How do you deal with someone who is a special ego?

When dealing with self-centered people, the best thing to do is to stay away from them. They tend to have a small circle of selfishness. Otherwise, the center of self-centeredness will not become the center.

People who don't want to blend in with this kind of center will be ostracized by them. They are originally repulsive to dissidents, and if some people want to get close to them without interest, they will be more energetic and proud. Unless you want to go along with them, and throw yourself into their arms, of course, it's a big hit.

Things are gathered by like, and people are grouped. As long as you don't want to be embarrassed and don't have the same goals, when you stay away from them, what can they do with you?

Self-centered people are actually self-righteous, self-absorbed, and very selfish people. The people who can really become the center of people's minds are the people who are influential, attractive and appealing, infectious, and cohesive. Their prestige is based on their own qualities, abilities and charisma.

It is not directly related to gangs, gangs, pulling and pulling, eating and drinking, getting compliments from others, and the level of position. Self-centered people are only able to form a small center, which is also held up by some people.

Generally, people who are seriously self-centered have genetic factors in them, and it is difficult to change the other person, only to change the way they get along. When it comes to how you get along, it depends on your expectations. If Expectation tries to convince him, many times he will be disappointed.

If the expectation is that I just talk about my own thoughts, and whether I listen or not is your business, it is easy for me to feel relaxed if I have no desire for you. Super self-centered people should calmly reason with him, lay out the facts, and not use coercive law to force the other party to accept. Agree with each other first, and then talk about your own thoughts.

The definition of a self-centered person is broad and narrow, high-level, and low-level, and if this self-centered person has a lot of power over you, it can also be said to control your lifeblood (such as work, salary). You can't live well without him. This kind of person has to be compromised.

You have to respect him against your will. You have to make him see that you are his confidant in the center. You'll live a wonderful life.

In addition, other centers may or may not be hit. To be a human being, you have to stand up.

When they say how to do it for their friends, or when they see and hear the opinions of some so-called spiritual teachers that their friends are finally saved, you just have to silently give a thumbs up and smile. But most of them because of their own maverick behavior patterns, they are often autistic people, when interacting with them, do not poke in front of them or behind their backs to poke the "knowledge" he has learned from some success, otherwise they will think that you are stupid and do not agree with themselves, and finally end up friends. Of course, the premise of this is if you cherish the friendship with this person.

Such people are actually quite pitiful, if they show a love for things, they will become a desire to control, make others very unhappy, and even offend people. And if they don't behave, they will become indifferent, and they will also make others unhappy, thinking that they are cold and unforgiving. It can also be said to be "low emotional intelligence".

In terms of personality analysis, people like him are narrow-minded cynics who believe that their own standard is the only standard, and are unwilling to listen or admit that there is a second standard. They think that if the world is not according to its own standards, the world is wrong.

They think that they are the most perfect, that they are absolutely right, that they are the most powerful and smartest in the world, even if they are imperfect, and only by discovering the greater imperfections of others can they compare their perfect character.

They can't tolerate different opinions, thinking that others have to do what they think, otherwise the world will be really messed up. They even go so far as to take extreme measures to make the other party accept their views and practices, such as when you mention pretending to be innocent, just to cover up your own shortcomings.

They think they have a point, they have the absolute truth, but they also often let themselves get hurt, they try not to judge, they try to numb themselves with something that may help them drink and smoke.

Such people can't control their own behavior, they just have to babble all day long, find out the shortcomings of others, compare their own points, so as to gain a sense of superiority.

When you meet such a person, why should you bother with him, just stay away, if you don't come into contact, you won't be harmed.

In everything, we only think about ourselves, and do not consider others; As long as you are doing well and happy in your heart, nothing else matters; Expect others to respect you, but don't know how to respect others.

People who are very self-conscious, they are only willing to touch the things they like, and are unwilling to try and learn, which leads to a decline in their ability to work and live. Because they only stay in the areas they are familiar with and are happy with, and are unwilling to come into contact with people and environments that make them uncomfortable but conducive to development and progress, over time, they form a "strawberry personality" - they seem glamorous on the outside, but they are actually pale and fragile on the inside, and they lack self-regulation when they encounter setbacks and difficulties, and they will only avoid and be anxious.

Also, always putting oneself first, so that people who are too selfish cannot have real friends, and when they are in trouble, they lack people to come to help, which makes them more and more isolated. "Self-centeredness" is a kind of character defect, if you don't change it, you will run into walls everywhere, fall into pain, and even induce depression, anxiety and other mental illnesses.

If you are his friend, you can patiently persuade him, but after the problem comes out, explain to him the bad results that have come out, because you are doing this for the good of your own friends, if he is not your friend, just someone you know, then let it be, he is not very self-conscious, then you can keep a low profile and follow him, as for the last words, it will not damage any interests, there is no need to cause trouble, the current society, that's it, people don't kill for themselves!

Respect + worship, talk less and be silent more, dig more into his (her) heart, understand more and communicate more, what is needed most is time, just like engaging in a career, you have to take it slowly.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

There is a way to face any problem, it depends on the mentality.

Some people think that their death is worthwhile, and they do not hesitate to sacrifice their lives on the battlefield of the duel between friend and foe. He probably didn't think he'd be remembered. Perhaps the ideology in his head at that time was simply victory.

Some people think that if they enjoy it well, they can live their lives to the fullest. But in fact, when a person has more, the more depression he has, and the fear of losing what he has is also a kind of pain.

How to face it is a course for a person to grow and mature, and to hone and study. When you have nothing, when you are faced with something like the so-called ideology that is about to be lost, which is not substance at all, and is not the point, there will not be too much pain.

If you have another series of thoughts, and people understand them, then they will not die when they leave the world.

Then for the person who is going to die, he may be afraid and sad that he will be gone to nothing, but when he dies, no one knows, only the living will feel happy or sad for him.

Therefore, the landlord, as a living person, should not think too much about the pain of the dead.

Sooner or later, people will have to leave this world, think more about the joy of living, do more substantive things, and when they are dying, think of the meaningful things they have done in their lives, and perhaps they can make up for the ideological emptiness that they are about to lose.

Then you can continue to be decadent, just like me, drunk and dreaming in the game.

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Test 1: Extremely self-centered, his mind is completely possessed by self-consciousness, and he is so accustomed to taking himself as the center of attention, so that it is difficult for other people, things, and objects to arouse his interest and divert his attention.

Test 2: You are a person who is prone to jealousy. You are extremely reluctant to see someone close to you, or even inferior to you, doing better than you.

A considerable part of jealousy comes from a lack of self-confidence, which can also lead to a sensitive and depressed state of being always in a state of sensitivity.

Test 3: You have a desire to protect yourself adequately, but you are unwilling to hurt your friends, and you are torn between your own interests and those of your friends.

Test 4: You tend to put the common needs ahead of the individual and be disciplined. Duduplicity, you just reluctantly went with the flow, do you promise you won't regret your missed date in the future?

Comprehensive test: Your self is more mature, your sense of self-identity is deeper, and in real life, it is manifested as a desire to be recognized by others.