My dating questions, questions about making friends, I would like your help

Based on what you're talking about, this friend of yours might really have some problems! It's not your fault, don't worry too much! However, you said that the friends you made from elementary school to college were good at first, and then they were estranged!

Maybe you have some problems! Maybe you're a perfectionist! When I first met, I saw the advantages of friends!

As time goes by, slowly his shortcomings begin to appear, and he will also have aesthetic fatigue, and he will unintentionally magnify his friend's shortcomings and ignore his advantages! When you realize his shortcomings, you will be disgusted, and even regret why you want to be friends with him in the first place, so you will gradually distance yourself from him! Only by knowing these can we solve this problem!

You must know that everyone has a lot of shortcomings, and you don't need to be too bad! Look at the strengths of others rather than their weaknesses! Buddhism says, "If you see the faults and rights and wrongs of sentient beings every day, you have to repent as soon as possible, and this is practice."

I believe you can do it well!

No one is perfect, and you can't ask too much for friends, but it doesn't mean that you have to make friends with people who others don't want to associate with, and you still have to have a little judgment.

That must be your own problem -- what's hurting you? I don't understand -- I'm a self-centered person -- but I can never ask for something -- that's because I know that people have their own ambitions -- and I'm also a powerful person -- and that's how an extremely self-centered person has 7 or 8 friends to talk to -- but you don't? Whose problem is it that you say is not your own?

I think you have a good idea, there is no need for the person who betrayed his friend to be friends with him! But before that, you have to figure out what his purpose is in doing this, whether he really betrayed you, because some people like to joke, it was unintentional, but it hurt you, so I don't think you need to take it to heart, at most warn, after all, they are all friends! Also, I think we should be more tolerant.

Everyone has strengths and weaknesses at the same time, and so do you, so do you to be relaxed, since you were once friends, that means that you have accepted him. And your experience for this friend is the problem of the two of you, maybe the phrase "distance produces beauty" is very suitable for you, each of you calm down and think about your past, list each other's advantages, and it's OK!

And one more ... Maybe it's because everyone's personality is different. Think about your own reasons, too! Looking at a thing has to be thought about from many aspects.

To untie the bell, you need to tie the bell, "Ah!

There are many kinds of friends, but no matter what kind of friend he is, he has his own way of life, and you can't deliberately ask him how to do it...How's that....If you think he's good, you'll be nice to him, and if you think he's average...It's just a little farther away from him, you see why some people eat both red and black, and everyone gives him three points of face, that's it, deliberately ask yourself, don't deliberately ask others.

In fact, what you said can only prove that you have not grown up, as the eldest son, you have to take that responsibility, as long as you really understand what responsibility is, you will not feel that taking care of people is forced, there will be a lot of unsatisfactory in your life, of course, I am the same, in the face of difficulties is to escape or to face bravely? I'm sure you'll meet a lot of good friends, but until then, be sure to change your life, hoping to help you.

Friend care is mutual on both sides.

Hehe, I'm just like you, I feel like once a month.

Depending on the nature and time of different friends, some are one month, some are two months, and it is uncertain. Two to three months is OK.

Personally, I think it's best to keep one or two calls a month! (If people are busy, you will be annoyed if you hit too many **s**; If you don't contact for a long time, you will definitely be estranged. One or two a month is just right, and the phone bill is not much) parting words, let me say a few!

Friends are like puzzle pieces, together they make a beautiful picture. Whatever piece is missing, it will not be complete. And you're the last thing I want to lose!

In the future, we will fly to **? I don't know, and neither are you. But, no matter how far you go, please don't forget that someone will be thinking about you, dear friend!

Let's fight once every three months, and when you chat, you have to talk about interesting things, the years you spent in public before.