The couple had just finished arguing, and they didn t know what to talk about, and they had no words

1. Share some interesting things in your own life with them Life alone is not always thrilling or pleasant, but it can't always be boring. As long as you encounter something funny and funny, you can share it with your boyfriend and girlfriend. In this way, you don't need to spend a long time to maintain a communication with your boyfriend and girlfriend, and they will also have the illusion of keeping in touch with you for a long time, because they know all the interesting things in your life.

2. You can share interesting topics you often encounter with each other.

If you can't find an interesting topic to talk to your boyfriend or girlfriend, then use the almighty circle of friends.

Your life may not be fun every day, but there are always interesting things happening among so many friends that you can share with your girlfriend. If your thinking is agile and divergent enough, you can also make up some interesting stories about your personal experience based on this circle of friends, and the Pomeranian laughs.

3. Communicate your feelings often, chicken soup is useful many times.

When you see this, it seems that you can think of what you will look like when you are old, although it is no longer like when you were young, you will always be by each other's side. Girls are generally emotional, and when you say that, she will also talk about her feelings, so that you have an exchange that is of interest to both of you.

Ask the other party what to eat for lunch, you go to buy it, and resolve the conflict in minutes, thank you.

Don't speak, buy a gift for her.

Laughter can resolve all contradictions and embarrassments.

That's because the quarrel has left a shadow on both sides, in fact, don't dwell on the content of the previous quarrel, you won't mind, there must be no good words in the quarrel, don't dwell on this matter anymore, it's right to cherish each other.

It means that you are still angry with each other.

This shows that there is no complete reconciliation between you. There are some issues on which there is no consensus; There are emotions that are not fully released. But because you were worried that you wouldn't be able to stand it, you didn't talk about it thoroughly, so you covered it up and made it appear to be peaceful.

But in my heart, you and he both know that some things are still there, and they have become taboos in conversation.

That being the case, these things need to be talked about. You can find a peaceful day and continue to talk to him with kind words. If you talk about it, you won't hold it in your heart, and you don't have to avoid it all the time.

Of course, there is also a possibility that the other party will not be able to communicate with you about this. The issue of avoidance may lead to a quarrel or a cold war as soon as it is discussed, so you don't dare to mention it.

At this time, you need to ask for help - for example, find someone to complain about and relieve your depression; Or see how others have dealt with similar problems and learn from some experience. In short, as long as you have the courage to face the problem and find a way to solve it, then sooner or later, the knot in your heart will be untied.

This is a very normal relationship between couples, who can say anything and quarrel there, and dare to say anything to hurt people, which is very sad. After reconciliation, you can't be as intimate as before, and you can't speak, it's really taboo and afraid of hurting each other's hearts and afraid of each other, well, I suspect that this way of getting along will take a long time to run in before you can find the trick. You'll understand after spending time together.

You shouldn't be too taboo now, when you quarrel, you have to say cruel things, but it's all unintentional, and he won't bother with you. You still keep your original intention and be the innocent and kind you at the beginning, so he will only like you more.

After the quarrel, is there something that has not been said, and there is an estrangement, or he is too heavy during the quarrel, and he cares too much, and he has to worry about you for every little thing, so you don't dare to tell the other party about something.

It's the same as before! Be true to yourself, there is no couple who doesn't quarrel, let it pass in the past, don't put pressure on yourself and each other, sometimes quarrels will increase feelings!

Treat each other well and tolerate each other, be considerate and understand each other, and Nan Wu will win the Buddha.

It is said that love is secondary, and not being tired for a long time is the most important.

A life is really long, money and appearance may only determine whether you are likely to be together, but the three views determine whether you are suitable to go on.

If you are not married, please find someone who is as close as possible to your three views;

In fact, the consistency of the three views does not require that your interests and preferences and ways of thinking are exactly the same, but that you can seek common ground while reserving differences, and know how to tolerate, understand and appreciate.

Otherwise, you share happiness with him, and he thinks you are showing off; You confide in him about your sadness, and he thinks you are hypocritical. Getting along with someone who doesn't agree with the three views is more tiring than moving bricks, because he won't understand you at all.

You tell him the sea is beautiful, and he says you don't even know how many people have drowned here.

What seems natural to you is unbelievable in his eyes.

Although they are all very small things, they become tired in front of people who do not agree with the three views, and they become comfortable in the eyes of people with the same three views.

Do you feel it?

This is certainly not normal.

You need to review your language thinking and see if there are unreasonable stereotypes in it.

I'm too, and I want to know why. We usually have nothing to say, and we quarrel as soon as we chat, whether it is not suitable or we are unwilling to accommodate each other.

It's not normal, couples talk about everything.

If you can't apologize to each other, forget it!

It's not normal, and if you have a good relationship, you won't quarrel often.

I just want to ask, aren't you tired?

It's not normal. Are you both very-horned?

It's not because of some principled issues that it is recommended not to break up easily, maybe your boyfriend is still angry or thinks that you haven't lost his anger yet, so he hasn't contacted you for the time being, you might as well give him a step down, send a greeting or something to see how he reacts, if he still ignores you, it proves that he has little energy and then considers breaking up.

I think it's okay to communicate well It's normal to have problems, and solving them is the key.

Don't give up on a relationship easily, sometimes it's excusable that the relationship between couples is not harmonious, everyone can make an appointment, maybe give each other space to think calmly and there will be an answer.

It's too easy for you to break up, you don't have to break up if you quarrel, you ask yourself, do you still like him, if you like it, don't think about breaking up.

That's the case, when it comes to the back, it becomes a matter of attitude, and the content is no longer important.

Quarrels are normal, and the content of the quarrel is not important. The important thing is whether it will be reconciled instantly.

In the end, there is only one reason for the fierce fighting: why don't you let me.

Actually, this one is quite difficult! Because it often happens that two people are together and don't know what to say, but the more you look for a topic, the more fake it becomes, right? Ay!

I can tell you that you guys are not very suitable. But there is also a solution, to tell you that the simplest thing is nonsense, such as understanding her family first! And then talk nonsense, and pull the other party's troubles, so that the other party can understand you better and talk more about the troubles, so that the other party has no sense of restraint and is more like a family!