If you could start all over again, would you still be willing to fall in love with your first love?

Updated on society 2024-03-29
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No. The current me is not the original me, and the current him is not the original him. Love is for two people.

    First love can only prove that we were suitable at that time, but after being separated for so long, time and geography have had a certain impact on a person to a certain extent, and people have changed. After the breakup, I didn't have much contact, just looked at each other's dynamics in the circle of friends. The reason for the breakup was that I felt that he couldn't give me the future I wanted, and now I look at his diary and feel that he is the same now, and I feel that he is still the same boy and has not grown up.

    It's still a boy, not enough to be called a man. The first love is good, so let it live in good memories. I think it's good to use it to reminisce and not to take it out and go through old accounts.

    I can only say that I have the life I want and I am living the life I like. Everyone needs to grow up, and hopefully he can also grow up and find his other half. Blessings, but will not choose to repeat it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Unwilling. If you are separated, you are separated, and if you fall in love again, it will not change much, but it is easy to make the original point unforgettable, and that little attachment is gone. Moreover, "good horses don't eat back grass", after separation, why turn back?

    There is more than one tree in the world, and there is more than one flower, there will always be someone who is more suitable and beautiful than TA.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No. The past can only be recalled, and the first love is just the old love. The reason why first love is beautiful is not only that it is pure, but also that it is the first throbbing of the heart of a human being and the hazy beauty of seeking but not being able to get and love without success.

    The first love at that time may not be the most beautiful, but his feelings at that time were the most sincere and intense. And the self at that time may be the innocence and beauty that I can't go back to in this life. Maybe there was a good relationship, but it just stayed in the past time and space.

    We can reminisce and reminisce, but we will never be able to return to me, you and us at that time. Time will not go back, even if the first love appears in front of me now, some are only touched by memories. After so many years of separation, the years have already changed each other.

    Even if we come together, we will not return to the original beauty. On the contrary, many good memories of the past will be shattered in the face of the huge reality, and in the end, even a touch of warmth between you and me will disappear. I have not forgotten it for so many years, not because of how deep my feelings were for my first love, but because I loved myself at that time and the feeling of being with you.

    And now, things have long been different. ‍‍

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, now will not be in the future, there will be no time rewind, I know that there is no good result, why bother to suffer a second sin, whether it was good or bad, the past is gone, everyone has their own life, no matter how important you think of yourself, you feel that no matter how good you are to him, in his eyes it is just a lens of life, why trap yourself there, life is short, the coming days are long, and you don't want to suffer with you, why look forward to the coming day, cherish the present.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't want to, because my first love is only a teenager, rough, very irritable, once had a conflict with him, locked the door and didn't let him in, he actually kicked my door, anyway, he has a bad temper, now think about it, it's really young and ignorant!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think I would talk to my first love again if I had to give it another chance. The original campus love did not last, and now it is even more difficult to persist in firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. I'd rather go all the way with the good memories I had from back then, but I don't need him by my side.

    None of us are the same as we used to be, and there is a high chance that we will be physically and mentally exhausted, and it is better not to love than to hurt each other.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Love is voluntary, and there are no regrets! But it's over and it's over, just stay in the memory, let alone fall in love again, I'm not even interested in seeing each other. For the lover in the past, you don't have to miss it, it's better not to see each other, and it's right to love the people around you!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Some things are really over if you miss them, and once the sea is difficult to water, think about why you broke up in the first place? Maybe you think that what you have missed is very beautiful, yes, it was beautiful, but it was only the past, for the present, even if you regret it, you hesitate, you are helpless, but the past is really in the past. So instead of saying anything to choose again, it is better to give you a chance to regret it, I won't, the road I chose, gritted my teeth and walked on, I believe that the road ahead is broad, and there will definitely be someone who will accompany you to go down.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I am willing to go to the end with my first love. One: The first relationship is very pure.

    Two: My first love and I like each other.

    Three: If you have the opportunity, you are still willing to go to the end.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If I were given another chance, I might not choose to go to the end with him, although I had happy and happy times, but there were more painful and helpless times, so if I was given another chance, I would also choose to leave him, although it would not be to say that I never knew him, but even if I did, I might not talk to him about this painful love again.

    We are high school classmates, the same small town eighteenth line is not a place, you can imagine our poverty there, we are all children of poor families, he is the male doll of the family, yes, why call him a male doll, because their three sisters and a boy, so the family treats him as a treasure, he has not suffered since he was a child, although every family was very poor at that time, but he was pampered since he was a child, and he may have a better brain since he was a child, so he is still very good at reading, But I really didn't suffer a little bit in life, and my self-care ability was very poor.

    When he was in high school, his home was quite far away from the school, but in order to take care of him, his mother rented a house in the county, and then just to take care of him, and I was quite envious of him at that time, because there was a mother who loved him so much, unlike me, who was not my own child, it was completely savage and depended on himself, so I really envied his family at that time, and the love he received.

    Later, we were admitted to the same university, and we decided on a relationship in college, and I was very happy at first, but then I felt very tired, because his self-care ability was very poor, and I felt like I was looking for a boyfriend, but most of my first love was blind, so I felt happy when I was tired. But then we graduated, and we had to start earning money to support ourselves, but he didn't suffer hardship, and there was no way to adapt to his work, so I was supporting him for a long time.

    I work alone to support two people, I will also be helpless because of things at work, and I will be sad, but I have no way to ask him for help, he can't give me a little comfort, on the contrary, it will put pressure on me, until a year and a half of work later, I thought clearly and chose to break up with him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't have this kind of thought, because my current life is very good, and I live very well with my current partner, even if I am given such a chance, I will not go to the end with my first love, because I think there is still a big difference between me and my first love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When I think about my first love now, what I miss is not him as a person, but when I first felt love, so if there is another time, I don't want to go to the end with my first love, I think this arrangement is very good.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Impossible, not all first loves are happy, and more people's first loves are very painful. Those who miss their first love have a good feeling of first love because their current lover is not ideal.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Willing. Because I think the first love is very beautiful, the first love can make me always remember, if I was given a chance, I would choose to go with my first love to the end.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I definitely don't want to go to the end with my first love, because if two people break up, it means that the personalities of the two people are not suitable, and there are some places where they don't get along very well.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Willing. Because I love my first love very much, and I can't forget her good, I am willing to go with my first love to the end.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If I could, I wouldn't have chosen to be with my first love. Because there is a good saying, a good horse does not eat back grass, since the relationship is separated, there is no need to redeem it. Otherwise, it will cost hundreds of times the effort, or even thousands.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If I could, I would choose to reunite with my first love. After all, it's the one I like, and I've experienced a lot of good things. To put it bluntly, it's also a very regrettable state. They will also choose to be together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If I could, I wouldn't choose to reunite with my first love, because I want to meet the current person, because I am very happy with him now.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If there is such a condition, I will not choose to be with my first love, because I feel that my first love and I have lost the original intention, so I should still look for the person who loves me the most.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I wouldn't choose to be with my first love if I could, because I feel like it's already a good memory for me, and I would choose to be with my partner because my partner was so good to me.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It depends on whether there is still a contradiction, what was the reason for the separation at the beginning, whether it was really resolved, if everything is okay, then it is okay to be together again.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I wouldn't choose this if I could, because I am very happy with my current boyfriend, so I would not choose to be with my first love, because my first love hurt me too much, and I would forget my own first love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If I could, I wouldn't choose to be with my first love again, because we were very naïve to each other when we were together, and we didn't really have love at that time, just a simple gender attraction.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The life of each of us is actually an experience, and in this experience. There will be flaws and regrets, and a life without flaws is actually incomplete. So if we had a choice, we would still choose to break up in the situation at that time.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There are no ifs and bolts for this kind of thing, because it is not the same now as it was before. The first love was just a hazy love, and I wasn't very sensible at that time, so I can't say that I will be with him if we get back together.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If I could, I would choose to be with my first love, because recalling my emotional past, only my first love can make me smile at the corner of my mouth, because I think this relationship is flawless, although it is impossible, but imagine the beauty of making up for this regret.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    First love is not necessarily a good person, and there are bad people in first love, so it is not necessarily necessary to choose first love together. Since they are separated, it means that the two people are destined. Let's think about it separately.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    No, because I just want the beauty of my first love to stay in the depths of my own mind, and if I continue to be together, I will lose that beauty.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If I could turn back time, I would definitely choose to be with my first love, because I feel that he is a very beautiful, very gentle and virtuous person, and it is a lifelong regret that I am not with him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    To be honest, when you fall in love for the first time, most people are immature, and if you understand the character and three views of the first love, I estimate that a considerable number of people will not choose to live together with the first love.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Hello friend, if it is possible, I will choose to reunite with my first love, because we are both the most genuine feelings, and now if we have the opportunity, we can be together.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    First love is beautiful and worth remembering, but not everyone will choose to get back together with their first love, which should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If they could, many people would choose not to live with their first love, because everyone was still so young when they first fell in love, and they didn't know how difficult life was.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Yes. Because I haven't forgotten my first love now, my feelings for each other are still very deep, and if I have the choice, I will get back together with each other.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    First love is when two people like each other, and it can explain the love concept of two people, if it is said that after getting along, two people can really be together. This feeling is very happy, but some will also break up, and if they choose again, they will also choose to be with him.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If I had a choice, I wouldn't choose to be with my first love, because my current wife is my favorite, so I wouldn't choose again.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If I could, I would still choose to be with my first love, because so far, I still have him in my heart, I still can't let go, I still have a lot of regrets, although I know that it's impossible, I still fantasize about seeing him again, what will I say when we meet.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    No, because I don't think my first love and I are a good fit, and it won't end well if two people are together.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Yes, because the first love is beautiful, only those who have experienced it will know, it is the girl I like for the first time, and I will definitely not hesitate to be with her again.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Of course I would choose to be with my first love, because my first love was very good to me, and we both broke up because of a long-distance relationship.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    No, because it's been a long time since I've been separated from my first love, and I don't think the two of us are in a good place, so I'm not going to be with him.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If I could, I wouldn't be with my first love, because I'm married and have children, and my wife is also very good, I want to cherish my current life, and let him pass in the past!

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