For your current boyfriend, how do you tell about a relationship you have had once before?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Destroy everything related to the past, don't be truthful when he asks you, men will be taboo in this regard.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Truth be told, he wouldn't mind if he loved you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since the first kiss has been offered, then get married, it's so serious! Hehe!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Emotional matters depend on fate, and the current boyfriend should try to understate what he asks.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's up to him. Don't tell him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Although it is a relatively embarrassing thing to talk about your previous relationship with your new partner, I personally think that in the process of dating, if your other half asks me about this aspect, it is more correct to confess my love history to the other party, and the reason why I say this is mainly based on the following factors.

    First of all, one of the most important prerequisites for couples to be together is mutual trust and mutual respect between each other, if you hide your love history from your other half, then it is obvious that there is a lack of respect and trust for each other, which will only make the other party have a very bad impression of themselves, and may even lead to the interruption of the relationship between two people, so in the process of dating, we should still be sincere enough, since the other party asked this question, You should be honest and clear to the other party, of course, the other party did not ask yourself this question, and there is no need to deliberately say it to the other party, so as not to make the other party feel that he still misses his former lover.

    On the other hand, in the process of dating, confessing his love history to the other party is also showing his attitude to a certain extent, indicating that he has completely let go of himself for the relationship he once had, and this is also to give the other party a reassurance, so that the other party can really trust himself in his heart, and more importantly, it is also a foreshadowing for the two people to get along in the future and avoid conflicts in the process of communication. The other party can ask about their previous love history, and it can also show that the other party cares about themselves very much, which is also a good thing for themselves.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Have a bottom-line thinking, and the same is true between boyfriends and girlfriends. In the relationship between the two people, they slowly explore the bottom-line principle issues between the two people, and if they do not touch the principle issues, they can forgive the other party within the scope of reasonable explanations or necessary remedial measures.

    When boyfriends and girlfriends get along with each other, due to the lack of harmony between the two parties or too much to show their perfection in the early stage, or too much to hide their shortcomings in front of each other, it is easy to lead to the exposure of many problems, and look at the exposed problems dialectically. If the problem can be solved before marriage, it is conducive to the stable development of the marital relationship, and if the problem cannot be solved before marriage, the problem exposed is to remind yourself to avoid hurting yourself again and to end the relationship.

    It is not recommended to criticize each other too harshly for relationship history reasons between boyfriends and girlfriends, and it is reasonable to give both parties a certain amount of private space, but the final way to deal with it is to return to the bottom-line thinking of the relationship between the two parties, which can be forgiven and which cannot be forgiven.

    I wish the relationship between the two parties to be handled reasonably.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Who doesn't have a few exes, in this society, men and women have never been in love, there should be only a handful, of course, he cheated on you is not right, you should point this out to him, but you don't mind his ex, the reason why he didn't tell you, may also be afraid that you will be too careful, as long as he talks to you wholeheartedly to you, and then when he is with you, he does not entangle with his ex, this is enough.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Although there is no need to talk about the past of anyone, but it is not right not to talk about him.

    Because he lied to you, and deceiving people is not what you should be.

    Who knows if he has something else to lie to you?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think this matter, don't get entangled in it, don't mention it in the future, the past is gone, it's not interesting to turn over old accounts, no one will like it, think about it from your perspective, if your boyfriend stares at your past, will you be happy? Look at the moment, how he is doing to you, and whether he is still having an affair with his ex-girlfriend, if not, then it's your fault.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe he really loves you, but he should never lie and let him know the consequences of lying again.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Check it out to see how he is in contact with his ex. If you have one, ask him about it, and don't be too impulsive. If not, get along with him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    [Is your discovery true?] Can you tell the real from the fake? The words that come out of the mouths of others have already been copied through the mouths of several people in the form of false rumors???

    Are you sure that all you hear is true??? Your discovery, perhaps, was just a dumb mine that had been planted in advance, but it blew you all over the body. Look, you love him so much, why do you want to dwell on his past mistakes??

    If he hadn't met those two stupid women, how would he have understood how good you are now.!! A wise woman looks to the future and the present. Is he what you want now?!

    The future is entirely up to you! [Guidance, is to put yourself in his shoes to tell him what you think in your heart, know it with reason, move with emotion. Guidance, when life is under involuntary control, when there is a deviation, you do not complain, but calmly kneel in front of him on one leg, just like facing the naughty child in the kindergarten class, and use the most gentle words in the world with him, explain your bottom line, and your values, and let him cooperate with you through this section of the "detour" you think] In this world, no one owes you anything!

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