What should we do if we truly love each other in a different place?

Updated on society 2024-04-09
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should think carefully about the feelings between you, both parties should be equal. It's not that you pay more and he pays less, it's just that it's useless for you to work hard. Parental disapproval is not the biggest obstacle, if he wants to really love you and is really determined to be with you, then he should go and break through his parents' obstacles instead of using this reason to prevaricate you.

    So, you also have to look at the facts clearly and see if there is a need to continue. If not, it's better to break up early, the long pain is better than the short pain, cut the mess quickly, the boy can still find a partner when he is older, but as a girl, the age is getting older, and the object is not easy to find. You have to think about it!

    There are many good men!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe, the main thing is that you love each other, and I don't think there's anything to worry about.

    My boyfriend and I were also in a different place before, three years in a different place, but we got through it, and now we are together, which is very good.

    So don't think too much about it, you can talk to him about it.

    Two people in a different place need to trust each other and tolerate each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Why didn't he want to wait, did he have a more suitable candidate in his family.

    Why doesn't he cherish you and don't care about you?

    He should be waiting for you.

    Isn't that all the problems solved?

    Does his family mean that you will be on his own?

    Does he mean that you will settle for him?

    Is he much better than you? Why can't he just talk to you?

    Now the crux of the matter is his attitude.

    As long as his will is strong, your good marriage will be completed.

    If you can't, you'll have to sacrifice your work.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love each other, distance is not an issue. And now that the transportation is so developed, it's very convenient to go back.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, the geographical distance in modern society does not have much of a problem, the real is feelings, "the sea is a confidant, the end of the world is next to each other", my wife and I are separated by 2000 miles, married for ten years, there is no problem, so the real determining factor is feelings,

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Finding a way to live together is your first problem.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Go ahead and wish you all happiness.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are results, and in such a relationship, what is more important is the feeling between two people, as well as the maintenance between two people and the dedication of two people in this relationship.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course, there will be results, as long as you trust each other, give each other more tolerance, as long as you persevere, there will be good results.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you love each other very much, then there will be results, and if you don't love each other at all, there will be no results.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. Since you haven't met yet, it is definitely inappropriate to get married as soon as you meet, marriage needs to be cautious, and both parties need to understand each other for a period of time before they can talk about marriage.

    2. You are in a different place, but you still love each other, you love each other, and you have the idea of wanting to get married, if he is the same as you, then the probability of you getting married will be about 50 If any of you has changed his mind, then the probability will be reduced.

    3. Online dating is different from long-distance relationships, long-distance relationships are unreliable, online dating is even more unreliable, only when you are together can you have feelings, what you chat about is not love, but you are usually unhappy or happy is a kind of confiding and dependent object, but that is not love, love is to be together.

    4. It's very tiring in a different place, and it may cause you to quarrel or even break up because of a text message that is not answered in time, a ** that does not come and answer, or anything else. Online dating is even more unreliable, you don't know the person himself, let alone his work, family and life.

    5. If you have been in a long-distance relationship, don't get married. Unless your boyfriend is willing to give up some of the things you have now for you, come to your city, and concentrate on living with you, I believe that such a man is worthy of your life.

    6. Set a deadline for a long-distance relationship. Since your current situation is an element of both long-distance and online dating, it shows that your relationship is developing. It may not have happened in real life at first, it may have been a mutual acquaintance established on the Internet.

    Then for this kind of long-distance relationship, you must determine a mutual deadline for both parties.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Distance is the test of true love, and time is the answer.

    For the sake of the person you love, please make some sacrifices and keep your love, otherwise how can you talk about true love.

    You can forget your previous vows, but remember your true heart.

    Ask yourself, do you love so much?

    Are you willing to hurt both?

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

    Life is not a good life for one person.

    It's how two people live well together.

    But for some objective reasons, in reality, you can't be together at the moment, are you just giving up so easily, and you are compromised?

    Can't you keep it for love?

    Do you allow yourself to be so short-sighted and only see the happiness in front of you?

    Is this the end of my life?

    If it's true love, never give up!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you love each other, try to be together, face and solve it together no matter what happens, trust each other, care about each other, and don't be indifferent to feelings because of distance! If you feel that there is no future, discuss with each other whether to let go of each other and make each other happy, or work hard for each other! To believe that all difficulties are not difficulties for people who love each other, and it is necessary to sacrifice a little for each other appropriately, as long as it does not violate the principle issue!

    I hope you are happy

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The reasons you gave yourself are very good and good, and all I can do is strengthen your faith.

    Long-distance relationships can certainly be successful. But men generally don't think so. They will say that there is no future, and they are afraid that they will delay the good years of the girls. You don't have to pay much attention to what they say, if he loves you, then give him the confidence to go on bravely.

    PS: My boyfriend and I are also in a long-distance relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    So I think the success of a long-distance relationship is the reason why two people don't love each other enough. That's right, but as the saying goes, time can wear everything away. Including love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm an impatient person, my previous boyfriend was also in a long-distance relationship after 2 years, I can't see the future, my parents don't allow me to go to his city, and he can't give me a clear answer about whether to come over, I can bear it at first, I can wait, but then I am impatient, I can't see the result, I just threw a sentence, whether you come or not, don't delay me to marry if you don't come, and then divide it.

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