24 good habits that determine your child s future after reading

A book, I feel it deeply. Good habits are an asset that can make a child live a lifetime. In life, there are many times when a good habit and character can bring you great benefits.

To a large extent, this habit and character are not innate, but are accumulated and cultivated over a long period of time, bit by bit.

The foundation of a happy life is derived from good habits, whether it is a good character or a strong learning ability, which are good habits developed in childhood. With good habits, you will have a happy life. Every child has a variety of habits in their daily lives, and on the surface, it is a small thing that does not attract attention, but many people fail in bad habits.

Sow an action, and you will reap a habit; Sow a habit and you will reap a character; Sow a character, and you will reap a destiny. "Habits are the foundation of life, and the basic level determines the level of human development. A large number of facts in the book prove one truth:

Habits determine a person's success or failure. How important it is for children to develop a good habit from an early age, it will accompany them throughout their lives, whether it is learning or living, being a person or dealing with the world. These good habits will intervene in their lives with an extremely tenacious attitude.

Take this book and read it carefully. The author of this book, Meng Jin, through the practice of a pair of children educated by himself, uses the small "cases" around him to show parents the essence of "habit education" and effective methods, and the style of writing is relaxed and lively, popular and practical. After reading this book, I feel that I have learned a lot.

Family education is the core part of education, and parents nowadays have too high expectations for their children, only paying attention to grades and grades, and ignoring habit education. Habits play an important role in a child's life, study, and future career success.

This book introduces how parents should set an example for their children in terms of conversation, behavior, and manners, so that children can develop good habits, work, study, life, and psychological habits, and how to correct children's bad habits in practical and effective ways.

Calm down and think about the lack of methods and skills in cultivating children's behavior habits in your life. I learned a lot about parenting from this book, and although Eric is only 2 years old now, this is a critical period for developing children's behavioral habits.

There are many good examples in this book, such as putting blocks in the toy box - cultivating the habit of responsibility, and I have bought a lot of toys for my children, and after playing, I put away the toys or I was too troublesome to clean them up myself.

It's not good to think about it the other way around, because the words and deeds of parents in their daily life have set an example for their children. In this way, the child does not know how to do it, and as a mother, she should play a role model for the child.

There is also a mention of consistency among family members in the book, which I have not thought deeply about and have struggled with. My father's education methods and philosophies are quite the same, but his grandmother is too doting on the child, so we must ask.

There are also disagreements on the topic. Once again, Eric learned a swear word from outside, and I knew that the child didn't know it was a swear word, but his grandmother showed it off to me, thinking that his grandson was so capable.

I would also say, but as soon as the child said it, I was furious, reprimanded him loudly and twisted his mouth, telling him over and over again that it was swearing, and that the child who swore was not a good child, and calmly told his grandmother that the old man was still stubborn at that time.

The child is small, and when he is older, he will not talk about it. I also asked my husband to reason with my mother-in-law, and this education dispute was settled. From this book we can all find similar examples in life, maybe sometimes things are too small, our parents are there.

In fact, every word and deed and every move of parents affects the future of their children at all times. Educating children is not something that can be solved by sending children to early education classes for a few early education classes, which requires parents to master a lot.

Theoretical knowledge of education, with an emphasis on practical life education.

"Habit Bai Determines a Child's Life" has du "teach you a trick", providing zhi12 kinds of tricks, dao adopts 6 steps, training.

It is a good habit for children to love learning, understand respect, be caring, be responsible, and take care of themselves.

And the following six steps are the specific ways to develop good habits:

The first step in habit formation: raising awareness, or rather, guiding your child to develop interest, recognition, and confidence in forming a habit.

The second step in habit formation is to clarify the code of conduct so that the child is clear about the specific criteria for developing a good habit.

The third step of habit cultivation: timely role model education, so that children have a kind and yearning feeling for forming a good habit.

The fourth step of habit cultivation: persistent behavior training, so that children can develop a good habit from passive to active and then automatic.

The fifth step of habit cultivation: and ** evaluation and reward and punishment, so that children can develop good habits in a successful experience.

The sixth step of habit cultivation: form a good environment or atmosphere, so that family life, school environment and even social atmosphere become the supporting force for children to develop good habits.

I have read many times about the six steps to cultivate good habits, and I have thought about it for a long time, and I think that the cultivation of good habits is not only for students, but also for our teachers, who should continue to learn and form their own educational characteristics while educating students to grow up healthily.

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