After the winter vacation, what should I do if I suddenly don t want to go to school?

First of all, it's a good thing to love home, but you can't love home, home is your harbor, but your ship always has to go to sea, and secondly, the school is strictly for your good, so that you can study hard. Everyone understands the truth, even if you see his strictness, you still can't help complaining. But think about it, if you are admitted to a poor school, and the management is very loose, you will not regret it when you have fun and the college entrance examination.

Since you have the ability to be admitted to a better high school in a district, it means that you are not bad. You have to believe in your own ability, be confident, and be admitted to a good university to repay the society and your parents. At that time, your homesickness will bring endless joy to the family, instead of you staying at home (loving home) to make your parents distressed, and you also know that you don't want to go to school, which means that you are still self-motivated, so don't give up running forward for the sake of being only at the upper middle level, as long as you work hard, how can a good ranking be unattainable.

When the teacher says you, I think you know that he is doing it for your good, and at the same time, you should also avoid making fewer mistakes, so that the teacher can only praise you. I believe that in the future, you will definitely regain your grip and master your own weather vane.

You should feel relieved, because the teacher still cares about you, so, don't think too much, try to focus on studying, occasionally read English aloud, be sure to work hard, because the gap between a good university and a bad university is very big, give yourself a good future and work hard!

When you leave school and enter the society for a while, you will find out how much you love campus life! Cherish what we have now so that our future can be meaningful! When you're upset, just give yourself a reason to stick to it!

Find something interesting in school.,If you're in your third year of high school, you can take a look at the school girl (eye-catching -0-...Besides, if you want to like school, you should at least find something interesting that can only be done in school, such as playing ball, studying, clubs, etc.

I feel the same way, I don't really want to go to school, but it's all about school, keep studying, and when you succeed, you'll find that your hard work has not been in vain.

It's okay, just get through it

Force yourself to go, I feel the same way, cry, poor boy!

Help children adjust their mentality and biological clock in advance, simulate the rhythm of school, and create an exciting environment. The rhythm of the Spring Festival indulgence makes it a thing of the past very quickly. A few days before the start of school, children should follow their usual schedule, prepare three meals on time, go to bed early and get up early, adjust their biological clock, and adapt to the "time difference" changes after the start of school.

Take appropriate steps to get your child adjusted to the holidays and school changes as quickly as possible.

What to do if your child doesn't want to go to school:

1.Accept your child's fears

Even in the kindergarten or lower grades where the average person is relaxed, it still takes a lot of energy and effort to follow the rules and practice new skills. Therefore, when a child is having a relaxing holiday, he is likely to think that he would rather stay at home than stay at school all day. In addition, from the age of 5, children will have a sense of life and death and anxiety.

They may worry about bad things that happen to their parents or themselves at school. This is one of the reasons why children are reluctant to leave their parents to go to school.

2.Make home more boring than school

Sometimes children want to escape school just because home is more fun than school. The solution is to make it more boring for kids to stay at home than to go to school. When your child makes excuses in the morning complaining of headaches and doesn't want to go to school, check to see if he's really sick and try to get him to school if he doesn't have a fever, vomiting, or other signs.

If he is really sick, he must take time off work to rest at home and at the same time not give him any time to use electronic devices. Once a child knows that sick leave is not a game day, he may be in a hurry to return to the classroom.

3.Find out what's really going on in your fears

Sometimes children don't want to go to school, it may be because of some specific people and things, but usually children can't express their true thoughts in clear words, so asking the teacher is one of the ways to understand the root cause

4.Solve deeper problems

If your child frequently refuses school, is always upset, or even cries, or is showing nightmarish anxiety or other signs of abandonment, talk to your pediatrician or child anxiety therapist. Remember, every step is a big step for your child, and it's a good idea to encourage your child from time to time: Mom and Dad believe that you are absolutely capable of coping!

Overcoming school problems is probably one of the most important lessons a child learns.

Children do not want to go to school mainly because the children play too much during the holidays, first of all, let the children collect their hearts as soon as possible, understand that school has started, and school is the most important thing at the moment.

It is very common for a child not to want to go to school, and it is important to help him set learning goals, enlighten him, and encourage him.

There must be a reason why a child does not want to go to school, and parents can ask him why he does not want to go to school.

1. Arrange work and rest time reasonably. Due to the laziness of holiday life, parents and children may disrupt the rhythm of life, do not want to sleep at night, and do not think about it during the day, and it is difficult to recover a few days after the holiday, at this time parents should lead by example, avoid children too excited or tired, create a good sleep atmosphere, go to bed early and get up early, fight to return to the original life and rest habits, good sleep will bring a good mood.

2. Adjust the dietary structure. The holiday may be dominated by big fish and meat, rarely eat fruits and vegetables, and a large amount of these foods will affect the normal metabolism of harmful substances in our brain nerve cells, thereby affecting the physical condition and aggravating the child's emotions of not wanting to go to school.

3. Don't put pressure on your child for the first three days. People need to have a transition period, children are the same, from holiday life to school life, do not grind parents do not ask children to immediately enter the learning state, which will increase children's anxiety, and even produce school boredom, aggravate the symptoms of holiday syndrome, therefore, parents should try to let their children relax, take their children to do some outdoor sports after school, release negative emotions.

4. Help children regulate their mood. When parents pick up and drop off their children, they may wish to chat with their children about school, teachers and classmates in a brisk tone, ask their children about interesting things that happen at school, so that children can feel that they can also have happiness at school, and guide children to face school life with a positive attitude.

1. Parents comfort and enlighten: never underestimate the charm of language, when the summer vacation is about to end and the child does not want to go to school, parents must comfort the child in time and enlighten him. For example, tell him that it is normal to have this fear, and I also had it when I was in school, and I didn't want to go to school.

This will not only bring each other closer together, but also better comfort the child.

2. Adjust children's schedules: When school is about to start, parents must adjust their children's schedules. Crazy play, sleep lazy or anything.

Helping children adjust their routines is on the one hand to help them develop a good habit, and on the other hand, it is also to prepare them for school. Once the routine is adjusted, the child will naturally be less afraid of ruining the innocence.

3. Arrange for him to meet with his classmates: On the one hand, let the child meet his classmates to improve the child's social skills and deepen the feelings between classmates, and on the other hand, it is also to let him communicate more with other classmates and relieve his fear. Once the child has more contact with classmates, parents do not have to worry about the child not wanting to go to school, and the best persuader is always someone who empathizes.

4. Give the baby to participate in interest holiday training classes: Now children's early education has penetrated into our lives, and we feel outdated if we don't register for a class for children every holiday. In fact, this is also a way to train children to maintain a good learning state, and the holiday training class is not only the knowledge taught in school, but also can be a favorite project for the baby, such as singing, dancing, painting, Go, ......With a learning atmosphere, children are better and faster to continue this state after the holidays.