I want to break free from the lifestyle I want to be in!

Hello, you just think that your current life is too comfortable, you want to do something that you think is not so monotonous life, in fact, what to do, there are times when you don't want to do it, many people think that if you do something for a long time, it will be boring, but if you think about it again, if your business is a meaningful thing, then would you still want to change it so much, of course, this is not for a certain person, and if you really want to change, it is recommended that you do civil design or architecture...

Actually, you are a typical "young". Thinking too much! Too little to do! Not realistic enough! I'm from here. I had the same depression as you did! After so many years, I found out that reality is cruel!

Your work has the opportunity to work in the field, I think you should buy a good camera, shoot wild scarce plants and traditional Chinese medicine**, posted on the Chinese plant library, others can be charged when they are adopted! At the same time, traditional Chinese medicine is collected and Chinese medicine is studied to treat diseases.

Although this kind of life is very simple, it is still a matter of your mentality, adjust your mentality. A happy day is also a day, so why not be positive.

I don't know if it's better to be melancholy or pleasant for a few to feel weird together, I don't like this feeling, life is not what I want I want I want to change I want to break free until you find a way of life and I like you I like you.

Life is painful and happy, the ups and downs Taste all the flavors, cherish friendship, love, cherish every day of life, let go of the mood and be cheerful.

In fact, in today's society, it is actually difficult to find your own suitable way of life, life forces you to do something you don't like, if you leave Hangzhou, go to other places, try to find the way you want, in fact, it is really unrealistic and difficult. Nowadays, there is fierce competition in society, and there are both open and dark wars. Instead of complaining about being unhappy, it's up to you to adapt to this life yourself.

Hangzhou is a big city, the development is definitely better, if you want to make a difference, then you have to change yourself, force yourself to adapt, move forward. What you say about nostalgia for the past, I personally think it is a state of escape, in the big city you may feel a sense of oppression, in the study career has not made a big improvement, so you start to escape, nostalgia for the past is just an excuse, life is not suitable is also an excuse. People always have to look forward, grasp the law of the big city, make progress slowly, don't blindly complain or escape, want to live well, want life to adapt to you, then now you have to adapt to life, adapt to competition, the same life in the big city, I have also escaped, but I did not retreat, people always have to move forward, can not do a career to give themselves an explanation.

The lifestyle is not what you like. Then you have to try to get used to it. Try to enjoy.

It may be painful at first, but I've always believed that time can make habits. But don't be numbed. You have to learn to find joy in a new environment.

Find a sense of belonging. Your uncompromising personality is one of the most important factors in success. Your uncompromising character also makes you regret it if you leave Hangzhou like this.

I hope you can make a difference in Hangzhou. Be strong. Don't compromise too easily.

Depending on the direction you want to change, we often feel trapped in a cage, unable to break free, there is responsibility, there are emotions, once you break free, you will lose more than you gain, what is the most precious in the world, we will think that it is lost and what cannot be gained, but we do not know to cherish what we have now, that is the most precious.

I am 28 years old this year, I am a teacher in a township middle school, I am a formal teacher, my monthly salary is only a little more than 1,000, I have no friends in my life, I am alone when I go shopping, and occasionally let my mother accompany me, because it is really uncomfortable to be alone, my boyfriend separated three months ago, and my family has been helping me inquire during this time, but there has never been a suitable one.

I feel that life is a mess, I am very poor financially, and the salary of about 1,000 is said to be high for teachers, but we are still very low, and I haven't gone shopping for a long time because the money is really not enough.

From Monday to Friday, I was bored in the small school in this township, and I went home to watch TV on the weekends, but I really didn't have any friends, and there were almost no young people in the school, and I didn't have any friends to play.

The sustenance of the soul is even more difficult, our small city is not big, and my relatives are not few, but I can't introduce the right people when I am busy.

I really wanted to quit this job and look for a job in a private school outside, I spent two years in a private school before I was admitted to the official teacher, there are many young people in private schools, whether it is friendship, especially love, the opportunity to choose is still greater.

To be honest, what I'm most worried about now is love, I feel that I can't afford to delay in this small city, but my options are too small, I want to quit my job and go to a private school, at least have more choices. Even if you can't find the right person for the time being, at least you are financially well-off and have friends.

But now I have nothing, and depressed!

Give me some advice!

It is an undeniable fact that "money" is indispensable for the change of "people's" lives. The purpose of reform and opening up is to fill the pockets of the common people (rich life). It is the last word that an ordinary person can only "work diligently and create wealth."

It is better to start a small "shop" by yourself than to work for others. It is important to start with "small profits", remember 1; The cost is high, and the risk is also high (venture capital is not risky). 2；Don't underestimate "the child is not big, the navel is big" (the store is small and profitable for many years).

3；The aroma of the wine is strong (small profit to protect the root). Therefore, people who are poor must have a short ambition, and in order to support poverty, we must have a good policy opportunity and pay the price to change the quality of life to some extent. If you have money, you will make a profit, and if you have no money and no education or no skills, you only have a part-time job for a lifetime (grievance), this is the reality.

People can't "slap their faces and become fat" when they are alive (opening a store to do business, they can't pay the rent, and they sing in front of their acquaintances, and lose it). Lao Tzu said well, "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step" (in the previous life, there was no inheritance, so you had to rely on yourself to walk the streets and alleys to sell tofu, a seed, a steel hammer to accumulate to be the right way), and you want to make a fortune in the evil way of the side door (in the end, the money is gone, and you go to prison and become a hairless bare rat).

A simple method is formed through many practical actions, and in the process, new habits are established. At least it seems to me that maybe it's just a small step, but it's done repeatedly.

The premise of changing my life, I think, is to change myself.

Only by changing yourself will you change a lot of habits and will you succeed.

Of course, there are those who insist on their own success! Be sure to stay the course.

Changing your life starts with me, you change your minds, you use your thoughts and actions to reflect the people around you, change the familiar environment around you, and life will naturally be different.

Whether life is good or bad depends mainly on your attitude towards life, if you face life with a happy mood every day, then life is warm, otherwise, it can be imagined, so, you have to change the state of life, first of all, you must regulate your mood, learn to give up, give up troubles, sadness and unhappiness, then your life will be better.

The two should communicate more, know each other's thoughts in time, and travel at the appropriate time.

I think the most important thing is to have a mentality when encountering any problem, or to adjust the mentality and accept the reality.

Work hard to earn money.

Surround yourself with positive friends.

Changing your life first requires changing yourself

How can I change the status quo of my home?

Hu Bingyan has a Bao Gong in Zhu Baoshan District, who has been working in the construction industry for many years and has not saved money, and his children are not obedient, he was born in 1966.

In 2006, I [Hu Bingyan] went to his house to see feng shui, four main rooms, there are east and west matching rooms, there are also matching rooms in the south, a very good courtyard, the bedroom is in the east, the child was born in 1992, the bedroom is in the northeast. The original bathroom was in the southwest and the kitchen was in the southeast.

I told him that if you want to be talented, then you should change the kitchen to a thatched house, the thatched house to a kitchen, the southeast door to the southwest door, the master's bedroom to the northwest, and the child's bedroom to the west. Build for a certain amount of time.

He was very serious about correcting it on time, and as a result, his son was admitted to university, and he was worth more than seven or eight million by 2013.

Yang Zhai can "change the destiny of heaven and win divine power".

It depends on what kind of life you want to live, and you have to be self-disciplined.

He waits for him, you can still talk according to the way you want to live, because that's his wishful thinking, and you don't have to force yourself. As long as you stick to your point of view, his patience will become weaker and weaker as time goes by.

It depends on whether you like him or not, and if you don't, it's best to stay away from him, otherwise something bad may happen to both parties. In the end, emotional matters can only depend on oneself.

It depends on what you think, and if you don't want to talk, just tell him to start as a friend.

Attract ≠ likes, likes, ≠ love.

If a girl falls in love with a man, if you want to attract this man, you must know this thing: if you attract a man, it does not mean that he likes you, he falls in love with you, and the result of attraction is that he does not hate you, is curious about you, he is interested in you, at this time, it is not compatible with liking and love.

Either cut off the relationship with him completely, or you can only consume it like you are now.