My daughter and son were admitted to Tsinghua University at the same time, but only one person was a

Seeing this question, I suddenly remembered a TV series "Dajiang Dahe", in which the protagonists are siblings are like this.

In the TV series, both the sister and brother were admitted to college, but because of the family's financial difficulties, the elder sister took the initiative to give up the opportunity to study in college for the sake of her younger brother's studies. Because of this incident, my parents have always blamed themselves very much, and my sister has always had regrets in her heart.

Therefore, if you really encounter such a problem in real life, I think you should not give up, you must not choose to give up one of them, and go to support another child to go to college, and never give up your daughter to support your son to go to college, otherwise you will live in regret for the rest of your life.

Now the main problem is the economic problem, I think you can borrow money from relatives and friends, and you can apply for a national student loan when you go to college, and your children can also go to school while working while they are in college, and now there are many ways to raise funds from the society and apply for help, so there are many ways to solve financial difficulties, and you must not give up one of your children to go to college because of financial difficulties, because this is the most unwise approach.

As a parent, if your daughter and son are admitted to Tsinghua University at the same time, what a proud thing it should be, many parents can't think of it, whether it is in school, or in the place of residence, even in the countryside is the pride of the township, so I think you can borrow money from relatives and friends, ask for help from **, they know the specific situation of your family, and they will definitely not stand idly by.

Therefore, the first thing you have to do is to know how much money it costs for two children to go to Tsinghua University in the first year, I checked it on the Internet, if it is not an art student, a computer or the like, usually 5,000 yuan a school year, two children are 10,000 yuan, as long as you get the money together first, let the child go to school smoothly, the rest of the matter is easy to solve, whether it is to let the child work-study, or to work in the society, there is always a way to earn living expenses, if the child has good grades, The school also has a scholarship subsidy, and if you can get a scholarship, then you don't have to worry about living expenses at all.

Therefore, when encountering difficulties, the first thing to do is to face up to the existence of the problem and analyze the problem clearly, instead of trying to escape and go to extremes.

If it is to borrow money, then ask who to borrow, how much to borrow, what to do in the first step, what to do in the second step, what to do in the third step, as a parent, you must be clear in your heart.

In the face of this situation, do not hide it from the children, but should tell the truth about the difficulties at home, and how to solve this difficulty, including what to do if the child encounters financial difficulties after school, how to ask for help, etc., I believe that the children are so good, they must know more than your parents, they will know how to solve the difficulties.

This is like Xu Fan's Tangshan ** beech, which can only save one. Whoever is saved by the parents is a sinner in the eyes of the other.

This is a very rubbish assumption, I have been admitted to Tsinghua University, do I still need to worry about tuition fees?

Look at the character of the two children.

Daughters and sons can be asked what they think, and it is inappropriate for the parents to favor one side or the other.

It's really easy to do, and you have to pay a considerable amount of money to repeat the cram school.

It's stupid to ask this question, there is no basic common sense, and students who can be admitted to Tsinghua University will not lack money to study!

The prize money alone can cover the tuition, so don't show off this kind of boring problem!

Both daughters and sons have to be supplied, even if they smash pots and sell iron and blood, they have to provide for them to go to college, and this can't be one or the other.

You should tell your child about the situation at home and let him discuss it on his own, but if he thinks about the outcome, then he has to think of other ways.

In this case, you can let the two children discuss the results by themselves, but it is really not possible, and they can apply for financial aid.

Even if you smash the pot and sell iron to borrow money from others, you have to pay for both of you to go to school. How can you not be admitted to such a good school?

What to choose? To overcome difficulties, you have to take out loans! I don't know if there are students who have to go to college with a stupid girl on their backs!

Shouldn't such a report appear on the big **, take the Chinese people as fools?

I really can't figure out why my children can only be admitted to Tsinghua University at the same time, and there is no reason for one person to continue to attend! After being admitted to Tsinghua University, money is no longer a matter of study. Two days ago, a report said that a girl from Hubei who was admitted to Tsinghua University this year got a total of 260,000 yuan for auctioning off her notebook and some sundries, which was 260,000 yuan.

Moreover, now the local government and schools are taking the admission to Tsinghua University and Peking University as a benchmark and a golden sign of education. The individual reward for students admitted to Tsinghua University is more than 300,000 yuan, two is more than 600,000 yuan, plus the auction of two copies, more than one million yuan.

Two Tsinghua students went to engage in one-on-one tutoring on holidays, and money was really not a problem. Besides, Tsinghua students can line up to pick up a sponsorship, and the little money from the student loan is embarrassed to show up. In addition, the cost of studying at Tsinghua University is actually much lower than that of high school, and the more famous the school, the cheaper.

Have a special family situation and have to leave someone at home to take care of you? There are either the old, the weak, the sick or the disabled at home, and they cannot leave anyone, so they must be left to take care of them. In fact, this point is also often reported, some take young siblings to college, and some bring elders with limited mobility to school, with the help of local, school, and social caring people, it can basically be satisfactorily solved.

Besides, there is no shortage of money, it is easy to do if you have money, and it may be much better to pay a salary to hire someone to take care of it than to take care of it yourself, and it is not easy for the two brothers and sisters in Tsinghua to be responsible for finding a nursing fee?

Of course, maybe it's the same as on TV, the huge family business must be taken care of, there is no way, according to the tradition of Pakai, the son stays. If there is definitely no problem with the topic, and you have to choose one or the other, then the son stays at home and the daughter goes to study.

Our tradition is to favor sons over daughters, raise children to prevent old age, raise children to die, raise children to pass on the family lineage, and most of the property is inherited by sons. If there is a family property that must be looked after, it is for the son, of course. And if you let your son go to Tsinghua University, it will be very promising, and he will definitely develop in a big city, and if he can't keep it in China, he will be a foreigner directly.

Not to mention that it is difficult to see his son in the old age, let alone tease his grandson and be in the same house for several lifetimes.

If you let your son go to Tsinghua University, and your daughter is going to get married after all, it will be a matter of time before you go out, is a family with a son embarrassed to recruit a son-in-law? Besides, daughters generally take care of their parents' families, even if they get married, they think a lot about their parents' families. The son's words stay by his side, and he only listens to his daughter-in-law's words, and it is even more unreliable if he is far away.

So it's better for the daughter to go to Tsinghua University, and the son to stay at home.

Of course, it is also possible that this is a brain teaser question for Hermione? If two children are admitted to Tsinghua University at the same time, only one person can go to Tsinghua University, so choose one person to study at Tsinghua University and the other person to study at Peking University, which is a perfect solution.

Neither of them can afford to give up. If it is Tsinghua University, the subsidy will be as high as 10,000 yuan, and the problem of tuition fees can be solved, and you can also apply for student loans; The living expenses of the feast can be obtained through scholarships and work-study programs.

I would choose to send my son to Tsinghua University because it doesn't cost much to raise my son, and my son is more independent.

I would choose to borrow money for my children's education. Because the two children are very good, no matter which Liang Zhiyi is allowed to drop out of school, it is not good, I would rather work more to make money, and I would rather let the children have no books to study.

Reasons for choosing my son to continue to attend Tsinghua University:

1. Family inheritance.

In a culture like China, where family inheritance is important, the name of our family will be borne by men. Especially in the case of such an ancient culture as China, which still attaches great importance to the succession of the Hu family, we chose to let our son go to Tsinghua University, so that he can have the opportunity to complete the mission of passing on the family lineage, inherit the family honor and start a career in the future, and enrich the happiness of the family.

2. Differential treatment.

Every family treats boys and girls differently, with some parents preferring daughters and others preferring sons. In this context, we tend to choose to let our son continue to study at Tsinghua University and give him corresponding attention, so that he can have the opportunity to receive a good education and get more opportunities to develop his life.

3. Family affection.

The son is the most valuable member of the family, he is an important continuator of family feelings, he is also an important representative of family inheritance, and he is an important force for family development. Therefore, we should pay attention to the development of our son and the continuation of family feelings, so we will choose our son to go to Tsinghua University, so that he can have the opportunity to realize his dreams, protect the continuation of family feelings, and achieve the goal of family happiness.

Fourth, drive the social ecology.

Tsinghua University is a world-class university with a history of 100 years and a strong ability to drive social ecology. When his son graduates, he can develop his own career all over the world, which can not only lead the development of his family, but also promote the development of society, and thus promote the common development of the world.

In short, the above is the reason why we chose to let our son continue to study at Tsinghua University. Of course, parents should also give their daughter full support so that he has the opportunity to realize his dreams and develop his own career and family happiness.

Don't say that Tsinghua University and Peking University can also provide for one to go to school, even if your daughter and son are admitted to an ordinary junior college. Undergraduate, you can't afford even one, you go to the local **, explain the situation, provide the admission notice and poverty certificate family register, ** will give you subsidies and interest-free student loans, real interest-free loans, 50,000 yuan will be repaid slowly after you graduate, or 50,000 yuan. When you arrive at school, ask your daughter and son to explain the situation to the counselor, and the counselor will also apply for school grants and various scholarships for you.

China's public education, fees have always been symbolic fees, the state has a large number of financial subsidies, starting from kindergarten, three meals and help with five or six-year-old children, parents have a headache, more than 300 yuan a month. In primary and secondary schools, the tuition fee is only two or three hundred in a semester, and the teacher accompanies him from 6 o'clock in the morning to 10 o'clock in the evening. When you get to university, you do well in the exam, you go to undergraduate, and there are professor-level teachers in basic schools, these people go to enterprises as consultants, and deal with a problem in the last class, all of which are thousands of dollars, you have 5,000 yuan in tuition, and N professors will give you a year's class, and all kinds of questions can be asked casually.

Let's put it this way, for example, if you originally had to pay 100 yuan to go to school, and the state has already paid you 90 yuan without you knowing, do you think it will give up on you because you can't afford to pay the remaining ten yuan?

An ordinary college student, no matter what industry he is engaged in, as long as he pays social security, he can receive nearly 1,000 yuan of living allowance and talent allowance from ** every month in the city where he works.

You have to know how much the country attaches importance to education, don't say that Qingbei has reinstated these schools, even if ordinary junior colleges come out, they are talents. Students are the future of the country, and the country will not give up on any student just because you are poor.

Pay attention to the public account: A vermilion lemon will give you a different story every day.

No matter what the reason, I will let my children go to Tsinghua University, because it is my pride that they can be admitted to this university, so I will smash the pot and sell Tie Ji Ji Hu to cover their tuition.

The daughter and son Cheng Yin have very good grades and were admitted to Tsinghua University when they were Shen at the age of Tongfeng, so they must be famous locally, even if the economic conditions of the family do not allow two people to go to the same time, there will be filial piety disturbance to relevant departments, related enterprises, and well-wishers will find a way to solve it.

The child was admitted to Tsinghua University at the same time, and then for various reasons, only one could go to school, so send two people to choose life together!

The child was admitted to Tsinghua University, which shows that the child is too good, a person who learns very well, and a future talent.

Due to family reasons, only one child can go to school, in order not to delay the youth of the other child, then choose the favorable conditions of the local policy and let the two children go to school together!

It's not a bad thing to have a heavy family burden, after all, the two children have too much future, so choose a student loan, Suilu or choose a family loan, so that the child can go to school with confidence.

Adults can apply for poor households in the local policy, especially if the child is admitted to Tsinghua University, this poor household policy can be conducive to getting the school's welfare benefits.

You can also contact Tsinghua University, they are very caring for students, so you can get the school's student loan to let your child graduate successfully.

But if the parents are more selfish, they are only willing to choose to let one student go to Tsinghua University, then it would be a pity for the other, then they can reach mutual affection, and one will take the initiative to give up.

There is nothing more attractive than a child's learning, so never give up on the cultivation of children, especially if they are self-taught, and can always challenge reality.

Parents must choose to learn their own realities so that their children do not miss the most precious time.

For example, the parents are already sick and can no longer afford a financial bill, because they still need a medical bill, and the existence of this school consumption is really worse, so one of the two children will take the initiative to give up going to school, because he is going to choose to work in the society, because he needs a sense of economic security.

As the saying goes, the children of poor families are in charge of the family at an early age, so there is always a younger brother, or a younger sister who goes to school, because as an older brother or sister, he feels entitled to take on the responsibilities of the family.

As a last resort, don't give up the two hearts and souls, there's really nothing you can do! There will always be a good child who will give up his studies.