The person I like confesses to me, why don t I want to be with him?

If someone you like confesses to you, then you should be happy and excited right now, but you will also cool your heart as quickly as possible. This is a girl's unique attitude towards love. You may be confessing to someone you like for the first time.

And the number of times you have been confessed should be few or none.

Calm down with the fastest attitude and prove that you are a very sensible girl, what do you think is the reason why you don't want to be with him? It's because all your previous fantasies and expectations for him are something akin to a challenge. You're not really looking forward to making progress with him, but hopefully:

You like him, he likes you, that's enough. You don't want to be limited to just the two of you.

Such a sudden cooling will bring some sense of astonishment to the other party, and I believe that when he confesses to you, you must have revealed to him: you have some feelings for him. That's why he boldly confessed to you, but if you do it later, he must be very depressed.

In fact, there are many girls who feel like this, like someone, that person likes themselves, maybe this person is not so important. Most of the people who can really be together in the end may be compromised. It's rarely because you like me, I like you, we're together, so you need to be more open-minded to tolerate each other.

This is a great blow and pressure on both sides, and it is also an unforgettable experience.

Because only in this way will there be a true love in front of you, and you will know what it means to really like. And if it's because he likes you, you don't like him anymore, that's a normal thing. Because you need to think calmly about what the two of you are going to go through.

At the same time, what you have to think about, can you still be friends and appreciate each other in the future?

You don't have to care now, you don't have to worry about what you think now, why don't you suddenly want to be with him? It's something you need to think about: do you want to maintain a friendship with him that you must appreciate each other, or do you really intend to be with him?

One is to appreciate each other, and the other is to be considerate and take care of each other. Hope you can understand, what exactly is like? What is Love?

There will be many boys who will confess to you in the future. You can think about it, what are the characteristics that these boys have in common? And what do you really like about them?

You have to know that the reason why you don't want to be with them is because you have thought about it calmly, you must have just gone and thought about whether you would feel comfortable with this boy in the future. That's the last decision you make. And I hope you will remember this decision and make up your mind.

Don't easily agree to be a girlfriend with a boy just because of a boy's momentary softness and hard bubbles. You can try to appreciate each other for a while, go through some more things, and finally find out what kind of person this boy is. Why didn't you want to be with him before?

There are many people who may not understand your question, why do you like someone confess to you but you don't want to be with her, some people think I can't catch up, are you showing something when you say this kind of thing. I can totally understand your feelings and feelings. Because I had the same experience.

When I was in high school, I liked a girl in the next class, but the cruel thing is that the two of us basically have no intersection in life, and to the extent of embarrassment, that is, my circle of friends and her circle of friends do not intersect. So for three whole years, we didn't even have a chance to say a word, not because I didn't take the initiative, but because I was afraid to say that we wouldn't even have to be friends in the future. Now I really believe in God's will, there are only two people in our whole school to our university, one is her and one is me, I felt that I couldn't be like this, I must find a chance to contact her, and slowly asked her friends in the same department to get to her WeChat, I didn't say who I am, she knew, which surprised me, we began to contact less than a week and she slowly began to take the initiative to ask me to eat and surf the Internet, at that time the mood of those days was really a little scratchy, not that she was not bad but always felt something wrong.

It's that her image in my heart suddenly changed, I could only see her back before, but now I can see all of her. I just feel that what I want is coming too quickly, so fast that I am caught off guard, beyond my expectations, if she refuses me directly, I will definitely not be in this mood, but feel a little natural. <>

The feeling is that what you want is too easy to get. On the contrary, I don't like it so much, because I didn't do anything, it's easy to get, and when I am together, I find that she is not as perfect as I imagined, this is a common psychological behavior, don't feel guilty about yourself, emotion is something that can be done with your heart, what you really like and want, is the best for you!

This kind of mental illness seems to be a kind of mental illness, the scientific name is lithromantic, this mental illness is that you like someone, but when the person you like starts to like you, you no longer like him, and even start to dislike him.

I also have this kind of problem, in fact, when I was in junior high school, I had a person I liked, and my grades were on par with his, so in the past, we used to compete for the first place between the two of us, and we secretly fought with him. Because my handwriting is better and his drawing is very good, we are always arranged to go to the blackboard newspaper together. I've been fighting for a long time.,I suddenly feel that he's very special.,And his personality is pretty good.,I don't know if I like it anyway, I like the feeling of being with him.。

Once, when he had a birthday, he invited some friends, including me, of course, and I thought I might like him, so it was more obvious that I thought about him in everything. Maybe he also noticed it, in the third year of junior high school, I felt that he was avoiding me during that time, and I was quite frustrated. But one time during a spring outing, he suddenly came up to me and stuffed a note for me.

When I saw that it was pink letterhead, I was a little bit of a fawn. After opening the letter, it was a request, the first happy thing in life, the person I liked was able to like me.

However, when he began to like me, I began to feel inferior, and I didn't know where I could make him like me, and as this emotion continued to ferment, I could only start to avoid him, pretending not to see him. I was also sad, but I couldn't convince my heart. After that, we went to different high schools, and the relationship ended without a hitch.

Maybe you have your own ideas that now is not the time for you to be together, or it may be that you lack trust in each other and are afraid that others will deceive your feelings, I think you don't always want to be optimistic in the bad direction when you encounter things, since you also like each other, then you can try to develop with him, which is also a good practice.

I think your situation is like a lyric in Eason Chan's Red Rose, what you can't get is always in turmoil, and those who are loved have no fear, you shouldn't get it so you want to get it, but when you really get it, you don't want it, many people are like this, so there will be a routine of lust and indulgence on the Internet, that is, to hang your appetite is to let you cherish it if you can't get it, and you will feel that it is necessary for him.

Maybe you like it, but it feels like two people may not be so good to live together.

Maybe it's because you haven't thought it through, or you haven't accepted the fact yet, you can think again.

In this case, it may be that he is difficult to hide his true feelings, but it may also be that he deliberately makes you feel it, which may be in several situations: First, you are not the only person he likes. People live in this society, interact with many people, and feel that there is more than one person who is in line with their hearts.

When it's not sure which one is ultimately the object of their pursuit, Hope keeps in touch with them. After repeated screening and selection, the final choice can be made. Second, he may also have his own sweetheart, but he also looks at you in line with his ideals, and it is also the type he wants to pursue.

He doesn't want to lose his old sweetheart, but he also wants to get you. Therefore he hesitates, neither daring to confess to you, nor willing to stay away from you. Third, maybe this person is a little introverted and not good at expressing himself.

He thinks a lot in his heart, and he is not the kind of person who goes straight. He loves you very much in his heart, but he is afraid that he will be rejected by you when he confesses to you. Because he was afraid that if he refused, he wouldn't even have to be a friend in the future.

This kind of person is a bit indecisive, but rich in inner thoughts. Think more and do less. If you have a crush on this person, you can learn more about him.

If he belongs to the third type of person, you should no longer expect to let him take the initiative . You can talk to him and open your heart. Love doesn't have to be a boy to take the initiative, for the kind of boy who is not good at expressing himself, a girl can take the initiative.

After that, he will take the initiative to contact you and interact with you in the future. In fact, there are many emotions that are created and do not have a confessional connection point established by the question. So I don't think it's important to confess.

There is no need to care about how the other party has not confessed yet, there is no romantic proposal, it is good to be together when the situation of the two of them is happy, happy.

The worst part is that everything is your own self-inflicted passion, and there is no such thing as liking. This will take more time to investigate.

It's possible that he hasn't found a particularly good time yet, so he hasn't confessed to you. It's also possible that he doesn't know your mind well, so he doesn't want to bother you too much, and wants to confess to you after you like him.

It's possible that so far, he doesn't have the courage to do so, and he may not feel that the time is right, so he hasn't confessed to you.

Knowing that he likes you, the reason why he doesn't confess may be that he still needs to get along for a long time, and he feels that he loves you very much, and then confesses to you.

Now that you already know, I think you can also go and confess to him, because don't miss some opportunities, otherwise you may regret it later.

I like you, but he doesn't confess to you, another reason is that he is afraid that you don't like him, and another is that you can confess to him, if you don't help him confess, he sometimes has a certain feeling, that you may still have someone you like.

You know that the other person likes you, but he has not confessed to you, which means that the other person may not have thought about how to express it to you, if you are interesting to him, you can give him some hints during the usual communication.

Maybe the other party just likes you, so they don't dare to confess to you.

I'm afraid that after confessing, you say that you don't like each other, and you may not even have to be friends.

Hello, maybe you feel more indifferent to him and make him afraid to confess to you, you can try to be a little more enthusiastic about him and make him more confident.

I think it may be that he is not very confident, or he is afraid of being rejected by you, and he will not even be able to be a friend at that time, so he has not confessed to you.

If you don't receive each other's confession, your relationship has not reached the moment of being together, don't be suspicious of each other's feelings.

You are waiting for the other party to confess, maybe the other party is also waiting for you to confess, in fact, it doesn't have to be a boy to confess first, you can also confess.

Maybe it's because of shyness, you can push him to confess, tell him that he has someone he likes, and he will confess in a hurry.

I know that the other person likes you, but he has not confessed to you because he feels that you do not know each other very well.

Because he wasn't sure what you wanted, and he thought that he would be rejected if he confessed, he didn't confess.

Feeling like you don't have the right time or not being confident enough in yourself, not knowing where you fit in your heart, and being afraid of failure.

Maybe he's secretly planning a surprise, how do you know that he likes you, it can't be that you think too much.

If you like him, just ask. But I think that a definite liking should be a confession.

He has his own ideas, he has his own mental burden, or he is 10 points shy and introverted.

I know he likes me, I know he likes me, but why hasn't he confessed to me?

Why hasn't he confessed to me yet?

Are you sure you love him very much? Why you love someone very much but don't want to be with him, this kind of emotion and thought is a bit puzzling. There is a person who loves him very much, and we are all trying to get him to be with him.

I think it should be that you love him so tired and humble, that he can't see your dedication and love with him, so this kind of giving makes you feel powerless, tired, and want to give up and escape, to put it bluntly, you may not love so much. One thing is for sure: the other person doesn't love you that much!

If you don't want to be with him, then separate for a while, let your relationship have a buffer period, let both parties calm down and think about the meaning and destination of your relationship, if everything is not as expected, then look for the next beginning ...... of your own

Love is too embarrassed to suffer yourself, and some people can't stand it!