him to stick to the old ways, showing more rigidity than flexibility. Unhurried and serious character, as well as consistency and certainty of character.

Most people with this personality don't like to have more contact with people, and will not use their hands and mouths to communicate, but see through everything with their eyes, or low-key, or social fear, these people are not necessarily absolutely withdrawn, they only maintain this character to strangers, and they may be able to speak well in front of acquaintances and good friends, but if you really interact with this type of person, gain trust, and enter his inner world, I believe it can teach you a lot of things.