When people reach old age, what is the difference between sons and daughters?

For parents with children and daughters, although it is the same worry when they are young, it takes the same time, energy and cost. But when the children are marriedWhen I entered old age, I realized that my son and daughter are really different, so what's the difference?

In the hearts of most old people, it is a matter of course to live with their sons when they are old. Therefore, many old people will still choose to live with their children when they are old, but they always say to families with children and daughtersLiving in a son's house is the norm, and a filial daughter will also take her parents home to live for a while, and many old people say that the feeling of living in a son's house and daughter's house is completely different.

Living with his son, although he is at ease, he is inevitably angry because of his daughter-in-law. After all, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really delicate, and if you don't pay attention to it, there will be contradictions between the two. The comfort of living with your son depends a lot on what kind of person your daughter-in-law is, and if your daughter-in-law is reasonable, then she will be relatively comfortable.

If the daughter-in-law does not deal with herself, then it is indispensable to look at the eyes of the young man and sulk herself. Living with her daughter, her daughter-in-law's family will treat her as a guest, and she will definitely take good care of her, and her daughter is more delicate, so she won't suffer too many grievances. But at my daughter's house, except for my daughter, everyone treats me as a guest, which makes me feel very unbelonging, and I am very restrained, and I don't dare to stay too long at my daughter's house.

When you need to take care of your son, you don't have a daughter, and you are active and careful. I heard an old man say that he was sick and hospitalized some time ago, and his son helped contact the hospital doctor to arrange hospitalization. But when he was admitted to the hospital, his son didn't show up a few times, and his daughter was busy taking care of him.

It's not that his son is not filial, he was also busy everywhere when he first got sick, and he should pay the hospital fee during his hospitalization. But let him stay at the bedside to take care of him, he probably didn't have the patience and the time. Now I live alone, and when my son goes to see it, he wants to give me some money, but every time my daughter goes, she helps me clean up the house, wash what should be washed, and add what the family needs in time.

The son is always not as careful as the daughter.

When he is old and sick, or has physical problems that need to be taken care of, the son is already very good, whether it is forced by life or the nature of a man, the son is not as active and careful as the daughter when taking care of him. For families with children and daughters, if the parents educate them properly, they may enjoy endless blessings when they are old.

There must be a very big difference, because after all, the parents who take care of themselves in the future will definitely be their own daughters.

When people reach old age, their sons and daughters will think that their daughters are intimate little padded jackets.

I think it's the same if it's filial, they all care about the elderly, but if it's not filial, it's the same.

I think it's all the same, as long as you treat your children no differently.

I think it depends on the son and daughter themselves, and if you are kind and filial, it will be good for the elderly.

The old people all said that their daughters are more caring and will take better care of their parents.

These children will also be very busy when they get older, and they may not care much.

My daughter's words will definitely disappear even more, and you are very good to you now.

The daughter is more attentive and takes care of people, while the son will only spend money.

It's still very different from the words of the daughter, and the son is generally not filial.

Married daughter, splashed out of the water", but forgot that the daughter is still an intimate little padded jacket, usually when educating children at home, whether it is a boy or a girl, you must treat them equally, you must not be partial, you can't always think that the son must be the pillar of the family, and the daughter is for someone else's family.

Yes, there is indeed a big difference, for example, the son will marry the daughter-in-law's money in the future, but the daughter is different, and the son has to worry more than the daughter.

I think so too, my daughter is really caring and will take care of people, but my son is not so thoughtful.

But in the older generation, what I see the most is that there are more brothers in the family, and there are more contradictions, and the favored always like to gnaw at the old, because so many children can't be treated fairly, and when they are old and sick, their sons say that they are very busy and have no time. Only at this time do I know that my daughter is an intimate little padded jacket, and now in many big cities, many families like their daughters and think that their daughters are good. In the future, this patriarchal thinking will slowly disappear, hopefully.

Because the older generation believes that raising children can prevent old age, sons can be inherited, but daughters cannot, so in their eyes, sons are more important than daughters.

In their opinion, in some important things, the son can play a very important role, of course, this also has a lot to do with their traditional thinking, in their view, the son is the heirlounder.

Because the son is the pillar of the family, and the son also bears the important responsibility of passing on the family lineage, and the daughter will be regarded as an outsider in the eyes of the older generation, and the daughter who marries out will spill the water, so in the eyes of the older generation, the son is more important than the daughter.

Because the son can live with himself in the future, the daughter will live with others after she gets married, and the son can provide for himself in the future, so it is more important.

Because in the early years, the countryside basically made a living from farming, and the strength of men was much greater than that of women, so giving birth to a son was equivalent to an extra labor force, and the "role" of giving birth to a daughter was much smaller, so the older generation would especially want a son.

for the son can be passed on from generation to generation. Because in my personal opinion, I think it's because of this problem of inheritance.

First of all, the elderly are seen as an important part of the family in Chinese culture. In traditional Chinese families, older people often have a position of authority, and their decisions often have a significant impact on the family as a whole. Therefore, some parents want to live with their sons, which can ensure that their status and authority in the family are respected and recognized.

Secondly, care and affection in the family is very important for the elderly. As they age, older people may develop health and lifestyle problems that require help and support from their families. In Chinese culture, the son is often seen as the breadwinner and caregiver of the family, so parents want to live with their son and can be better cared for and cared for.

Third, in traditional Chinese culture, the concept of family is very strong. The family is regarded as an important social unit, and its stability and prosperity are very important for the development of the whole society. As a result, some parents want to live with their sons in order to maintain the stability of the family and the inheritance of traditional values.

Finally, there are practical reasons that can also influence parents' decision-making. In China, due to high housing prices and accelerating urbanization, many young people often cannot easily buy a house and live independently. In this case, living with your parents can become an economic and practical option.

In summary, filial piety in Chinese culture, care and concern for the elderly, family values, and practical factors may influence parents' decision to live with their sons. However, this does not mean that every family has to live in the traditional way.

Both sons and daughters are expected to support the elderly. According to the relevant laws, adult children have the obligation to support their fathers and mothers. In addition, if the adult child does not comply with the agreement or the law stipulates the relevant maintenance obligations of the filter, the parent who lacks the ability to work or has difficulties in living has the right to demand the adult child to pay alimony.

[Legal basis].

Article 26 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

Parents have a duty to upbring, educate and protect their minor children.

Adult children have an obligation to their parents to support, support and protect them.

Article 1067.

If the parents do not fulfill the obligation to support them, the minor children or adult children who are unable to live independently have the right to demand that the parents pay child support.

Parents who fail to fulfill their obligation to support their adult children, or who lack the ability to work or who have difficulties in living, have the right to demand maintenance from their adult children.

Article 14 of the Law on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly.

The supporter shall fulfill the obligation to provide financial support, daily care and spiritual comfort to the elderly, and take care of the special needs of the elderly.

In the eyes of the old man, he felt that his son was more important, and said that raising a son could prevent old age, but with the development of the economy, this traditional concept has now been broken, and having a son is the same as having a second daughter.

Most of them think that their son is more important, and it has something to do with traditional thinking. I think it's normal, because their minds are solidified.

Of course, the son is more important, after all, the daughter is going to marry someone else in the end, and the son will definitely provide for himself if he is filial.

I think the son is more important in the eyes of the elderly, because in traditional Chinese culture, if a woman wants to get married, and then what she wants to do will definitely be restricted by her in-laws, the daughter is powerless in the heart, and the son is not like this, after all, the unfilial son is only a minority, and most of them are still in charge of the second half of the old man's life, so the son is more important.