After entering junior high school, I became more and more inferior

I don't know exactly what the so-called ** thing is, but judging from your other descriptions, the problem is that your current image in the class has been damaged, and you still care more about other people's opinions. I think you should start by slowly improving your image in the class, and try to "not be happy with things and not sad for yourself" (hehe, this is also easier said than done, as a kind of exercise). I hope you will stay positive in your future study and life, I think you will slowly change the image in the minds of your classmates, of course, you will encounter a lot of ridicule and misunderstanding at the beginning, don't care, stick to your original intention, you will always be the best version of yourself.

Don't be a megomer, live separately, don't interfere with each other, don't think about inferiority, you should think that you are lucky. Are you not disabled? No chunks of black ba?

Not as black as coal? Not an orphan? Can you go to school?

No cancer? No disease? You should be lucky, it's good that you're healthy, and it's good that you're all healthy.

That's it! Why bother.

When you enter junior high school and adolescence, you will have a lot of depression and will care a lot about what others think of you, which is normal, and you don't need to care about the topic of beauty and ugliness at all. You have to play to your strengths and avoid weaknesses, look at your own strengths, and work hard to get your grades, so that teachers will like you, classmates will admire you, and there will be many people who are willing to be friends with you...

When you are laughed at, you should see clearly how they laugh, you imitate it, maybe you will understand.

The teacher doesn't dare to hurt your eyes, so let him hurt it. You should be able to afford to hurt because you can still express your feelings.

Don't forget what you're coming to school for. A lot of people have forgotten, and so have you.

You are destined to have a changeable personality.

Thinking about opening a little buddy is not a big deal.

All the suffering and pain is to help people grow, don't be afraid, it's okay, I know it's going to be hard.

Hello subject, I'm Xiao Jiu

I myself had such a period of low self-esteem in middle school, because I was not beautiful enough, my grades were not good enough, I did not have my own small circle, and my family was not rich enough, so I had nothing to show off to others.

The subject said that the clothes he wore were earthy, and he felt that the clothes worn by others were fashionable and beautiful, and he felt inferior at the same time with envy. I feel expensive to buy pants, and I am afraid of wasting my parents' money.

I wonder, isn't the subject's family too wealthy? I envy the glamour of others, but if I buy it, I will fall into self-blame.

Why do you think your clothes are so bright? Adolescent children are young and beautiful when they only wear the simplest T-shirts and jeans

Is it the confidence and happiness on the faces of those students who wear beautiful clothes that the subject is more envious of?

The subject also mentioned that his bag was ridiculed, so he didn't use that bag, but he actually liked it very much.

There are so many people in the world, there are always people who don't like what we like, and that's okay

I'm sure your bag must be beautiful.

The subject also said that he was not social, did not want to walk with others, and only sat in his seat after class.

What is the reason why the subject does not make friends? Don't want to make friends? Don't have a common language? Afraid of delaying your studies?

I was also a misfit in middle school, and I was a little envious when I saw that everyone else had their own little circle. But slowly, now I know that true friendship doesn't require you to work hard to become gregarious, and you will gradually come together because of the same hobbies and similar views.

The subject mentioned that his grades were only in the top ten, not the first, and he also felt inferior.

The top 10 is already great, I didn't even make it to the top 10 in middle school

The subject is really super It's normal for Jian Song to feel inferior because of her dress and interpersonal relationship, after all, we all want to be beautiful and want to be surrounded by people. If you don't have these things, you're not a failure

Dressed outwardly, relationships are often the point where we feel inferior, but it doesn't mean that we fail.

Maybe someone is laughing at you, but that's okay Your grades won't fall behind because of their ridicule, and your bag won't look bad because of their ridicule, and their ridicule only shows that they haven't learned to respect others.

Hug the subject again, you're a great person

Summary. Hello, there will be a certain amount of psychological pressure. First of all, you have to find the reason for the regression in learning, if it is because of the regression in learning due to not studying seriously at a certain stage, then you can work hard to catch up.

If the knowledge becomes difficult and the learning cannot keep up, then you should treat it calmly and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

Junior high school students have low self-esteem due to regression in their studies, and if they change schools to go to the top class, will they feel pressured?

Change a host friend to the school, go to the reading is not very conscious, often love to play with mobile phones, tell you to talk about not wanting to sleep at night and don't want to get up in the morning, the child is the deputy subject is poor, the main subject is OK, now I will go to the second year of junior high school, change a school to the top class, can I keep up with the work? Is there any mental pressure?

Hello, there will be a certain amount of psychological pressure. First of all, you have to find the reason for the regression in learning, if it is because of the regression in learning caused by not studying seriously at a certain stage, then you can work hard to catch up. If the knowledge has become difficult and the learning can't keep up, then you should treat it calmly and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

The boarding school is relatively strict, the learning atmosphere is better than at home, all students study together in the evening, the learning effect will be better, but it will also be more tiring. If you are afraid of psychological pressure, you can go to the ordinary class, there is no need to go to the top class socks to touch the book, and put too much pressure on yourself.

The child's grades in primary school were very good, and the primary school teachers were also very concerned about her; But after changing her sail to the first year of junior high school, because the teacher was very cold to her, and a classmate often bullied her, she was reluctant to go to the original school.

It may be that the knowledge of junior high school is deeper than that of elementary school, and it is not enough to work hard and be simple, but also to have the talent to learn. I think it's okay to transfer to a boarding school regular class, but going to a top class will be very stressful.

Find the reason for your low self-esteem first:

1. Self-reasons:

Fat — then** (must not take **medicine or dieting, it is recommended to exercise, not only to exercise, so that you have better energy to study, but also by the way**, so that after losing weight, your whole person is spiritual, and exercise will secrete dopamine, which is a hormone that can make people feel happy), once people are happy, they rarely feel inferior!

2. Family reasons:

Poor: I have seen many children with low self-esteem because of the poor economic conditions of their families, but it is not necessary at all.

First of all, don't compare (although I know it's difficult), if you really want to compare, then send you a sentence "less than the top, more than the bottom", there are always worse and poorer than you, so think about it, it will be much better.

Second, read more books.

One is that it will help to improve your academic performance, and your improved grades will bring a lot of attention and opportunities.

The second is that "there is poetry and books in your belly", when you read books, your spiritual world will be enriched, and you will not have so much time to think about it.

In fact, one thing can clearly tell you, most people have low self-esteem, but some people show overconfidence, and some people? It shows that I have low self-esteem. Because you are a person who understands yourself, what strengths and weaknesses you have, in fact, you know best in your heart.

What you see in other people is the advantage that you want to see after optimization. In fact, if you think about it carefully, people who have about advantages will definitely have shortcomings, and the sunny side will inevitably have the dark side, and first of all, it is normal to affirm that low self-esteem is very normal.

Again, it's about finding ways to be confident and thinking about what you are. For example, getting up and eating on time can manage your life well, which can improve your self-confidence, don't take it for granted because things are small, you can do a good job has surpassed many people.

I can only adjust my mentality slowly.

There are two main possibilities for you to sleep in class: 1. You have no interest in the subject you are studying. 2. Can't learn the law, the learning efficiency is low, and the result is often half the effort, resulting in physical and mental overdraft but little progress.

I feel that the change method is to start by changing the way you learn, so that your grades can be improved, so as to enhance your self-confidence in learning, and generate the joy of learning weak subjects, then your future road will be easier.

Thinking about helping you doesn't do it in a few words, so I suggest:

1. Be friends with you, it's the kind of pure friend that communicates with the heart, not the kind of friend that people want to get into.

I am an online tutor who has always paid for tutoring, so I can say that helping junior high school students improve their Chinese and math scores is my strength. I was also a poor child in the countryside, and your words made me feel empathy and compassion, so I would like to lend a helping hand to you and solve your learning confusion.

2. "Know" the rules are restricted, and you can't send you a QQ number, you just need to search on the Internet: online composition tutoring, and find Teacher Yang Fengjun, that's me. Then you'll be able to find a way to contact me. Hope it helps you get out of this predicament.

Brothers. Let me tell you first. I'm a recent college graduate...I'm here to answer your questions. This is my own opinion.

Now for your rebellious period. Your parents put too much pressure on you.

But what I tell you, your teachers, your parents, tell you to study hard is all fart. Why?

Now is the time for you to have fun. This is a fond memory of your childhood or youth, and it should be taken over by the rain.

What are grades? If 100 points can be exchanged for 100 yuan, you will study hard. But I'm telling you that 100 points don't count as a fart, and the last one is empty.

Now your state is to change your school 0...Don't think too much about it. You take the words of your parents and teachers like.

I'm talking about playing, not every night, not KTV, not drinking and gambling.

Rather, it is a tourist, a walk, a song, a book. Purify your heart.

Middle school, high school, what you do now is to have fun learning and playing.

In addition brother I tell you really hard.

The real hard part is not junior high school, not high school, but college.

College is the stage of a person's struggle, and it is the day of suffering. Why?

Because no one in the university cares. After graduating, a lot of people don't know anything but playing with their phones.

So now you're going to have fun and have fun because.

In the years of college, you have to push yourself, study more, no one cares, but you can't waste it.

So your current state of mind is superfluous.

Let go first you can add my friend.

I enlighten you. Even if you learn well now, you will forget it years later.

These are not skills. Have fun.

Math is your forte, so keep it up. If you're a liberal arts student, read more. If you have something on your mind, it would be better to communicate with your classmates more.

There is a saying, I think it's good: you are not worse than others, but you lack the perseverance to persevere. Don't think you're worse than others, believe you're the best, encourage yourself and build confidence, and use less online.

The methods of elementary school cannot be used in junior high school, the methods of junior high school cannot be used in high school, the methods of high school cannot be used in universities, and the methods of universities cannot be used in master's and doctoral degrees.

The method needs to be constantly adjusted, the first grade is a period of adjustment, but where the transformation psychology needs to be adjusted is also the most tangled, seize the time to adjust the method, the second year of junior high school and the second year of high school are more critical periods, the key is physical chemistry.

How many rich people can there be, and how rich they can be, it's just a little better.

My cousin's family can't even afford a computer, in fact, it's nothing, I buy wind oil when I sleep in class, secretly press my thighs, and force myself to wake up, you are not the last, medium is much better than the countdown, come on. If you have something on your mind, go to the post bar and post a post to vent it.,Remember to use a pseudonym.。 Anyway, you and I really have similar personalities, so you have to have faith in that.

Believe in yourself and persevere.

1. Look at yourself comprehensively and dialectically, and correctly understand and evaluate yourself. We must not only see our own shortcomings truthfully, but also see our strengths appropriately, and we must not fail to see our own shortcomings and excellences because of some of our inferiorities. 2. Learn to attribute correctly Don't think that you can't do it because of a failure.

As everyone knows, the reasons for this failure are likely to be multifaceted, not necessarily due to lack of ability. 3. Improve self-confidence Before you do something, you should first have the courage and firmly believe that you can do a good job. However, in practice, consideration should be given to the difficulties that may be encountered.

In this way, even if you fail, you will not cause psychological ups and downs due to psychological preparation in advance, resulting in psychological disorders. 4. Experience success Inspire self-confidence by recalling what you have succeeded with your own efforts, or reasonably imagining the success you will achieve. 5. Use positive self-suggestion When you feel low on confidence in certain situations, you may wish to use verbal cues:

If others can do it, I can do it too. "If others can succeed, I can succeed too." This gives you the confidence to make a difference.

6. Establish new excitement When you're at a disadvantage or facing your weaknesses, you can distract yourself by intentionally shifting the subject or doing something else instead. For example, you can shift your attention to the activities that interest you and can best reflect your talents, so as to dilute and reduce the psychological inferiority shadow caused by weaknesses, and relieve stress and tension. 7. Correctly compensate yourself In order to overcome the inferiority complex, we can compensate in two ways:

The first is to make up for clumsiness. Know where you are flawed, do not carry the burden of thought, and overcome these flaws with the greatest determination and tenacious perseverance. The second is to develop strengths and avoid weaknesses.

Socrates, for example, was not good-looking, so he worked his thoughts, and finally shined in the field of philosophy. In daily life, we should pay attention to self-regulation, "lose the east, reap the mulberry", develop our strengths and avoid weaknesses, and overcome inferiority. 8. Pay attention to self-motivation People with low self-esteem are generally more sensitive and fragile and cannot withstand the blows of setbacks.

Therefore, it should be noted that we should be good at self-satisfaction and contentment. When it comes to learning, don't set your goals too high. The right goals can make you successful, which is the best motivation for yourself and helps to improve your self-confidence.

After that, you can adjust the goal appropriately and strive for the second and third successes. In the motivation of continuous success, constantly enhance self-confidence. 9. Choose the right frame of reference When comparing with others, in order to avoid the occurrence of inferiority complex, we should choose people and things that are similar to ourselves in all aspects.

Otherwise, there is too much difference with yourself, or you will inevitably feel inferiority complex if you compare your weaknesses with the strengths of others. When comparing with people, we should pay attention to "comparability" - choose an appropriate frame of reference, otherwise there is only "people are more angry than people".