What should I do if I feel more comfortable alone than with my boyfriend?

I have also encountered such a situation, because I have lived alone for a long time, so I feel that I don't know what to do when I get along with others. Sometimes they are too independent and free and forget how to live and get along with others.

The method I take is to try to adapt myself to how to get along with my boyfriend, and tell my boyfriend some of my habits, hoping that he can be tolerant and humble to himself, so that as time goes by, I will be able to get along with my boyfriend well, give a little time, and we will manage the relationship well.

Based on my personal emotional experience, I think if you really think this way, it means that you are starting to get tired of your boyfriend.

I think if I love someone, I want to be with him all the time, even if I can only look at him blankly, I feel very happy. So at this time, you should calm down and think about it, figure out what you really think about this relationship, if you don't love it or feel inappropriate, let it go as soon as possible!

Occasionally, I feel very comfortable being alone, this is a normal situation, I haven't been so chic for a long time, no one cares about what no one asks, it's very free, of course I'll miss it, properly leave some personal space with your boyfriend, make each other comfortable, don't stick together all day, so that there will be no freshness after a long time.

Normally, this should be a problem in the relationship between the two of you, and the root cause should be that you have been together for a long time but nothing has changed, resulting in a lack of freshness.

If you want to feel this way, then I really think that there is something wrong between the two of you, two people in a relationship just want to stick to each other every day and are not willing to separate, if you are like you, I think you should consider whether it is necessary to continue this relationship!

I'm tired of being together for too long, and I don't have a sense of freshness, so I have this kind of thought.

At this time, you might as well try the method of "little biejo wins the newlywed", the two of them will be separated for a period of time, and then each will experience the feeling of not having each other, and then return together when the agreed time comes, at this time you will have a contrast in your heart.

That's because you're tired of being together for too long, separate appropriately, remind your boyfriend, you're too clingy to me, I need to be quiet, if two people are together for a long time every day, they are very eager to be alone, because there is always a person by your side and occasionally feel impatient, and proper separation alone can make each other feel more comfortable.

Maybe it's because you've been together for a long time, there's no freshness, you can be temporarily separated for a while, or it may be because you know each other too well, magnify each other's shortcomings, and take each other's efforts for granted.

You can take the initiative to find a boyfriend.

There are many opportunities for two people to be alone.

It's up to you to fight for it.

It's not that your boyfriend doesn't like you.

I just like to be with friends.

You don't need to think too much.

Normally, men are lower body animals, maybe one day they will do you, if you don't think about it, you have to learn to refuse.

Tell him that although you are a couple, his approach makes you uncomfortable, and that two people need to compromise and run in together, and you should also make a little change, but if he does not accept the proposal to run in, it is his fault.

It seems that men are like this, and so are the most honest and harmless men. Under the guise of falling in love, you have to stick to the last line of defense, don't be blinded by rhetoric, listen to you before you get anything, and don't cherish it if you get it.

It's okay if the relationship is good, but it's okay not to give it if it's not

It's normal, you're her girlfriend, and you want him to touch other women.

If you know a little bit about his character, and you like him, cooperate with him to complete the task.

It's okay, he's your boyfriend, sooner or later, you don't want you to tell him no.

I don't think such a boyfriend is reliable.

If you don't have those actions, it proves that he doesn't like you. You also have to be proactive, not passive.

How old are you? It's normal to fall in love, and if you haven't figured it out to accept him, you have to think about it carefully and be cautious.

Let him touch it! It's not uncomfortable.

Don't you like him? It's normal to fall in love.

If not, then he's even more problematic.

Specifically, whether your boyfriend has violent tendencies or is too ugly or has some special habits, since the word fear has been used, it is recommended to go their own way, so as to get together and disperse.

If you're scared of him, then why should you be with him in the first place? You have to figure out the reason for your fear of him, and if it is because of some matter of principle, then I suggest that you break up with him as soon as possible. If he behaves aggressively, he can turn to his parents or the police.

Very simple. You don't want to think that way because you care too much about other people's feelings. That's why I asked.

If you don't think you want to hurt the other person. It's about separating early. There is no need to find a reason.

I don't want to deal with it. I don't like you anymore. That's it.

Otherwise, if you are not happy, he will be alone with you, and he will not be held by the hand, and you are still afraid of him, and he will be unhappy.

The first thing to do is to figure out what you are afraid of him, and only then can you further determine what to do. If there is no reason, it is inexplicably fearful, is it because you are too inferior? Take it easy, it's a happy thing to find a boyfriend, don't wronged yourself.

Personal opinion, I hope it helps you, thank you.

Actually, I'm the same as you, but I'm in love phobia, and those hateful TV series always say something about breaking up and breaking up, which makes me always afraid.

Then you should have a sense of security in this relationship, and you have to restrain your inner fear, you are always so estranged, what does the other party think, you can communicate your thoughts to him.

Tell him what you really think, talk to him sincerely, and the two of you will overcome it together, if he is the right person.

Maybe you've had a kind of fright in your heart. But don't worry about anything, since it's your boyfriend, he will definitely respect you, and the man who doesn't know how to respect the woman doesn't want to... You can try to take it slowly, you can make a small amount of contact slowly.

For example, holding hands, being able to chat alone in a crowded place, slowly adapting to a world where there are only the two of you... Adjust your mindset. Hope it helps.

Do you do this to all men, or only to him?

I used to have a girlfriend who had 2-3 boyfriends, but she just didn't want to be close to them, she was afraid to even hold hands, and she felt that men were bad. She is now married. Here's why:

It turned out that I didn't meet the right person. When you encounter it, you don't have to be afraid.

Then why do you have this fear, you have to find out your own problems before you can solve them!

Maybe this man is very macho and makes you feel restricted at every turn, with a sense of fear; Maybe he is still impulsive and you don't have a sense of security and trust with him. There is only one answer to such a question: break up.

Now that's the case, imagine if you really be together will you be happy? You'll spend your days worrying about doing something wrong, and you'll do your best to please him. Many things will happen, and there will be only one result:

You buried your own happiness. So, there is no doubt about the breakup. But maybe there's one more problem:

Don't you dare to talk to him? Hehe, that's too speechless.

As a single dog, of course, it is persuaded to part.

Prove that you don't like him. Break up, lest you harm others.

Forget the one you hide in your heart.

I rubbed my love to this.

What else is there to say.

Let's get out of here.

There's nothing to say, it's a shot and a half.

I had to break up quickly. As soon as possible.

What are you afraid of? Here's what you need to figure out.

Will he force you? If not, get used to it.

It's normal, the inevitable process of love, it will be like this for a long time, when he is around, he feels like that, he can't bear the loneliness when he is not around, and he will miss him when he thinks of his goodness.

Desire for free space. But I'm afraid of being lonely. It's normal. Girls will always feel this way. This is always the case when you get married.

Longing to be loved and at the same time yearning for freedom, go with the flow!

Maybe I'm not used to it. Find out what causes you to be together and want to separate, and then fix it. I wish you all happiness!

Desire for free space. But I'm afraid of being lonely. It's normal. Girls will always feel this way.

I don't have this kind of thought when I get married!

I want to have my own private space, and I have each other in my heart.

I'm afraid of being lonely, but I don't like my boyfriend very much.

That's the man you didn't believe in you at all.

That's what people are. What is in front of you will not be cherished too much.

This is a kind of anti-psychology, just like students who want to take a vacation after going to school, and want to go to school after a vacation.

It's a simple truth.

Love each other but want to have their own space.

It's normal to be like this, tangled psychology.

You're funny, that's why it's like this