I ve been talking about it for 5 years, and I want to break up and change it

Well, preventing retaliation is important, so it can't be too direct

You deliberately make things difficult, you ask him, do you really like me? Do you want me to be happy in the future? Now you can't give me happiness, if you can do the few things I asked, you will deliberately make things difficult, such as turning yourself into a woman who loves money very much, I need a house of several hundred square meters, if you get married in the future, you will have sons and daughters, and there is no big place to live, wouldn't you have to suffer or suffer or I know that you have worked hard but it is not good for everyone to continue like this, or it is good for you but not good for me at all

The reason why I ignore his feelings like this is actually very simple, and there will be no happiness at all. It was only a matter of time before it continued like this, and it was only a matter of time before it was separated

Remember that the tone must be gentle, and don't speak too ruthlessly, so that he feels hope, in fact, despair.

Say I'll give you 1 year to test you, and when you can do it, we'll continue to date

No matter how beautiful the roses bloom, there will be a day when they will wither, and since love has reached the end, sacrifice is inevitable in order to pursue their own happiness.

Soft-heartedness will be the devil's hand that pushes him into the abyss of pain, and the overlord of Chu and Liu Bang compete for the world, it is because of the soft-heartedness of the overlord of Chu that Wujiang will end up killing himself

If he is stubborn, you don't want to say a word to him again, the best way is to see him when you don't see him, he talks to you and ignores him, try not to look at him, so that he will slowly die.

Sister, I've also met such a man, and his personality is flawed, so he must be divided.

The key is your attitude, and you must not be soft-hearted.

At that time, I was mobilizing my family, and my mother accompanied me to and from work, and if I wanted to do it, he would grab my hand and hold on to it, which was a hooligan. **I didn't resolutely not answer, he also called my unit, I was not embarrassed, told everyone that he pestered me, please help.

Of course, if you spend too much money on him, it's better to pay it back.

In short, don't be weak, don't be afraid of losing face, future happiness matters.

Letting go is also a kind of love, don't love each other because of reluctance, it's not good for the future Ha It's still up to you to act at the opportunity, give him one last chance to correct, if he really loves you, he will change for you.

I don't think it's necessary, if he can change it, he doesn't have to delay it until now, it's better to stay away from him for a while, and let yourself know a few people of the opposite sex and make comparisons, don't fall and die on a tree.

What to do? Divide. Two words, or points. Since you have been given so many opportunities and will not cherish the person, what else can you expect him to improve?

Divide it! This man is not worth what you do, if you don't break up, it's you who will be delayed, really!

Break up, you will be miserable to be together reluctantly, to find your true happiness.

Let's just say that the two of you are not suitable.

You just hold on and don't give him a chance, and after a while he won't be like that.

O you unassertive.

If you're decided, let's be ruthless. It's just you who is delayed, and you won't have a good time in the future. It's only going to get harder.

If you really think that he can't change it, it's better to be ruthless and be ruthless, which is good for your future.

After all, marriage is no joke.

It's impossible not to hurt, find a time to talk formally, and find someone else to top it if you're still entangled.

Why don't you cherish love so much???

I'll give you a budding love. It can also make you think about where you started.

Be serious about love. Don't disrespect it.

It's very nice.

I wish you all happiness.

Give him a chance, the last chance, if he has the problem of hitting you, then you should break up and find another one.

Now that you've decided, don't think about it! It's going to be ruthless to the end! That's the only way.

Tell him that this is the last time, after all, it has been 5 years, and the relationship for 5 years is not easy!

You want to divide it.

Since I don't love it.

Long pain is better than short pain

Such. To him.

to you. All good.

It's all going to hurt each other.

It's impossible to do no harm.

After all, they have all been paid.

It's not too late to make amends

Think about why you guys aren't the right fit.

Why divide it.

All the things that used to be

Be careful. Don't regret your decision.

Don't get involved.

If you don't love it, divide it.

If you still love him, change him or you put up with him.

I'm in the same situation as you, and I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years

Sometimes I feel really tired

But think about whether you love more or hate more

Let's make a decision under the next ...

Our personalities don't match, 88 you!

Personally, I thinkDon't push yourself, the most important thing is to live your life well. If you don't dare to fall in love after two years of breakup, it means that you have been hurt a lot in this relationship, so you don't dare to let yourself start a new relationship. In that case, don't push yourself, there are still many good things to do in life.

1. Don't force yourself to fall in love

Personally, I feel that feelings are not the whole of life, and living a good life is the most important thing. After breaking up for two years, I still remember the pain at that time, and I put a lot of energy into this relationship, but I didn't get a happy ending in the end. In fact, this kind of emotional experience is particularly unforgettable, and it is not just said that you can be relieved by letting go.

So I personally feel that in this case, don't force yourself to try a new relationship, and learn to accept your current situation calmly. In fact, there are still many things to do in life, go to work every day to make money, get together with friends after work to eat, and occasionally sleep lazily on weekends and do things that interest you.

2. Be honest with the past and face your heart

It's best to have a relationship that is rather lacking than excessive, and when you really meet the next person who is excited, you will feel that the past waiting is not because you dare not invest in a new relationship, but just to meet the right person. So I personally feel that instead of entangled in my emotions here and falling into the memories of the past and unable to extricate myself, it is better to face myself calmly. Face your heart and be honest with your past experiences.

There is no absolute right or wrong in falling in love, what you can't let go of is the energy you invested in this relationship in the past. The meaning of growing up is to be inspired by continuous self-reflection, and then to urge oneself to pursue better things. The same is true of feelings, the past has passed, and what the present and the future have is the best.

Many people are prone to making mistakes in their relationships and are prone to extremes. Either you can't let go of the past, or you just don't care about anything, in fact, there is no problem with this, as long as you are calm in your heart and think that this is your ideal choice, then it is completely fine. So it's the same if you don't dare to fall in love after breaking up for two years, you don't have to force yourself.

It may be that the last relationship brought you harm, so you don't dare to continue the relationship.

It is recommended that you can tell yourself that the last relationship is over, don't get entangled, don't get along with yourself, and get out of the haze as soon as possible.

You have to learn to let go of the past, stay in the past and feel bad in the end, you have to learn to accept the new life, maybe there are people around you who like you at this time, but you don't dare to confess after seeing your state, the most important thing is to adapt to the other party has left.

broke up with the previous object, and after two years passed, I didn't dare to talk about the object, in fact, it's not that you don't dare to talk about the object, but you haven't met someone who is destined, and when fate arrives, you don't have to deliberately avoid it, because every fate will make you grow, and it is also possible to directly let you enter the palace of marriage and live a happy life.

It's been two years since I broke up, and I don't dare to fall in love, which means that I still haven't come out of the last relationship, and I should let myself learn to let go as soon as possible, love boldly, and I should learn some knowledge from the last relationship.

Don't be afraid to fall in love, you must muster up the courage to start treating life and feelings again, don't be afraid, you can!

It's been two years since I broke up, and I'm a little afraid to fall in love, what should I do? Then you have to enlighten yourself, only you can enlighten yourself, and slowly open your heart to contact new people.

You must take the initiative to adjust your mentality, calm your mind, don't be too anxious, and when you meet someone you like, you must take the initiative to pursue the other party.

After two years of breakup, I am a little afraid to fall in love, and that's because you haven't come out of the hurt of this relationship in the previous paragraph, so I think you have to continue to wait for the right time.

Personally, I think that if this happens, then you have to believe that there is still love in this world, and you can contact some like-minded boys.

After breaking up for two years, I am a bit afraid to fall in love, probably because I haven't met the right person, and don't tie up my present and future life because of the past.

Your attitude can only show that there was an unforgettable love before. You can't look at your strengths correctly, which leads to this lack of self-confidence.

There is no need to redeem it. He's decided, so let him go. However, you still need to think about it. Is it necessary for you to keep him?

I think you can find a boy who has a positive outlook and marry him, because that's the only way to change that.

In my opinion, the breakup can be divided into three stages.

The first one is when you just broke up. I feel like my heart is in turmoil, the whole world has collapsed, and I really don't want to touch my feelings, and I don't want to accept anyone. It turned out that they had sworn so much and promised to be together forever, how could the two people of you and me suddenly become so indifferent, like strangers.

You'll be struggling to find out, and you'll be puzzled. This period is the hardest.

The second is to break up for a while, such as half a year. Human memories have a time limit, and so do feelings, and besides, the daily life will go on, and you will slowly accept the fact of breaking up. In the daily life of life, slowly forget those feelings of love, get farther and farther away from the person in your heart, and then your mind will gradually return to calm.

The third is to meet a new relationship. This is when your mindset will be even more different. You will feel that the pain and sadness in front of you are all paving the way for today's happiness.

Without those, there would be no better version of yourself today. You'll be thankful that your ex taught you so much about the length of your relationship. This person may still be in your memory, but it is no longer a sad memory, but a beautiful memory.

Love is beautiful, breaking up is not terrible, and all of it will turn into the best encounter in the future.

After the breakup, there is a period of confusion and adjustment, which is normal, but you must also learn to let go. Sometimes the reason why it is especially painful when you break up is because you regard love as the whole of life, know that love is only a part of life, and don't let love be the whole pillar of your life. Our economic income needs to be diversified, and the pillars that make up the vitality of your life must also be diversified, not just love.

Because this is the only way that when you encounter a breakup, you will not suffer a crushing blow. In this way, there will be no such thoughts as never daring to touch love again.

Another reason why you feel too painful when you break up is that you make up for those people you can't grasp for the time being. In fact, all his good is imagined by you, and it is all the aura that you deliberately add to him because you don't understand. So it's actually an illusion, and you're suffering because of an illusion.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocre people disturb themselves.

After talking for 4 years, I finally broke up, and I feel that I don't want to fall in love anymore, this is mainly the disappointment of this love, I think at this time you can take a break, let yourself relax, adjust your mentality, and come out of this relationship, so that you can rediscover the beauty of life and love.

You should correct your mentality, although you have broken up, you must believe that you can still find a suitable other half, don't be discouraged and don't be discouraged.

I think you should adjust your mentality, there is no need to give up love because of this matter, so you also need to go with the flow and don't run away from love when it comes.

Actually, I don't think it matters if you have this kind of thought for a short time, just take advantage of this free time to learn more things on your own, pay attention to your work, and make yourself better, even if you don't get married in the future.

First of all, you have to clean up your emotions, it's normal for feelings to fail, there is no need to be so depraved. So I advise you to live well, work well, and go with the flow.

Go out for a walk, get to know more people, slowly forget about the previous things, maybe one day you will know someone you like very much, and you will be willing to fall in love again.

This kind of psychology is also very normal, because I am like this too, but you can continue to believe in love and find someone you like more.