Eleven s ex girlfriend suddenly took the initiative to contact me when he returned home

She still has the idea that you want to be together I don't know how she got through a month after you broke up But since you have broken up, there is no need to continue to contact Of course, if you think that you also have the same idea as her Get married at a certain age Then there is no way Since you broke up, just do it You have to know that you are very good and can find someone you are more satisfied with Why rush Don't agree to your ex-girlfriend's proposal Later, you found your other half, but she didn't What if you are found to be responsible Don't be depressed The future is bright, ignore her, although you have to give women respect, besides, don't mess with promises, I wish you happiness.

Use you as a lifebuoy, this woman can't ask for it.

I'm sorry to tell you: you are the legendary "spare tire", I guess she wants to play enough outside, it's better when someone wants it, and then find you to marry when no one wants it, do you say that it makes sense for such a woman to find you when the time comes? We're not apologists, but if you didn't know each other before, it doesn't matter if you know each other again.

Because you can't grasp her past, all you do is later. Such a woman will only maintain a relationship with friends in the future, and friends just don't contact each other often and think about it occasionally.

She is riding a donkey to find a horse, that is, upstairs, when you are a "spare tire".

The above words, the landlord should know what it means, I won't explain it deeply.

You shouldn't ignore her, because you've broken up and have nothing to do with each other, so you shouldn't ignore her.

She should be ignored. In such a situation, I think you should communicate with the other party in a timely manner, and then you should also ask about the other party's intentions.

The other party should not be ignored. Because the two of you have broken up, there is no need to dwell on it, otherwise it will affect the lives of both of you.

Summary. I think there are no two possibilities for your ex-girlfriend to contact you suddenly, there is only one possibility, and that is to want to get back together with you, unless you haven't dealt with your affairs after breaking up, and there are emotional disputes or financial disputes!

Two possibilities for my ex-girlfriend to contact me out of the blue.

I think there are no two possibilities for your ex-girlfriend to contact you suddenly, there is only one possibility, and that is to want to get back together with you, unless you haven't dealt with your affairs after breaking up, and there are emotional disputes or financial disputes!

So what did you break up about before? Let me help you analyze it and see if it is possible to get back together with you?

There is also no specific thing.

So he is contacting you now, has he communicated anything with you?

Did you communicate after your breakup? What is his attitude and reaction to you?

There's no specific thing, maybe it's a different place, and then she's going to get married, and then it doesn't work out, and then she contacts me again, and I feel like I have each other in my heart, but I can't be together.

Then you can tell it, and I will help you analyze it and give you methods and suggestions.

1. Auto-copy ignorance.

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Most of the people who choose to ignore it automatically. Because in this situation, any response you make will reconnect the relationship. If you don't want to ruin your current peaceful life, or if you still hold a grudge against the other person in your heart, then automatic ignorance can be said to be a good solution, no matter what the other person's reason for looking for you, no matter what the purpose is, and continue to be a stranger to each other.

2. Deal with it calmly.

If you still don't understand what your ex means to you, then when the other person contacts you out of the blue, all you need to do is stay calm and figure out why and why they are looking for you first. If they are coming to you to get back together, you need to consider the actual situation, and if you have a new lover now, then you must not make mistakes and make some choices that you regret; If they are just looking for you to solve their loneliness, and they already have their own family, don't cross the thunder pool. Either way, it's the right thing to do to test the other person first, and then deal with it calmly.

3. Take the initiative.

This is based on the fact that you are still single and still have feelings for your ex, so you can choose to take the initiative. No matter what the reason and purpose of the other person coming to you is, as long as the other person is also single, they can continue to be together.

Happiness is to be fought for by yourself, since you can't let go, then let go of your bottom and pursue it bravely. Don't care about what you have experienced in the past, since there are new opportunities, you can choose a new beginning.

If you want to say goodbye to the past, be clean, even if your ex-girlfriend suddenly appears, you can face it calmly, unmoved, and greet life with a smile.

I will decisively refuse, since I am already an ex-girlfriend, there is no need to contact the other party, there is no need to destroy the current status quo of each other.

I'll leave it alone. Because it's an ex-girlfriend after all, and then I don't have any feelings for her anymore, so don't waste time on giving her hope anymore.

I don't think I'm going to give any reply, and I don't want any more involvement between the two of us, and I don't want my current girlfriend to misunderstand.

Summary. Dear, if you're single right now. If you still have feelings for her, then you can reply like this.

I've always loved you in my heart, but I didn't dare to contact you.

My ex-girlfriend, who I haven't been in touch with for a long time, suddenly contacted me.

Hello. Hello dear, it means that your ex-girlfriend misses you and wants to listen to your voice and see what you have been doing lately.

Dear, if there is still hope for getting back together, then this is also an opportunity to get back together.

Dear, please reply to it if you receive it, so that we can help you analyze it correctly

My ex-girlfriend, who hasn't been in touch for a long time, suddenly said to me, do you feel like I'm just an ordinary friend now, how should I answer her, we almost entered the palace of marriage 4 years ago, dear, if you are also single now. If you still have feelings for her, then you can reply like this. I've always loved you in my heart, but I didn't dare to contact you.

Dear, can you tell us about your previous problems?

Yesterday I unintentionally saw her Douyin, entered her page, looked at her **, and instantly remembered this girl, the person I once loved deeply, there may be visitor records, she also went to my Douyin, and then contacted me today, sent a message, said a lot of words, and chatted very well, but suddenly asked me at night, do you feel like only ordinary friends to me, how should I do her.

Pro, positive.

Dear, since you have such a happy chat, it means that you still have that tacit understanding between you.

Dear, do you have any plans or ideas for your current relationship status?

We were separated for four years, when we were together, her parents also liked me, after separation, after two years I talked about someone, and then for various reasons I couldn't be together, today I also mentioned it to her, she asked me, I got her.

Dear, if you find it inconvenient to type, you can also consult by voice.

Dear, although you have been separated for four years, you are silently thinking of each other in your hearts. This shows that there is a kind of fate between you that has been with each other for thousands of years.

Dear, this kind of fate and this kind of affection should cherish her.

Dear, are you worried that the other party has been separated for so long, will there be changes, and I don't know if the other party's thoughts are this concern?