I broke up with my girlfriend on the first day of 2014, and I wanted to get her back

Break up decisively, it won't work out if it goes on like this. Even if you get married, you are doomed to divorce. Don't lose yourself, you need to be rational at this time.

What was the reason for your breakup? What's your relationship like now? Only by knowing your problems can you better analyze and solve them, from your description, you are because you have recovered after the breakup, but you are afraid of breaking up again, so you have been accommodating to each other and obeying each other.

This situation will occur because the problem of your previous breakup has not been resolved, and you have not changed, but only to redeem him for a while.

If you want to completely save the relationship, you need to change and improve yourself, attract the other person, and not keep the other person through other things. Learn to guide each other's investments.

It is difficult for a Qing official to judge family affairs, and the public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother says that the mother is reasonable. But for the sake of fate, I'm still serious about your question:

1. First of all, both sides of love are fair, and only when both parties are willing to pay for each other and think about each other is love. It's not love that comes to you, it's mercy. Lu Xun once said:

The poor man will have something to hate", even if he pities you now, and returns to you, what you will gain in the future is not love, but a lifetime of hatred.

2. Secondly, money is an indispensable prop in love, but always remember a saying "money can't buy love". There is also the fact that "problems that can be solved with money are not problems", and people who want to solve everything with money are very incompetent. You said that she broke up because you quarreled, so the question is, why did you quarrel?

Therefore, you should think carefully about whether you have done something wrong in emotional matters, find the reason, and sincerely apologize, which is the root of doing things.

3. Money is not the solution to the problem, and not all girls are money worshippers. Besides, you say that she will laugh when you give out red envelopes, and there are many meanings of laughter, are you sure she is very happy? If yes, leave her, and if not, why can't it be understood that she laughs at you for being incompetent?

Of course, crying can't solve the problem, unless you have Liu Bei's kung fu to cry. Crying in front of a woman will only make the other person think you are a sissy.

The more love hurts, the harder it is to believe. If you don't love, it doesn't matter if you break up. But if there is affection, let's forgive and tolerate each other.

Love, there is no one who does not quarrel, but the bottom line is not to break up. Because love is to stick together. Your girlfriend doesn't reply to messages in seconds and is not so clingy to you, which means that she doesn't love you anymore, you should be free and easy and be brave enough to let go!

If the emotional foundation is based on money, it must be unstable, so you have to understand whether she loves you or money, these details depend on the way you usually get along, girls will be realistic, and there is nothing wrong with it, but just look at money, forget it, there are more people who are richer than you.

This shows that she doesn't love you or has a better choice, and it is advisable to give up.

I guess you have a deep relationship, so it's very sad

Now that you've broken up, I think it's time for you to reflect on why you broke up at that time, and now it's been a week。Do you have a comprehensive grasp of the contradictions between you, have you reflected on your behavior, and what caused you to break up?

These problems must be solved before you want to get back together with her, because these seemingly small problems have actually accumulated for a long time, and they are like a time bomb placed there. If you don't drop this bomb, then every time you accidentally touch it, you two will definitely be ignited and injured.

I think people are generally very decisive when they break up, and your girlfriend is likely to be the kind of girl who dares to love and hate. There is another possibility, that is, she was so angry at the time, so she behaved very decisively, after all, people do a lot of irrational things when they are angry. Now that you want to redeem it, I think you should think through these issues.

If you encounter similar problems again, do you have a better solution? If the two of you are both this kind of more resolute people, and you like to talk harshly and break up when you are angry, then I don't think the two of you are actually suitable for being together. Now that you want to redeem it, then you should first find your own shortcomings.

If you can get rid of all these places, I don't think it's too late for you to get back together with a girlfriend. As long as the relationship is there, I think it is still possible to recover from the breakup even for a month or two.

Since two people will break up, there must be a reason, as a boy, if you want to get your girlfriend back, you should think about why two people broke up, only if you find the reason, you know how to solve the problem, so that there is a greater possibility to save your girlfriend.

In order to let your girlfriend dissipate her anger, no matter who is at fault, you must admit that it is your own mistake, say more good things to coax her, don't blame her, just say that it is all your own fault, so that the girlfriends who are angry can feel comfortable, so that they will consider reuniting.

If you want to redeem your breakup with your girlfriend, you must fully express your sincerity and make the other party feel that you are still valued. Then, naturally, it will accept the compound.

I broke up with my girlfriend, I don't think he should be redeemed, I am very resolute, what will be the good result after you redeem it?

Redemption is a systematic problem, first of all, you have to find the root cause of your breakup with your girlfriend, but if the girl is very resolute and has a tough attitude, it is recommended that you still respect her intentions.

Since she is very resolute, there is no need to redeem it, you know: there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

There is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.

Good horses don't eat back grass, so why bother. There is no grass at the end of the world. The three-legged toad doesn't, the two-legged man does. As long as you treat each other sincerely, love will be rewarded.

There is no best, only better, if you love, you will chase, if you don't love, you will give up, and the next stop will have a unique scenery.

Where is the grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower.