When you know that the other party doesn t like you, are you still willing to pay silently?

At the beginning, when I couldn't get out of this relationship, I would definitely be willing to pay silently for the other partyEven if you know that the other party doesn't like you, even if you know that it is impossible for you to be with him, but because you have his place in your heart, you are willing to do things for him. <>

But this is limited to when you have this person in your heart, I don't know how attached others are to a relationship, but I belong to the kind of three-minute heat, if the person you like also likes yourself, this relationship can last for a long time; But if the person you like doesn't like you, it's because of the freshness at the beginning, and it's impossible to give up when you pretend to be a person in your heart, and you are willing to do anything for him during that timeBut after a long time, after this novelty has passed, the feelings for him will definitely not be the same as at the beginning. <>

And all of us are tired, and it's impossible to say that any of us can always maintain enough energy for everything. After I have paid enough in this relationship, I will feel tired at this time, even if I still can't let go of this person in my heart, I will want to give up this relationship, and I don't have the confidence and energy to continue to persist in this fruitless relationship. <>

Of course, this is just for me, and I don't know what other people are like. It probably has a lot to do with my personalityIt's hard for me to stick to one thing, let alone this kind of thing that doesn't have any results, and I can't stick to it anymore, but it doesn't mean that everyone is like this, and persistence may not necessarily be fruitless, after all, no one can say for sure about emotional matters, maybe if you persist for a long time, you will be able to influence the person you like!

If I were faced with this situation and he didn't like me, I wouldn't continue to pay, because I think I deserve better treatment, why suffer for myself.

If I knew that the other person didn't like it, I wouldn't choose to pay silently. Because I know I can't touch the other person. That's why I don't want to waste time.

When I know that the other party doesn't like me, I won't pay silently, because it's not worth it, and I won't get any response, so it's better to give up directly.

No, since the other party does not love themselves, too much effort will cause pressure on the other party and bring trouble to the other party's life.

If the relationship can end, it will be restored, but if the relationship can't end, it will still be paid silently, because the relationship does not mean that it will stop.

I will never pay silently, because the other party doesn't like me, and no matter how sincere I give, I can't move him.

In fact, I don't want to pay silently, because I don't want to hang things on a tree, I think there are still many possibilities for people.

I don't want to, he doesn't like me that even if I pay too much and I don't get what I want, I'll stop the loss in time.

If she doesn't hate you and doesn't have someone she likes, then there should be a chance, and girls are very easy to touch.

Of course there will be, even if it is a failure, it will be the result.

Trouble, thanks!

Yes, at least you have left memories that you dare to love and hate!

To love him doesn't have to be to have him.

As long as you can touch him, he will have. Judging by your description, there will be no result, because you are still thinking about who is paying and who is paying a little more, it is just a transaction, and the real pay will not plan who pays and who does not.

No! I'm sure to tell you, no! Because I waited.

Giving does not always have results, and sometimes there are unfortunate encounters.

Does he love you, if he loves you too, then it's good to confess, if he doesn't love you, then don't wait for him, that won't work out.

If you really love her, you won't feel unworthy, and if you don't feel worthy, then you should ask your heart, do you really love her.

No, but we hope it will, after all, it is the ideal situation, but the society is too realistic, and it is a pity that if you don't take the initiative, there will be no results.

<> "The more you give, the more he doesn't like youWhy the more you give, the more he doesn't like you?" The underlying logic of feelings is value matching, and if you have value, he will like you. The amount you give is not something that you have as a person.

What is your own value: you are beautiful, emotionally intelligent, insightful, knowledgeable, well-built, well-family, etc. The reason why you give too much is because your needs are relatively large, and you need the other party to give back and love to you, so you give it, not that you don't want to reciprocate.

Giving in this way leads to two outcomes.

The first is that he is a person with a bottom line, so he will feel very ashamed, feel that you love him so much, and he does not reciprocate your love equally, and people who don't like you enough will feel guilty about you, and they will feel very uncomfortable and uncomfortable with you, so that he will be more and more distant from you, and he will become more and more disliking you.

The second type is that he is a bottomless person, the more you give, the more he will triumphantly overestimate his own value and ability, and underestimate your value. Since he underestimated you, he will naturally feel more and more that you are not worthy of him.

No matter what kind of person the other party is, he will not like you because of your excessive giving, and the excessive giving itself is conveying a message, "You are a person of very low value, and no one chooses you", so he will please you with such a low profile. You have a lot of needs, so you will exchange feelings in the form of giving, and the need itself is a reflection of the soft value is not high enough.

For example, if you are not confident, insecure, etc., otherwise if the two of you match the value, there will be no situation where your needs are much greater than his, so if the needs do not match, you should enhance the value, and do not rely on pay to redeem it.

Like a person who doesn't tell each other, but silently dedicates, this kind of idea is not advisable at all, because only if both parties like each other and dedicate to each other, this is a perfect love, otherwise it can only be said to be a deformed love.

Love is a thing that is constantly cut and messed up. If you are sure that two people will never be able to come together, then the result can only be let go, no matter how reluctant you are. However, it is easier said than done, and feelings are not just said to be let go.

For your situation, I personally give you some advice, I hope it can be of some help to you. 1.Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better.

2.Try to keep yourself busy, make your life full, and let yourself have no time to miss. 3.

Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possible, and maybe you have your true destiny inside. 4.When you have to contact him, try to be as normal as an ordinary friend.

5.Try to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role. 6.

Give yourself a big smile every day and tell yourself "another day is another day.""I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart no longer hurts, it turns out that unconsciously, he has become "that person". Why do we need to love the result? Beg.

No, I'll wait for him to find out for himself, so that he will be more moved, he will like me more, and I pay for him because I like it, and I don't have to show it off.

When I give to someone I like, I don't tell him because I enjoy the process of giving for love myself. To love someone is to be willing to pay for him, and if you have to tell him everything you do, it is meaningless.

Yes. After all, people are selfish, and even if I don't pursue anything in return when I pay for him, I hope he can at least know my heart.

Yes. Because if you don't say it, he won't know what you've done for him, and maybe he won't notice you at all, and you won't have results.

I would tell him that I would not choose to give quietly and not let him know, and that I felt that he had the right to know everything I had done for him, so that he would be grateful to me.

will tell him, as the saying goes, what you will do is not as good as what you can say, you only pay, don't tell others, how do people know, don't ask others in return, but you must let people know.

I won't tell him, after all, in a relationship or marriage, one of the two people will have more love. What's more, liking someone, is not necessarily a two-way love, it may also be a one-way crush.

I give willingly, and there is no reason to ask the other party to give something in return, so I don't think it's necessary to tell the other party how much I give, if the person I like also likes me, he will definitely look at it and give me back in terms of initiative and words.

I will. I don't like to pay in obscurity, if I like someone and I pay for it, as long as the conditions allow, I will definitely tell the other person.

If I give for someone I like, I choose to tell him that I don't give silently, and I want him to respond.

No, I will only pay silently, not let him know, if I tell him, it will not seem sincere, I deliberately paid to show him.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Don't tell him until he realizes your love for him! What is love, love is tolerance rather than indulgence, love is care rather than pampering, love is mutual blending rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors but not all sweetness, love is gratuitous giving, is willing help, is each other's heart induction! True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other, in order to make each other's lives better and silently dedicated, this love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts!

True love is when you can love, know how to cherish! True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love, because letting go is having everything! Please love it well when you cherish it!

When you let go, good wishes! True love is a kind of care and care from the heart, no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it, so plain, so firm! On the contrary, swearing, promising speaks of its uncertainty, never believe sweet words!

Therefore, if you choose love, you must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, encourage him (her) when he (she) is happy, be happy together, and comfort him (her) when he (she) is sad. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is a little hurt!

True love for someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a non-fading token, all of this in the face of true love is tasteless, dark and dull!

Believe in yourself, as long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist! I wish you happiness and happiness!

Neither, you have to show it, but don't say it.