If you could go back in time, would you still marry him or marry her?

If I had the Purple Fairy's Moonlight Treasure Box, if I had gone back in time, many of the choices would have been different, and I think I would have agreed to the marriage proposal back then, and I would have said "I do" to him, rather than ending the topic in silence. In the past few years, everyone has been very sad, but unfortunately they were so young and frivolous, and they always felt that they were still young, and the time was still early, and the petite figure not only caused the illusion to others, but also blinded their own eyes. Now I may not envy marriage, but I envy the kind of peers who have their own lovely children.

As I get older, this feeling becomes stronger.

I remember that the letter band sang a song called "What If", and one of the lyrics was like this: "How many misunderstandings can a love endure survive the snowy winter; How deep the implication can be torn apart by one sentence, it becomes farther away than a stranger. The more the first love is like a flame, the more it will be extinguished by the wind in the end. Sometimes the truth is so sharp that some people have to tell lies.

If time passes, what can I do, find what you didn't say, but wanted. If I don't let go, you'll blame me for hating me or being moved after many years. Thinking about what if, is the most empty pain.

If you could really let time flow, what would you do, choose me or not hug me. If you let go gently, do you understand that you can turn back if you make a mistake? If you think about it, it's the loneliness of powerlessness.

I don't know the real background of this song, but there was a time when I really liked it, and it always sang to my heart and made me remember the past.

As the saying goes, "reminiscing about the past, full of tears". Do you feel this way? Maybe there is, maybe not, let's meditate.

If I had to choose again, I would still choose to marry my husband, but I would think about things I didn't think about before I got married.

Although my husband and I have been talking for so long, we had a vague concept of marriage at the beginning, and we were completely like two fools, thinking too much about marriage.

If I had to choose again, I would try to change some things before I chose to get married. I will discuss with my husband to buy a house in Xi'an or not to buy it for the time being.

Because he is in Shanghai and I have been in Xi'an, it is not certain that we will not go back in the future, but now we not only pay the mortgage but also the parking space loan every month. Even though I got married, I didn't like to go back because everything was new to me.

If I didn't buy a house, my parents-in-law would not have gone to live with me, from the renovation to the present, there is not a single thing in the house that has been renovated or purchased according to my own will, even the curtains in my own room I have to be pointed out by my mother-in-law at my own expense.

So this house makes me feel so sad. In addition, I used to marry him resolutely for the sake of love, and it was not until I now have a baby that I realized how selfish I was, and I left my parents and went to such a far place alone.

It is possible that I will have to settle there in the future, and I will not be able to do my filial piety by their side, but I will have to make them worry about me. Now that I have experienced the difficulty of raising a child, I understand how much effort my parents have put in.

If I had to do it all over again, I wouldn't have agreed to my husband going to his hometown so happily, and I would have to work hard to stay with my parents. As for whether he said yes or not, I only knew if I tried my best, but I never fought for it.

I owe too much to my parents, and although I am here for the time being, they take care of my son more than my son's grandparents.

My husband and I have been separated for so long and so far away, in short, the entanglement and loneliness in my heart are beyond the comprehension of others.

He is still good, ambitious, filial piety, so far I have not insisted on letting me go back because I am here with my mother, thank you very much for his understanding, I have no regrets about choosing to marry him.

I just hope that if I have the opportunity to choose again, I won't make my current me sad because of the status quo that I can't change, and I will try to make my current life a little happier.

I don't think I would choose to marry him.

Although my husband treats me very well and I don't regret marrying him, there are many places where I am not equal to him.

Let's start with thatFamily

My family has a good environment for one of my daughters since she was a child, and my husband is the youngest son in their family. His parents are about the same age as my grandparents, and he has five older brothers and one sister. Growing up in such a big family, the living conditions must be bad.

I heard him tell me that he came out to work when he was in his teens, and he never had enough snacks and clothing. Since I got married, I was told to have a second child before my child was born.

Say it againConcept

In their family's mind, the more children they have, the better, regardless of quality over quantity. When I was pregnant with my baby, their family told me about having a second child, and I was really annoyed. My mother's side gave birth to one, and girls were also raised as boys, which is equally important, so I had the opportunity to be admitted to university.

The girls on my husband's side stopped reading after finishing junior high school, not because they couldn't afford to read, but because the concept was there, and they felt that it was useless for girls to read. Some really think that his brother and sister-in-law's views are very ignorant and ignorant, not that I look down on them, but that there is really a communication barrier.

Cultural Background

My husband graduated from elementary school, and I graduated from a bachelor's degree. Some people probably wonder, how could two of you who are so different meet together? I won't explain much about the reasons for this.

The world is so wonderful, I thought that education didn't mean anything, as long as he was good to me and behaved not so unqualified, this man was still reliable. But I was wrong, many times when I want to express an elegant thing is like playing the piano to a cow, we are not a channel at all, so I don't play elegant with him now, I think I'm very cheesy now.

Now many of his colleagues find out that I am his wife, and they feel that we are very incompatible. There's nothing wrong with that, but if I could do it all over again, I guess I'd find a man with the same background as me for the rest of my life.

No, if I go back in time, not only would I not marry my current wife, I would choose not to get married. How comfortable it is to live alone.

Yes, because my life is very happy now, so if I go back to the past, I will still choose this direction of development.

No, because I feel that my wife has a very strong personality, and she has to decide everything, I think the two of them are really not compatible.

If I could turn back the clock, I would definitely not choose to marry my current wife, because we came together because of our children, and I would choose the girl who has always been by my side and suffered with me.

Married life is realistic, and if you don't have the courage to face it, don't get married. Don't imagine that you will be happy when you marry the person you love, but the trivial things you encounter in your married life will wear out your patience. Married life is realistic, not only does it have to be financially maintained, but at the same time, life is very dull.

Yes, there are many ways to be responsible for life, but everyone's choice is different, and I just chose a lifestyle that most people will choose, and I enjoy the life of two people working together to support their families after marriage.

Yes, the result is that every girl fantasizes, dreaming of wearing a beautiful wedding dress and entering the marriage hall with her beloved.

I'm sure I'll still choose to get married, but I won't choose to marry my current partner, I'll be more sensible and choose someone more suitable to spend my life with.

It has been said that marriage is a besieged city, where those on the inside want to get out and those on the outside want to come in. If you go back in time, will you still choose to run towards marriage without hesitation? Even if it means that you will lose your freedom, change roles, and accelerate aging?

After getting married, especially having children, there are all kinds of conflicts with each other's parents, but at the same time they have to rely on them to live, this kind of contradiction and hardship seems to be the status quo of most mothers, I have a lot of friends around me, most of them are not happy. Yes, when we change from children to mothers, most of us have to live such a tiring but unsatisfactory life, and at the same time hope that our children will grow up quickly...

It seems that the reality of life suddenly makes the original romantic love disappear, and the days are dull and a little depressing...

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Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness of the other person.

And happiness, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

In the vast sea of people, two people have met, met, known, or loved each other, this is fate, and fate does not need to wait.

Fate is fought for by people, created by people, only people who know how to work hard to create fate are the most rational, but how many people can grasp it and cherish it when fate comes! Fate is beautiful, fate is the same as love, it is an ancient topic, and fate also needs to be carefully cared for, fate is not poetry, but it is more beautiful than poetry, fate is not wine, but it is more fragrant than wine. Love knows no distance or region, in the sky of fate, fate is not never far away, cherish your fate, treat your love well.

Don't wait for the loss of empty resentment.

Of course it will, because people are very handsome, and then people are very good. There is nothing to regret about marrying him. So, if I had to go back in time, I would still marry my current husband. Because I will be happy for the rest of my life.

If it were me, I wouldn't be marrying him! Love is definitely not something to eat! I chose him for love, but my current result is really tragic! So it won't!

Yes, if I go back in time, I hope that the first person I meet is my husband, so that I can avoid a lot of detours.