As a woman, when do you think it is best to have children in marriage?

When two people have enough savings, it is most appropriate to have children.

From the day two people enter the marriage, having children is a daily thing that needs to be promoted. However, for young couples, physical preparation and psychological preparation are not the most worrying things, only economic conditions are the most entangled.

Children are the crystallization of love and the lubricant of marriage, and I hope to have children belonging to two people one day sooner. I have many friends who already have their own children, and every time I go to their house to play, I feel that the children are very cute and always like to play with them. This makes me always look forward to having a child of my own and looking forward to the life of our family of three.

The love of two people has entered the marriage, and having children next is an inevitable choice, and I have never thought of escaping this. But in life, I don't want children at any time, which requires a lot of preparation in advance.

Physical and mental preparation is not difficult, the most difficult is financial preparation.

When two people have enough savings to cope with the birth of a child, I think it's okay to have a child. We have actually discussed this matter, the birth of a child is a big issue, and we must have enough material support to ensure the healthy birth of the child.

I'm going to stop working as soon as I'm pregnant and concentrate on raising my baby at home, so all kinds of tests are definitely essential. But this also means that our family income will be less, but the expenditure will not be less, and it will even increase because of pregnancy.

When the baby is born, it takes me at least a year to two years before I can go to work because there is no one to take care of the child for us. During this time, the income from the work of just one person is completely insufficient to cover the expenses of the entire family.

So we're trying to save money right now. We hope to save enough money before we bring our children into the family. At that time, I will have enough time to spend with his family life, and I will not fall into poverty because of the arrival of my child.

But this road is really not easy, and saving money is not an overnight thing, maybe having a child after a year or two after marriage is a more suitable stage.

Every family has its own situation, and it is estimated that the considerations of two people are also very different, and the choice of when to have children is also different.

It's good to have children when you want them, and you don't need to ask for advice on this kind of thing.

Personally, I think it is more appropriate to have children after two years of marriage, and the relationship between the two people will become very good in two years, and the economic foundation is also very good.

I think it's best to have a child after a year of marriage, and at this time it's about to lose its freshness, and a child is coming, just so that two people can be enriched.

I think that if two people have a stable job and financial foundation, they can choose to have children in the future. Of course, the relationship between the two people at this time should be relatively stable.

As a woman, I think that it is right to have a child after the honeymoon period of three years, and after the tiredness of being tired, having a child can enrich your life and make the relationship between the two people stronger.

I think it is more appropriate to have children about two or three years after marriage, because at that time, I am also used to married life, I also have a certain economic foundation, and I am also mentally prepared to have children.

I think it is most appropriate to get married after a year, because at this time the marriage is more mature and there is more money.

As long as both parties reach an agreement, or the conditions of the family are met, you can have a child without worrying too much about time.

I think it is most appropriate to have children at least after three years, because after three years, the relationship between husband and wife is stable and they understand each other, and they can consider having children at this time.

In fact, I think it is more appropriate to have children after two years after getting married, because there is room for two people to have a world.

I think that in marriage, when two people can understand each other, tolerate each other, and the relationship is very stable, it is most appropriate to have children, and it will also let the children come and promote the marriage relationship.

When the family is rich enough. Being able to give children a good environment, whether it is living or studying, will be of great help to the future.

Due to physiological reasons, during pregnancy and childbirth, there are some hurdles that must be passed by the mother herself, and no one can replace her, so she must first think clearly that the child is what she wants and wants to pay for him. It is worth mentioning that you should also communicate with your husband, and you can talk about your hopes for the other party after the birth of the child and try to reach an agreement. Think as much as possible about the difficulties faced by the family after pregnancy, the hard work and problems of raising a baby, and prepare more psychological states and plans in advance.

For example, who will take the child after birth? What will happen, and how will the responsibilities of housework be divided? Early**, the more adequate the preparation in advance, the lower the disagreement after giving birth.

It is also necessary to prepare the necessary ingredients in advance, and raising a child is to raise a "four-legged gold-swallowing beast", with a certain amount of savings in advance, the pressure on economic development is not great, and there will be much less conflict between husband and wife. At the very least, when taking care of a child is very tiring and there is no one to ask for help, be able to be rich and ask for help. After the run-in time between the husband and wife has passed, and the other party is in control, they can gradually supplement folic acid and of course prepare for pregnancy.

Because the matter of conceiving a child is not something that can be imagined, some people have not conceived for two years.

Prepare in advance, the mental pressure of the husband and wife is also small, and it is not easy to take the pregnancy of a child as a daily task. A small suggestion, it is best not to tell the people around you during the gradual preparation for pregnancy, some people only say that they will take it into account, otherwise the three aunts, six mothers-in-law and eight aunts will ask and ask that one urging, and the smoke bridge will increase unnecessary quarrels and work pressure. In addition, both husband and wife also need to communicate and prepare for several children in advance, with an interval of about two years, so as to strengthen the overall planning and minimize the number of children at an older age.

If you are too old when you get married, it is not recommended to wait for a long time.

I think that women can take a break from everything and wait, but they can't wait for a child, and when they are older, they have a child, and the risks of all kinds increase. It is a kind of damage to the pregnant mother, and it is difficult to recover, and raising a child will seem to have experienced these deficiencies, and at that time, the physical and mental exhaustion in all aspects feels that life is a chicken feather, and it is very likely that it is not so feather duster. Therefore, if the matter of having a child can be slowed down, it is okay, if there is no time to slow down, the key is to slow