In the first month, my mother and father are going to meet my mother in law s house, but I don t wan

Just say the reason, there's nothing to help you.

Aren't all the reasons you wrote above?

You don't understand why your parents have to toss you and let you go to your mother-in-law's house with them, do you?

When you become a mom yourself, you'll know why.

When you become a mother-in-law, you will know why.

When you know everything, you find that you will never see again, the person you want to see ...

Sorry kid, talking to you too much.

It's better to go back, because this is the Spring Festival, and everyone is looking for a reunion atmosphere; But if you really don't want to go back, and you can take care of yourself, then you can still not go back.

The reason why mom and dad bring their children back to their hometown is nothing more than the family reunion, so that the younger generation can know the customs of the old teachers. You can bring your homework with you if you don't finish it, if you don't go back with your family, your parents won't feel at ease. Therefore, young people still need to learn to be considerate of others.

If you don't go back, don't go back, just make it clear to your parents. As long as you can take care of yourself.

Tell them what you think! If they insist on you going, you're pretending to be sick and catching a cold at home.

If you don't want to go back, you can make it clear to your parents.

Understand the mood of your parents and understand the feelings of your mother-in-law.

I still have to go, I want to respect the old and love the young, and it is not easy to reunite during the New Year, and the family will be lively together.

This mainly depends on your husband's intentions, if he agrees, let him do his mother's work by himself, if he does not agree, you do his work first.

However, the Chinese custom is to celebrate the New Year at the in-law's house, which is also caused by historical reasons, feudal society.

Marrying a daughter is basically a person from her mother-in-law's family, and she generally doesn't go back to her parents' house if she has nothing to do.

The New Year must also be spent at the in-law's house, so there is a saying that "the daughter who marries out spills the water". And many places also say that if their daughters celebrate the New Year at their parents' house, it will affect their parents' luck, so many people do not celebrate the New Year at their parents' house.

Now the society is not so particular, men and women pay equally for equal work, and men and women are equal, so it is a choice who to go to for the New Year. But for the sake of family harmony, it is better to negotiate.

<> I have this problem in my family. Mr. is more traditional, every year in the New Year's house, generally on the third day of the first month I will go back to my mother's house, this time my mother-in-law's family is unwilling, saying that with the child away, the family will be boring.

Usually I just discuss with my husband, as long as he speaks, then there will be no problems, and the in-laws will have nothing to say.

The main thing is that my family lives in a bungalow now, and it is indeed not as convenient as a building to go back to take a bath or something, but how is it also my home, even a bungalow, I also feel comfortable. My mother-in-law felt that it was cold to take the child back to the bungalow, don't freeze the child, I will say, didn't you also live in the bungalow before, didn't the child's father also live when he was a child, what's the problem? They just laughed.

Anyway, I'm going back to my parents' house, just talk to my husband. The in-laws were unwilling, so let the husband solve it.

I think they are all only children now, and if the Spring Festival can only be won by the in-laws' parents' family, they should take turns. You said that your mother-in-law was unwilling to let you take the child back to her parents' house for the New Year, but she didn't say why, so she couldn't say a specific solution. I can only say that do your husband's job first, and if your husband is willing to go to your parents' house with you for the New Year, then let your husband communicate with your mother-in-law.

You can communicate with your husband, and if they don't let you go back, you can choose to go back to your parents' house by yourself, because after all, your parents are very important to us.

Such a mother-in-law is too domineering, you are married to your husband, not to your mother-in-law, and you don't need to discuss with your mother-in-law when you go back to your parents' house.

In this case, you can communicate with your mother-in-law first to see why your mother-in-law doesn't want you to go home for New Year's greetings.

If your mother-in-law's family is busy for the Chinese New Year and wants you to stay and help, then you can truthfully explain the situation to your parents, and your parents will understand you.

In addition, you can express your thoughts to your mother-in-law, after all, the Chinese New Year is a day for the whole family to reunite, and your parents must want you to come home to see it.

In fact, at this time, you should coax your mother-in-law, say more nice things, and ask your husband to help you maneuver it, I think there should be a solution.

Don't let you go back to your parents' house to pay New Year's greetings, you have to understand your mother-in-law first, why she did this, and the explanation to your parents is actually very simple, you can just say some reasons.

You can say that because you don't have a car, and now your husband is very busy for the New Year, so there is no way to go back to her parents' house this year, and find a time to go back after the New Year.

And you said that this year because you have a treat here, you may not be able to get out of time, and you are also very busy at work, so you can't take leave for a few days, and you really can't go back.

There are many reasons to say, but this relationship with your mother-in-law is actually to be understood, and it is not right to not let you go home for New Year's greetings.

You can tell your parents that this is the local custom of your mother-in-law's family, don't hurt your parents' hearts because of this little thing, and don't let your parents have any psychological burden.

You can tell your parents that your mother-in-law is feeling a little uncomfortable, and she won't be going home for the New Year this year, and she wants to stay and take care of her, so as to get her parents' forgiveness.

You can directly tell your parents that it is the reason for your mother-in-law, so that you can't go back to your parents' house to pay New Year's greetings, and I believe that your parents will understand you.

Tell your parents directly about your mother-in-law's request, let your parents not worry about yourself, apologize to your parents, and agree to go back next time.

Ask your mother-in-law to explain to your parents why your daughter is not allowed to go home for the holidays when she gets married? Every New Year's festival according to the rules have to go back to their parents' house to give gifts, and the New Year is not allowed to go back according to the number of gifts? If you want me to ignore it at all, I should go home for the New Year and go home for the New Year, and I won't go back to my mother-in-law's house for the New Year.

Who is not born by my parents, I have to cut off contact with my parents when I get married, I might as well not get married! I can't go home and go back, my parents have something to do, what can the family expect?

I think I should explain to my parents that I will celebrate the New Year at my mother-in-law's house this year, and if we have discussed it, I will see you next year, so it is more passable.

What to explain? If you don't go back, you won't go back, have you ever listened to your own parents so much! I can listen to what is right, and I will not agree to what is wrong. I don't usually have a chance to go back, and I don't go back for the holidays, and you should explain that your mother-in-law is not your parents.

Tell me truthfully, instead of finding other reasons to prevaricate, it is better to say the reason directly, don't make family conflicts about this, they will let you in the New Year in the future, your open-mindedness and generosity, your mother-in-law will like it.

Then go to your mother-in-law's house for the New Year, and when you get to your mother-in-law's house, you will find that your mother-in-law is good, and then you will like your mother-in-law's house, so you should try to go to your mother-in-law's house for the New Year.

Then you should discuss with your husband, and if you can't go to ** for the New Year, go back to your mother-in-law's house.

I think that since you are married, you should go to your mother-in-law's house for the New Year. After all, the Chinese New Year is only one day, even if you don't want to be perfunctory, it will pass, so that everyone is happy.

Mom is for your good, in order to integrate into your mother-in-law's family, you should still celebrate the New Year with your mother-in-law, this is the most correct.

Alas, since ancient times, the Chinese tradition is to do this, don't blame yourself too much, and don't blame your mother-in-law too much for staring at Hu Yin.

But she's too stubborn, she can't go back for the New Year, why can't she go back in the second year of junior high school?

The essence is that I want you to have a baby.

But this mother-in-law really has no quality.

Hello, the landlord!

First of all, I wish you a Happy New Year

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be blind to the Mai Mangyan in everything, give each other more opportunities to speak, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Take responsibility, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. A point of communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the contradictions.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

Hope it helps,